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WHAT IS GOING ON HERE? :-(
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10 May 2007 Thu 11:15 pm |
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Quoting istanbulrox: Hey Tommysbar,
I completely agree with you, if transalations are such an issue then those with the "issue" should avoid that part of the forum. |
I dont find translations an issue per se, but it does bother me about the content of some translation requests. You can actaully unravel someones whole life in a few posts. Is that what you all really want?
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10 May 2007 Thu 11:19 pm |
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Without reading back through all the comments here, I just am not understanding why the word cruel keeps popping up? What has been said that is cruel?
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11 May 2007 Fri 12:33 am |
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Yes, the content of many of the translations is truly heart breaking but had I not read them, maybe I woudnt have felt so alone. As unfortunate as it may be, it was nice to know that there was someone else that I could relate to. REgardless though, it is diturbing to know how frequently these heartbreaks occur and I know first hand that even if you significant other speaks perfect english, the point just seems to get across much better in his language, hence my reasoning for posting my dirty laundry on occasion.
On another hand, however, I'm just a name here. No one knows me personally or anything other than what I post on this site.
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11 May 2007 Fri 01:38 am |
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exactly my point too I am just a name on here i dont use anybodys real name Im not that silly..I just dont understand what the big deal is some people really do need these translations
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11 May 2007 Fri 02:19 am |
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Quoting libralady: Quoting istanbulrox: Hey Tommysbar,
I completely agree with you, if transalations are such an issue then those with the 'issue' should avoid that part of the forum. |
I dont find translations an issue per se, but it does bother me about the content of some translation requests. You can actaully unravel someones whole life in a few posts. Is that what you all really want? |
Why does it BOTHER YOU what contents are in some of these translation requests? Everyone here has the right to request a translation and everyone here also has the right to either help with the translation request or not, it's their choice. You don't have to read it if you don't want too.
I personally feel that it's not such a big deal for these women to post some of their personal issues, sometimes it can help another to avoid getting into the same situation or just to be cautious. Also this is a hard time for them and what would be better then to share this with someone who knows what you are going through and has been there herself and If it helps to ease their pain then so be it!
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11 May 2007 Fri 02:51 am |
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Quoting reBooped:
No I don't think I misunderstood you Sui - but I was meaning that it has to be equal true love for there to be a chance of things working out despite all the obstacles. If you both feel the same then at least you have a chance for it to work....
kendine iyi bak
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Thank you for your wish... to be able to sacrifise somethings... you should love so much than you can love yourself... then you prefer to hurt yourself, than hurting the person you love... with breaking up... coz you see there is no way out...
so to come this situation... you should have passed the state true love or equal love... why would we have to name love anyway or measure? you just can love as much as you feel... and you get as much as you give... you cant even call it love if there is no share about giving and taking...
and there comes a moment, love gets tired from fighting... you cant blame it for that... how can you ask for it to fight more... it is tired... it bleeds... it will die if you still push it...
then even though you dont want... you just say pretendingly..."let it go my heart, set it free"...
something like that... it appeared as i am talking to myself... whatever!
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11 May 2007 Fri 01:27 pm |
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Quoting cat_leo: Quoting libralady: Quoting istanbulrox: Hey Tommysbar,
I completely agree with you, if transalations are such an issue then those with the 'issue' should avoid that part of the forum. |
I dont find translations an issue per se, but it does bother me about the content of some translation requests. You can actaully unravel someones whole life in a few posts. Is that what you all really want? |
Why does it BOTHER YOU what contents are in some of these translation requests? Everyone here has the right to request a translation and everyone here also has the right to either help with the translation request or not, it's their choice. You don't have to read it if you don't want too.
I personally feel that it's not such a big deal for these women to post some of their personal issues, sometimes it can help another to avoid getting into the same situation or just to be cautious. Also this is a hard time for them and what would be better then to share this with someone who knows what you are going through and has been there herself and If it helps to ease their pain then so be it! |
I don't read the posts and you are right if someone wants to let their lives be public then so be it. Just not my style. Looks like we have reached a consensus.
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11 May 2007 Fri 04:59 pm |
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Yes it does those who wish to ask for translations regarding their personal lives so be it and those ones who dont want to know about someones personal life.. just dont bother reading them simple conclusion really.
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11 May 2007 Fri 05:12 pm |
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hello, i am turkish man. i was with American girl almost for a year. than we had fight and we broke up, the next day i went to Turkey, because i was so sick of from everything i had here in USA.
firstof all , she was lying me too much. i guess she does to everyone. she cheated on me with her ex, than i could never trust her. and the last time , when i was looikng her myspace i saw she added a few new guy, than i sent them mail and asked them, how u guys met?
all of them wrote me back and they told me she added them, she said them , u look familiar to me........ kind of this things.
when i said that to her, she said no , they are lying to u, they add me.
my point is all of the guys on myspace lier,but my ex is not lier. this is not possible, all of them said that she add them, so i didnt believe my ex, and we broken up.
And this is the not first fight of us because of lying.
she was lying to much, she was selfish. and after she cheated on me with her ex, i could never trust her again, i had to end this that time, but i ended atleast now.
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11 May 2007 Fri 06:18 pm |
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Quoting turk teacher: hello, i am turkish man. i was with American girl almost for a year. than we had fight and we broke up, the next day i went to Turkey, because i was so sick of from everything i had here in USA.
firstof all , she was lying me too much. i guess she does to everyone. she cheated on me with her ex, than i could never trust her. and the last time , when i was looikng her myspace i saw she added a few new guy, than i sent them mail and asked them, how u guys met?
all of them wrote me back and they told me she added them, she said them , u look familiar to me........ kind of this things.
when i said that to her, she said no , they are lying to u, they add me.
my point is all of the guys on myspace lier,but my ex is not lier. this is not possible, all of them said that she add them, so i didnt believe my ex, and we broken up.
And this is the not first fight of us because of lying.
she was lying to much, she was selfish. and after she cheated on me with her ex, i could never trust her again, i had to end this that time, but i ended atleast now.
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i've had similar experience i got really skeptical about my ex and all those girls on his list and although he denied everything i still don't know for sure what's real and what's not til this day, and he's american too
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11 May 2007 Fri 06:50 pm |
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I can't believe MYspace was just brought up. What is it about that website that kills relationships? I use that website to keep in touch with friends back in the states, not to meet men. I know a lot of my girlfriends are the same way. The funny thing is though, that ALOT of turkish men i know here, use it as a new arena to meet women. They scan profiles and randomly email girls from across the planet expecting who knows what.
Anyway when i had a boyfriend it was such an issue, it was exhausting to keep fighting over it.
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