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to be religious or to be ethical ,which one is priority?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:36 pm |
if we can find to true alternative i think will not much need to discussion about beliefs?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:40 pm |
Good question To me, it sometimes seems that to be religious is only to protect yourself (or soul) so its selfish. To be ethical is to be concerned for other people (so is unselfish)...
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:43 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Good question To me, it sometimes seems that to be religious is only to protect yourself (or soul) so its selfish. To be ethical is to be concerned for other people (so is unselfish)... |
+1 and i believe that to be believer or not a personal matter but to be ethical more common or more objective so have big role for social life..
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:43 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: To me, it sometimes seems that to be religious is only to protect yourself (or soul) so its selfish. .. |
i dont know how it is in other religions but in islam to be religious is not selfish about 2/3 of koran is about social life.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:45 pm |
Quoting ciko: Quoting AEnigma III: To me, it sometimes seems that to be religious is only to protect yourself (or soul) so its selfish. .. |
i dont know how it is in other religions but in islam to be religious is not selfish about 2/3 of koran is about social life. |
About social life WITH OTHER MUSLIMS
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:47 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: Quoting AEnigma III: To me, it sometimes seems that to be religious is only to protect yourself (or soul) so its selfish. .. |
i dont know how it is in other religions but in islam to be religious is not selfish about 2/3 of koran is about social life. |
About social life WITH OTHER MUSLIMS  |
about people around you.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:50 pm |
to find common trues easier on moral rules i think,but to set a storng agrement not to easy for religion rules..so i think to catch moral rules more usefulll and easier..
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:51 pm |
Hmmm ok then please explain this story A well known journalist in the UK, who is normally a foreign correspondent in Arab countries (and has many friends there) recently made a series of documentaries in the UK about the immigrant muslim community. What he discovered horrified him.
In the UK, many muslims live an ENTIRELY separate life. They create a separate part of each town and NEVER venture out of it. They use their own public transport and even their own taxi services only. The ones who agreed to be interviewed said that they did not want to socialise in any way with English people because they were "evil".
He managed to interview a 10 year old girl, born in England, and asked "how many English people do you know, or have you met, in your life".
Her reply?
"One, my teacher"
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:52 pm |
Quoting MrX67: if we can find to true alternative i think will not much need to discussion about beliefs? |
İ dont undestand even the question MrX,
İts strange too.
Who said religions 'ALL religions' dont order good ethics ?
So there is no 'or' here.
İf you are religious,you should have good ethics too.
As i said,SHOULD,but some aply them and some dont.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:54 pm |
Strange,but not in religion .
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:54 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Hmmm ok then please explain this story A well known journalist in the UK, who is normally a foreign correspondent in Arab countries (and has many friends there) recently made a series of documentaries in the UK about the immigrant muslim community. What he discovered horrified him.
In the UK, many muslims live an ENTIRELY separate life. They create a separate part of each town and NEVER venture out of it. They use their own public transport and even their own taxi services only. The ones who agreed to be interviewed said that they did not want to socialise in any way with English people because they were "evil".
He managed to interview a 10 year old girl, born in England, and asked "how many English people do you know, or have you met, in your life".
Her reply?
"One, my teacher"  |
so what? can you say to be religious is selfish only according to this? it is stupid of some arabic muslims in UK. nothing more.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:55 pm |
Quoting CANLI: Quoting MrX67: if we can find to true alternative i think will not much need to discussion about beliefs? |
İ dont undestand even the question MrX,
İts strange too.
Who said religions 'ALL religions' dont order good ethics ?
So there is no 'or' here.
İf you are religious,you should have good ethics too.
As i said,SHOULD,but some aply them and some dont. |
well i never deny functions and necessary of beliefs or religions Canlı,i just try to say thats only between God and person,so to set a social agremenet easier with ethical rules,and i bet you know history full with many big bloddy religion wars...
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:56 pm |
Quoting ciko: so what? can you say to be religious is selfish only according to this? it is stupid of some arabic muslims in UK. nothing more. |
No this was not about selfishness. You said that in Islam it has many social rules about people around you.
Here was my example of them..
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:57 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Hmmm ok then please explain this story A well known journalist in the UK, who is normally a foreign correspondent in Arab countries (and has many friends there) recently made a series of documentaries in the UK about the immigrant muslim community. What he discovered horrified him.
In the UK, many muslims live an ENTIRELY separate life. They create a separate part of each town and NEVER venture out of it. They use their own public transport and even their own taxi services only. The ones who agreed to be interviewed said that they did not want to socialise in any way with English people because they were "evil".
He managed to interview a 10 year old girl, born in England, and asked "how many English people do you know, or have you met, in your life".
Her reply?
"One, my teacher"  |
We have many of these "sub-communities" here in America too. But to be honest, when my mother's family came here from Italy they did not socialize outside their community for a long time. And when my father's family came here from Ireland, there were signs in store windows saying "NO IRISH" and when they posted jobs in news papers there were captions like, "NO IRISH NEED APPLY", so the Irish were almost forced to stay amoungst themselves. It has happened many times here but eventually everyone integrated. I think/hope it will be the same for England.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 05:58 pm |
and i think thats a part of human nature,we mostly prefer to hard things while the easy and usefull things waiting us with their all charm
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:02 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: so what? can you say to be religious is selfish only according to this? it is stupid of some arabic muslims in UK. nothing more. |
No this was not about selfishness. You said that in Islam it has many social rules about people around you.
Here was my example of them.. |
yes thank you for your example and i am telling you that the example is not representing islam.. but you are right ..70 % muslims get islam wrong. islam for them means only covering up and praying..so i cannot blame you to think like that it is our own fault
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:08 pm |
i think the name of our TC will be TURKISH LANGUAGE CLASS
AND RELIGIONS
What happened all threads talk about RELIGIONS
i forget learn turkish becausse these threads :-S
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:09 pm |
Heheh well its endlessly fascinating to me. I learn more from here than I ever would from English muslims (because they wont talk to me )
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:10 pm |
Quoting elham: i think the name of our TC will be TURKISH LANGUAGE CLASS
AND RELIGIONS
What happened all threads talk about RELIGIONS
i forget learn turkish becausse these threads :-S
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are you complaining? i dont think it is so bad to discuss religions ...as long as we respect and dont insult eachother
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:11 pm |
Quoting elham: i think the name of our TC will be TURKISH LANGUAGE CLASS
AND RELIGIONS
What happened all threads talk about RELIGIONS
i forget learn turkish becausse these threads :-S
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there are planty Turkish here waiting for help whenever you need Elham,no worries
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:11 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Heheh well its endlessly fascinating to me. I learn more from here than I ever would from English muslims (because they wont talk to me ) |
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ...easy..get a koran and read it you can see if it is about social life or just selfish things then
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:14 pm |
Quoting ciko:
..70 % muslims get islam wrong. islam for them means only covering up and praying..so i cannot blame you to think like that it is our own fault |
İ agree with you cıko,not all people who pray and wear scarves are good people
They can do that and lie
And its not only in İslam,but in every religion.
But i guess that percentage is not right tho
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:15 pm |
Quoting ciko: Quoting AEnigma III: Heheh well its endlessly fascinating to me. I learn more from here than I ever would from English muslims (because they wont talk to me ) |
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ...easy..get a koran and read it you can see if it is about social life or just selfish things then |
Well..apparently this is not the answer We had previous threads here where people said they had read the Koran and the answer they got was "You know nothing! The translation to English is BAD! You cannot get all you need from reading it, you know nothing"
So I guess it would be a waste of time
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:17 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: Quoting AEnigma III: Heheh well its endlessly fascinating to me. I learn more from here than I ever would from English muslims (because they wont talk to me ) |
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ...easy..get a koran and read it you can see if it is about social life or just selfish things then |
Well..apparently this is not the answer We had previous threads here where people said they had read the Koran and the answer they got was "You know nothing! The translation to English is BAD! You cannot get all you need from reading it, you know nothing"
So I guess it would be a waste of time  |
i have an english version translated by an english muslim who traveled throughout islam world and and knows arabic very very well...
if you think it is waste of time you will never have right to comment about qoran
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:19 pm |
Quoting MrX67: Quoting elham: i think the name of our TC will be TURKISH LANGUAGE CLASS
AND RELIGIONS
What happened all threads talk about RELIGIONS
i forget learn turkish becausse these threads :-S
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there are planty Turkish here waiting for help whenever you need Elham,no worries |
tesekkur ederim
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:20 pm |
Quoting ciko: if you think it is waste of time you will never have right to comment about qoran |
I dont!
The point is, that unless you are a muslim, your viewpoint will never "matter" just because you read the Koran. It makes no difference to some people.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:25 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: if you think it is waste of time you will never have right to comment about qoran |
I dont!
The point is, that unless you are a muslim, your viewpoint will never "matter" just because you read the Koran. It makes no difference to some people. |
i mean you should read qoran to understand the religion, not to make SOME people here agree with you
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:27 pm |
i think thats better to find more common things then to make deeper to diverisities and i believe common things' road pass on from objective minds or thinkings
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:29 pm |
Quoting MrX67: i think thats better to find more common things then to make deeper to diverisities |
no arguement? no no it would be boring
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:31 pm |
Quoting ciko: Quoting MrX67: i think thats better to find more common things then to make deeper to diverisities |
no arguement? no no it would be boring |
no no,sure arguament,life is really yuck without it,but when become productive
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:37 pm |
Quoting ciko: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: if you think it is waste of time you will never have right to comment about qoran |
I dont!
The point is, that unless you are a muslim, your viewpoint will never "matter" just because you read the Koran. It makes no difference to some people. |
i mean you should read qoran to understand the religion, not to make SOME people here agree with you |
I never use the Koran to make people agree with me?! What on earth would I want you to agree with me about that is in the Koran?
I have read many many parts of the Koran, but not from start to finish. I never EVER pretend to know any detail about Islam!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:47 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: if you think it is waste of time you will never have right to comment about qoran |
I dont!
The point is, that unless you are a muslim, your viewpoint will never "matter" just because you read the Koran. It makes no difference to some people. |
i mean you should read qoran to understand the religion, not to make SOME people here agree with you |
I never use the Koran to make people agree with me?! What on earth would I want you to agree with me about that is in the Koran?
I have read many many parts of the Koran, but not from start to finish. I never EVER pretend to know any detail about Islam! |
let me send you my qoran in english can you give your adress?
of course you never use qoran to make people agree with you..but you should not say you guess it is waste of time becasue it makes no difference to some people..what i mean is that you should read it for yourself. and i think you misunderstood me
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:48 pm |
The funny thing is, the Bible and the Koran have so many similarities. The percepted difference between Islam and Christianity and Islam are more political then philosophy. Its amazing how much more Islam is accepted in Canada than in the United States. "We" fear what we don't know. More education all around is the key to all our "differences".
(Am I in the right thread?)
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:50 pm |
Quoting KeithL: The funny thing is, the Bible and the Koran have so many similarities. The percepted difference between Islam and Christianity and Islam are more political then philosophy. Its amazing how much more Islam is accepted in Canada than in the United States. "We" fear what we don't know. More education all around is the key to all our "differences".
(Am I in the right thread?) |
that was what i meant when i said islam is generally about social life
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:51 pm |
Quoting ciko: of course you never use qoran to make people agree with you..but you should not say you guess it is waste of time becasue it makes no difference to some people..what i mean is that you should read it for yourself. and i think you misunderstood me  |
Address is: Aengima, Naughty Lane, West Street, The West
What I meant it....when others have talked of reading the translations of the Koran, they have been told that they have "no idea about the Koran"!!
Also, it seems to me that NOBODY can ever agree on even the simplest things like whether or not you should wear a headscarf (the only part of Koran I saw about this was saying something like you should cover breasts and "adornments"), so if Muslims themselves can never agree, what good would it do me to read it
Have you read the Bible Ciko? From cover to cover?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:54 pm |
Quoting KeithL: The funny thing is, the Bible and the Koran have so many similarities. The percepted difference between Islam and Christianity and Islam are more political then philosophy. Its amazing how much more Islam is accepted in Canada than in the United States. "We" fear what we don't know. More education all around is the key to all our "differences".
(Am I in the right thread?) |
the similarities very normal coz the both religion raised on same area and on a near date,and diversities normal to the both used as a political power during of ages and i think this boh religions's existence each other,especially İslam's Cristianity about the chronology
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:55 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: of course you never use qoran to make people agree with you..but you should not say you guess it is waste of time becasue it makes no difference to some people..what i mean is that you should read it for yourself. and i think you misunderstood me  |
Address is: Aengima, Naughty Lane, West Street, The West
What I meant it....when others have talked of reading the translations of the Koran, they have been told that they have "no idea about the Koran"!!
Also, it seems to me that NOBODY can ever agree on even the simplest things like whether or not you should wear a headscarf (the only part of Koran I saw about this was saying something like you should cover breasts and "adornments"), so if Muslims themselves can never agree, what good would it do me to read it
Have you read the Bible Ciko? From cover to cover? |
hehehe no i have never rad bible because i have never been interested in it.
i agree with you about headscarf..i also have different oppinion about it to others. but if you want to have a general knowledge on islam..you could read its good translation it would help you a little.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:59 pm |
Quoting ciko: hehehe no i have never rad bible because i have never been interested in it. |
Aha! So while you encourage ME to discover about Islam, you do not take the same interest in other cultures?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 07:00 pm |
It shouldn't be so surprising that there are conflicts within Islam. What religion doesnt? The Hebrew religion of course have their "left and right". And look at all the bloodshed (Christain against Christian) in the name of Deity and devotion. Again, these conflicts were always more about power than Jesus the Christ.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 07:02 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: hehehe no i have never rad bible because i have never been interested in it. |
Aha! So while you encourage ME to discover about Islam, you do not take the same interest in other cultures?  |
culture and religion are different things to eachother i love to discover cultures..but am not so willing to know other religions mine is boring enough
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 07:04 pm |
KeithL,surprisingly as it may sound im agreeing with you TOTALY
İ guess for change ,huh ?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 07:08 pm |
Quoting CANLI:
KeithL,surprisingly as it may sound im agreeing with you TOTALY
İ guess for change ,huh ?  |
Ouh! Sounds like an excuse for a party to celebrate
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 07:10 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting CANLI:
KeithL,surprisingly as it may sound im agreeing with you TOTALY
İ guess for change ,huh ?  |
Ouh! Sounds like an excuse for a party to celebrate
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+1000000000000
You know,im in a party mood too.
İts NEEDED
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:02 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Hmmm ok then please explain this story A well known journalist in the UK, who is normally a foreign correspondent in Arab countries (and has many friends there) recently made a series of documentaries in the UK about the immigrant muslim community. What he discovered horrified him.
In the UK, many muslims live an ENTIRELY separate life. They create a separate part of each town and NEVER venture out of it. They use their own public transport and even their own taxi services only. The ones who agreed to be interviewed said that they did not want to socialise in any way with English people because they were "evil".
He managed to interview a 10 year old girl, born in England, and asked "how many English people do you know, or have you met, in your life".
Her reply?
"One, my teacher"  |
i have changed my thoughts about you
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:06 pm |
Quoting ciko:
so what? can you say to be religious is selfish only according to this? it is stupid of some arabic muslims in UK. nothing more. |
well, it is the same with turks in germany btw.
and all different muslim communities in all western european countries.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:08 pm |
I think most religions are based on the intent of having good ethics. I believe they go hand in hand, like a partnership. Without having one to feed the other, you tend to starve. I teach a class in cultural diversity and ethics and most companies in the U.S. have adopted this type of training and education for their colleagues. "We are a diversed nation, unlike others here who would like to pertray us as ignorant.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:12 pm |
Quoting teaschip1: I think most religions are based on the intent of having good ethics. I believe they go hand in hand, like a partnership. Without having one to feed the other, you tend to starve. I teach a class in cultural diversity and ethics and most companies in the U.S. have adopted this type of training and education for their colleagues. "We are a diversed nation, unlike others here who would like to pertray us as ignorant. |
OMG!
I hate this kind of crap. So....I have no religion so it follows I have no ethics eh?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:15 pm |
Quoting ciko:
culture and religion are different things to eachother i love to discover cultures..but am not so willing to know other religions mine is boring enough |
you're wrong! about 90% of culture develops from the religion/belief. you cant get to know the culture without knowing the religion and its history.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:24 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting teaschip1: I think most religions are based on the intent of having good ethics. I believe they go hand in hand, like a partnership. Without having one to feed the other, you tend to starve. I teach a class in cultural diversity and ethics and most companies in the U.S. have adopted this type of training and education for their colleagues. "We are a diversed nation, unlike others here who would like to pertray us as ignorant. |
OMG!
I hate this kind of crap. So....I have no religion so it follows I have no ethics eh? |
I should have saved this for next month. I didn't say you had to be religous, but most people have morals and ethics instilled in you. Even though you may not be religious, I'm sorry to deliver the news to you, but this is the foundation of what religion is based on. What feeds you then?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:26 pm |
Quoting teaschip1: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting teaschip1: I think most religions are based on the intent of having good ethics. I believe they go hand in hand, like a partnership. Without having one to feed the other, you tend to starve. I teach a class in cultural diversity and ethics and most companies in the U.S. have adopted this type of training and education for their colleagues. "We are a diversed nation, unlike others here who would like to pertray us as ignorant. |
OMG!
I hate this kind of crap. So....I have no religion so it follows I have no ethics eh? |
I should have saved this for next month. I didn't say you had to be religous, but most people have morals and ethics instilled in you. Even though you may not be religious, I'm sorry to deliver the news to you, but this is the foundation of what religion is based on. |
Well you DID say that "religion and ethics go hand and hand..without having one to feed the other, you tend to starve" so WHAT ELSE can this mean but that you say I have no ethics!
Actually I am sorry to deliver the news to you, but the foundation of religion is FEAR OF DEATH!!!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:33 pm |
"Fear of Death" for some this maybe true, but who the heck isn't afraid to die? I can tell you that most people who are devoted to their religion receives a much deeper meaning and impact from their practice than just the reassurance of the after life.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:36 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting ciko:
so what? can you say to be religious is selfish only according to this? it is stupid of some arabic muslims in UK. nothing more. |
well, it is the same with turks in germany btw.
and all different muslim communities in all western european countries. |
i have many relatives and friends in Germany. and most of them or their daughters do not wear headscarf. and they are not radical muslims at all. you are generalising as usual
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:36 pm |
So you changed your mind about the foundation of religion? So easily?
Professional sociologists and anthropologists have often wondered what causes religion, and what psychological purpose it serves. Many have also noted that the fear of death provides a reason for various religious beliefs:
“Later functionalists included the anthropologist, Bronishaw Malinowski (1884-1942). In his principal book, Magic, Science and Religion and Other Essays (1948), he wrote that social phenomenon such as religion fulfill a function in relation to human psychological needs. In the case of religion, this function is to provide psychological safeguards against the fear of death and thus give human beings the feeling of mastery over their fate.â€
"The Phenomenon Of Religion" by M. Momen
Equally noted, the astute mind of Einstein also discerned in religion a response to fear of death. Einstein wrote in 1930 that "with primitive man it is above all fear that evokes religious notions - fear of hunger, wild beasts, sickness, death".
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:41 pm |
Quoting ciko: Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting ciko:
so what? can you say to be religious is selfish only according to this? it is stupid of some arabic muslims in UK. nothing more. |
well, it is the same with turks in germany btw.
and all different muslim communities in all western european countries. |
i have many relatives and friends in Germany. and most of them or their daughters do not wear headscarf. and they are not radical muslims at all. you are generalising as usual |
your friends are not the whole muslim communities, if you dont mind. there are millions of them who create sort of gettos in many cities and dont mix up with others.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:45 pm |
No, I haven't changed my mind at all. Einstein was also an intravert, so it's no wonder he had these opinions. Who the heck did he have to look forward to seeing, when he died.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:45 pm |
Everyone has natural ethics if they receive a loving childhood. Ethics are born of empathy which is created by nurture.
Unfortunately in the UK we are breeding a percentage of clinically diagnosed psychopaths incapable of empathy and therefore unethical, purely due to lack of love and neglect.
Don't tell me that ethics have anything to do with religion
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:46 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting ciko: Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting ciko:
so what? can you say to be religious is selfish only according to this? it is stupid of some arabic muslims in UK. nothing more. |
well, it is the same with turks in germany btw.
and all different muslim communities in all western european countries. |
i have many relatives and friends in Germany. and most of them or their daughters do not wear headscarf. and they are not radical muslims at all. you are generalising as usual |
your friends are not the whole muslim communities, if you dont mind. there are millions of them who create sort of gettos in many cities and dont mix up with others. |
those who you see in western countries are not whole muslims communities.even if there are millions of them create gettos it is not about religion it is a sociological fact. chiristians would do same if muslim countries were rich and powerful and if they were minorities in islam world.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:47 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Professional sociologists and anthropologists have often wondered what causes religion, and what psychological purpose it serves. Many have also noted that the fear of death provides a reason for various religious beliefs |
I don't think that there's only ONE psychological purpose or foundation for religion. It's actually a very complex phenomenon.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:47 pm |
Quoting teaschip1: No, I haven't changed my mind at all. Einstein was also an intravert, so it's no wonder he had these opinions. Who the heck did he have to look forward to seeing, when he died. |
An intravert? You mean introvert? What difference does that make?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:49 pm |
I don't recall putting ONE in my post. Yes, there are many foundations in religion, but morals and ethics are a critical piece.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:50 pm |
Quoting teaschip1: I don't recall putting ONE in my post. Yes, there are many foundations in religion, but morals and ethics are a critical piece. |
Strange As a "believer" I would have thought your answer to "what are the foundations of religion" would have been "GOD"
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:50 pm |
Quoting ciko: i have many relatives and friends in Germany. and most of them or their daughters do not wear headscarf. and they are not radical muslims at all. you are generalising as usual |
Oh, as if you are never generalizing yourself! Actually Femme doesn't ALWAYS generalize, and you just generalized her! She didn't mean that all Turks in Germany live in ghettos, but that many of them do. It's a well known phenomenon in Germany, though certainly not all Turks do that.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:51 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Everyone has natural ethics if they receive a loving childhood. Ethics are born of empathy which is created by nurture.
Unfortunately in the UK we are breeding a percentage of clinically diagnosed psychopaths incapable of empathy and therefore unethical, purely due to lack of love and neglect.
Don't tell me that ethics have anything to do with religion  |
well, as far as i know lowest crime rate inthe world is in the countries known faithless ..which means being good person or savory person is not related to religion...to be religiosu does not make anyone good or bad it just gives you some peace.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:52 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting teaschip1: No, I haven't changed my mind at all. Einstein was also an intravert, so it's no wonder he had these opinions. Who the heck did he have to look forward to seeing, when he died. |
An intravert? You mean introvert? What difference does that make? |
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:53 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting ciko: i have many relatives and friends in Germany. and most of them or their daughters do not wear headscarf. and they are not radical muslims at all. you are generalising as usual |
Oh, as if you are never generalizing yourself! Actually Femme doesn't ALWAYS generalize, and you just generalized her! She didn't mean that all Turks in Germany live in ghettos, but that many of them do. It's a well known phenomenon in Germany, though certainly not all Turks do that. |
ok ok i give up.i am wrong..to discuss with you and femme about anything is useless
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:54 pm |
Quoting ciko: it just gives you some peace. |
yeah, we know the results, we witness the results.
the facts always stand for themselves
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:55 pm |
Quoting ciko: ok ok i give up.i am wrong..to discuss with you and femme about anything is useless |
Post of the day!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:58 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting ciko: ok ok i give up.i am wrong..to discuss with you and femme about anything is useless |
Post of the day!
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a dream post!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 08:59 pm |
I am too suspicious to believe in some thing without questioning it. I think that all religions are based on inspirations.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:01 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting catwoman: Quoting ciko: ok ok i give up.i am wrong..to discuss with you and femme about anything is useless |
Post of the day!
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a dream post!  |
Is it your dream to be so arrogant that you drive everyone else away?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:03 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting catwoman: Quoting ciko: ok ok i give up.i am wrong..to discuss with you and femme about anything is useless |
Post of the day!
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a dream post!  |
i think you are conditioned to see every one from east a misogynist old-line reactionary. whatever i ( or we) say you somehow find something to blame me or us for not being modern enough.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:03 pm |
Quoting ruthless87: I am too suspicious to believe in some thing without questioning it. |
hehehe
i too also always question!
unfortunately many people believe in what they believe because their fathers/mothers believed. many people dont make researches on things they live with.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:05 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting ruthless87: I am too suspicious to believe in some thing without questioning it. |
hehehe
i too also always question!
unfortunately many people believe in what they believe because their fathers/mothers believed. many people dont make researches on things they live with. |
Do you question? I am sure you don't question, you attack and insult!!!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:06 pm |
i still cannot work out the reason why there are people, animals, the earth and universe? oh i m not a nihilist by the way
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:08 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting catwoman: Quoting ciko: ok ok i give up.i am wrong..to discuss with you and femme about anything is useless |
Post of the day!
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a dream post!  |
Is it your dream to be so arrogant that you drive everyone else away?  |
Another one defeated congragulations the super Duo
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:09 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III:
Do you question? I am sure you don't question, you attack and insult!!!  |
shut up you spooky aspartame!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:12 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III:
Is it your dream to be so arrogant that you drive everyone else away?  |
i dont dream to be arrogant, but im, and thought of being infamous one day.
and im sorry my english, how do idrive everyone away? away to where? im sorry my english, but i dont understand that very pure british.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:19 pm |
Quoting ciko: Quoting catwoman: Quoting ciko: i have many relatives and friends in Germany. and most of them or their daughters do not wear headscarf. and they are not radical muslims at all. you are generalising as usual |
Oh, as if you are never generalizing yourself! Actually Femme doesn't ALWAYS generalize, and you just generalized her! She didn't mean that all Turks in Germany live in ghettos, but that many of them do. It's a well known phenomenon in Germany, though certainly not all Turks do that. |
ok ok i give up.i am wrong..to discuss with you and femme about anything is useless |
Come on Ciko, don't sound like you are not using the same tricks that we are using! While I love most of your posts, I find it a bit hypocritical of you to stereotype me in almost your every post and then accuse others of "always" generalizing! Or - you say that people don't try to understand you, but you yourself say that talking to me is useless!!!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 09:35 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting ciko: Quoting catwoman: Quoting ciko: i have many relatives and friends in Germany. and most of them or their daughters do not wear headscarf. and they are not radical muslims at all. you are generalising as usual |
Oh, as if you are never generalizing yourself! Actually Femme doesn't ALWAYS generalize, and you just generalized her! She didn't mean that all Turks in Germany live in ghettos, but that many of them do. It's a well known phenomenon in Germany, though certainly not all Turks do that. |
ok ok i give up.i am wrong..to discuss with you and femme about anything is useless |
Come on Ciko, don't sound like you are not using the same tricks that we are using! While I love most of your posts, I find it a bit hypocritical of you to stereotype me in almost your every post and then accuse others of "always" generalizing! Or - you say that people don't try to understand you, but you yourself say that talking to me is useless!!! |
just last nite i had the same conversation with a german family who is my neighbour here in austria...
his sentence was: "they accept a german woman to be in love with their sons, but not their girls to be in love with german men..."
anyway we all know...
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 10:40 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting teaschip1: I don't recall putting ONE in my post. Yes, there are many foundations in religion, but morals and ethics are a critical piece. |
Strange As a "believer" I would have thought your answer to "what are the foundations of religion" would have been "GOD"  |
I never said God was my higher power, did I? Maybe it's a cow.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 10:52 pm |
Quoting teaschip1: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting teaschip1: I don't recall putting ONE in my post. Yes, there are many foundations in religion, but morals and ethics are a critical piece. |
Strange As a "believer" I would have thought your answer to "what are the foundations of religion" would have been "GOD"  |
I never said God was my higher power, did I? Maybe it's a cow. |
tea?
God is not your higher power? not your foundation? if not God, then who or what?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 10:56 pm |
I actually have three.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 10:58 pm |
Quoting ciko:
culture and religion are different things to eachother i love to discover cultures..but am not so willing to know other religions mine is boring enough |
Being Muslim doesnt give you the right to talk like this about İslam.
İ dont think any Christian or Jewish would appreciate it if you call their religions boring,and certainly wont any Muslim too accept it to İslam too.
İf it is that boring,so why are you Muslim?!
Pls watch your words!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:07 pm |
Quoting CANLI: Quoting ciko:
culture and religion are different things to eachother i love to discover cultures..but am not so willing to know other religions mine is boring enough |
Being Muslim doesnt give you the right to talk like this about İslam.
İ dont think any Christian or Jewish would appreciate it if you call their religions boring,and certainly wont any Muslim too accept it to İslam too.
İf it is that boring,so why are you Muslim?!
Pls watch your words!
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everyone is entitled to speak up his/her mind
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:13 pm |
Quoting SuiGeneris:
just last nite i had the same conversation with a german family who is my neighbour here in austria...
his sentence was: "they accept a german woman to be in love with their sons, but not their girls to be in love with german men..."
anyway we all know... |
you're a strange turk, if you're a turk.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:15 pm |
Quoting teaschip1: I actually have three. |
Veni Vidi Vici?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:16 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting CANLI: Quoting ciko:
culture and religion are different things to eachother i love to discover cultures..but am not so willing to know other religions mine is boring enough |
Being Muslim doesnt give you the right to talk like this about İslam.
İ dont think any Christian or Jewish would appreciate it if you call their religions boring,and certainly wont any Muslim too accept it to İslam too.
İf it is that boring,so why are you Muslim?!
Pls watch your words!
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everyone is entitled to speak up his/her mind |
Thank you so much queen Femme for allowing me to have an opinion this time. it is strange that you only allow opinions when you agree with them. Actually I was making a joke,was having fun with aenigma but it was a stupid joke and apologise if it caused offence to Canli..
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:18 pm |
Quoting SuiGeneris: Quoting teaschip1: I actually have three. |
Veni Vidi Vici? |
mcdonalds, elvis and madonna!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:19 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting SuiGeneris: Quoting teaschip1: I actually have three. |
Veni Vidi Vici? |
mcdonalds, elvis and madonna!  |
sounds fantastic... i can be teas prayer if she allows me to change robbie with elvis
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:21 pm |
Quoting ciko: Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting CANLI: Quoting ciko:
culture and religion are different things to eachother i love to discover cultures..but am not so willing to know other religions mine is boring enough |
Being Muslim doesnt give you the right to talk like this about İslam.
İ dont think any Christian or Jewish would appreciate it if you call their religions boring,and certainly wont any Muslim too accept it to İslam too.
İf it is that boring,so why are you Muslim?!
Pls watch your words!
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everyone is entitled to speak up his/her mind |
Thank you so much queen Femme for allowing me to have an opinion this time. it is strange that you only allow opinions when you agree with them. Actually I was making a joke,was having fun with aenigma but it was a stupid joke and apologise if it caused offence to Canli..
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Well of course Femme would agree with you now lolll
İts ok ciko
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:25 pm |
Quoting ciko:
Thank you so much queen Femme for allowing me to have an opinion this time. it is strange that you only allow opinions when you agree with them. Actually I was making a joke,was having fun with aenigma but it was a stupid joke and apologise if it caused offence to Canli..
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you are very welcome
when have i forbidden anyone any right to share or express?
im one of those here who provoke discussions.
and when you judge me of how generalize or one-sided im, look at your own posts, first.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:29 pm |
Quote: Quote: Quoting CANLI: everyone is entitled to speak up his/her mind |
Thank you so much queen Femme for allowing me to have an opinion this time. it is strange that you only allow opinions when you agree with them. Actually I was making a joke,was having fun with aenigma but it was a stupid joke and apologise if it caused offence to Canli..
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Well of course Femme would agree with you now lolll
İts ok ciko  |
yeah, even you canli are entitled to say anything...
but dont get so excited about being a religous (islamic) gendarme
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:35 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal:
yeah, even you canli are entitled to say anything...
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Ohhh thank youuuu,i appreciate your kindness ,hee
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:36 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting ciko:
Thank you so much queen Femme for allowing me to have an opinion this time. it is strange that you only allow opinions when you agree with them. Actually I was making a joke,was having fun with aenigma but it was a stupid joke and apologise if it caused offence to Canli..
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im one of those here who provoke discussions. |
you are one of those who only insult and belittle people whose oppinons dont agree with you..you are nothing more..sad but true
but it is still good to know you cos you make me feel clever
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:45 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: but it is still good to know you cos you make me feel clever |
DONT JOIN FEMMES GANG!!!
Join mine Its much nicer - we have parties (without lemon) and and and great food and and we have Robbie Williams as a member, and and.... the membership fees are fair (1000 YTL per month) ...  |
Robbie Williams? oh god stay away from me i can join you only if you make Radiohead members of the party
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:48 pm |
Quoting ciko:
you are one of those who only insult and belittle people whose oppinons dont agree with you..you are nothing more..sad but true
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im honored with turkish compliments!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:53 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: but it is still good to know you cos you make me feel clever |
DONT JOIN FEMMES GANG!!!
Join mine Its much nicer - we have parties (without lemon) and and and great food and and we have Robbie Williams as a member, and and.... the membership fees are fair (1000 YTL per month) ...  |
Isn't George a member?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:54 pm |
Quoting Trudy: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: but it is still good to know you cos you make me feel clever |
DONT JOIN FEMMES GANG!!!
Join mine Its much nicer - we have parties (without lemon) and and and great food and and we have Robbie Williams as a member, and and.... the membership fees are fair (1000 YTL per month) ...  |
Isn't George a member? |
George Michael?.... yes
Sorry Ciko we wanted Radiohead, but could only afford Robbie
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 11:54 pm |
And then flowers time .. lolll
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25 Aug 2007 Sat 12:00 am |
george? robbie?
i know michael, madonna, elvis, JLO, britni spirits
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25 Aug 2007 Sat 12:01 am |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Trudy: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: but it is still good to know you cos you make me feel clever |
DONT JOIN FEMMES GANG!!!
Join mine Its much nicer - we have parties (without lemon) and and and great food and and we have Robbie Williams as a member, and and.... the membership fees are fair (1000 YTL per month) ...  |
Isn't George a member? |
George Michael?.... yes
Sorry Ciko we wanted Radiohead, but could only afford Robbie  |
i beg for your forgiveness then sorry but i hate Robbie grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!
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25 Aug 2007 Sat 12:03 am |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Trudy: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: but it is still good to know you cos you make me feel clever |
DONT JOIN FEMMES GANG!!!
Join mine Its much nicer - we have parties (without lemon) and and and great food and and we have Robbie Williams as a member, and and.... the membership fees are fair (1000 YTL per month) ...  |
Isn't George a member? |
George Michael?.... yes
Sorry Ciko we wanted Radiohead, but could only afford Robbie  |
does that mean free tickets to concerts?
god! look at here!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cvnOSDstWkQ
i am so in a mood for a concert!
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25 Aug 2007 Sat 12:04 am |
Quoting femme_fatal: george? robbie?
i know michael, madonna, elvis, JLO, britni spirits
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We also have Jimi Hendrix, Marc Bolan, Freddie Mercury and Kirk Cobain
....I didn't see them for a while though
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25 Aug 2007 Sat 12:07 am |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting femme_fatal: george? robbie?
i know michael, madonna, elvis, JLO, britni spirits
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We also have Jimi Hendrix, Marc Bolan, Freddie Mercury and Kirk Cobain
....I didn't see them for a while though  |
wasnt it Kurt Cobain?
anyway... how about Muse? Coldplay? pffff i felt myself soo offtopic!
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25 Aug 2007 Sat 12:07 am |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting femme_fatal: george? robbie?
i know michael, madonna, elvis, JLO, britni spirits
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We also have Jimi Hendrix, Marc Bolan, Freddie Mercury and Kirk Cobain
....I didn't see them for a while though  |
Marc Bolan? i dont think anybody here knows him..but i adore him
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27 Aug 2007 Mon 04:28 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Everyone has natural ethics if they receive a loving childhood. Ethics are born of empathy which is created by nurture.
Unfortunately in the UK we are breeding a percentage of clinically diagnosed psychopaths incapable of empathy and therefore unethical, purely due to lack of love and neglect.
Don't tell me that ethics have anything to do with religion  |
I agree with you completely. In my experience, I have come across a good number of people who have been raised in what most would concider a very loving and nuturing environment but they still committ terrible crimes. On the other hand, I know many people who have had no religious structure in their lives but they turn out compassionate and empathetic to human needs. On the other hand most of our laws in the West are based on Judeo-Christian laws, how can we say that we have not been influenced by religion when that is where our basic laws come from? Just because you do not belong to a religious group, does not mean you don't live by its ethics....it is a very good point that you make AEnigma, but it is difficult to separate the two in my mind. Gosh, I have confused myself now!!
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27 Aug 2007 Mon 04:35 pm |
Quoting Elisabeth: ....it is a very good point that you make AEnigma, but it is difficult to separate the two in my mind. Gosh, I have confused myself now!! |
Well, I have to admit I got myself a bit confused too!!! After I wrote it I realised that my comments could be seen as contradictory! The change in society and breeding psychopaths, although true, could (arguably ) be credited to lack of religious guidance!
Fortunately, not many people bother to read my posts, so it was not "picked up" on by the religious classmates!
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27 Aug 2007 Mon 04:37 pm |
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27 Aug 2007 Mon 04:40 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: The change in society and breeding psychopaths, although true, could (arguably ) be credited to lack of religious guidance! |
Personally I suspect that it is the other way round - the lack of breeding a social conscience has led to less interest in religious organisations. There are, of course, other factors like eaiser communication not making religious social networking so important etc., but the original question was limited to ethics and religious belief - for that I read "religious involvement" as there are many who attend religious establishments for the social support and the feeling of "doing/being good" that comes with it instead of because of any fundemental belief.
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27 Aug 2007 Mon 04:41 pm |
Quoting bod: Personally I suspect that it is the other way round |
Me too
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27 Aug 2007 Mon 04:43 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting bod: Personally I suspect that it is the other way round |
Me too  |
You mean you are simply following a stance that you don't believe to generate debate - or is it just to be damn awkward
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27 Aug 2007 Mon 04:46 pm |
Quoting bod: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting bod: Personally I suspect that it is the other way round |
Me too  |
You mean you are simply following a stance that you don't believe to generate debate - or is it just to be damn awkward  |
NO!!! You maybe missed my original post. What I was saying that my original post could have been contradictory. Offffffffff I can't bore everyone with explanations hehehe!
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27 Aug 2007 Mon 04:56 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting bod: You mean you are simply following a stance that you don't believe to generate debate - or is it just to be damn awkward  |
NO!!! You maybe missed my original post. What I was saying that my original post could have been contradictory. Offffffffff I can't bore everyone with explanations hehehe! |
You mean that you were not being deliberately awkward???
Oh dear - are you ill???
This is not the AEnigma that we know and love
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28 Aug 2007 Tue 05:13 am |
I can only speak for my experience of my religion. My practice of Religion is ethics applied. John Wesley said,
"Do all the good you can,
By all the means you can,
In all the ways you can,
In all the places you can,
At all the times you can,
To all the people you can,
As long as ever you can."
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28 Aug 2007 Tue 08:54 am |
Quoting MrX67: if we can find to true alternative i think will not much need to discussion about beliefs? |
ethics..follow rules!If you can follow rules,then why not religion?
It's as simple as that.
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