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Turkish ladies
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 01:05 pm |
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I find Turkish women to be friendly,extremely kind, hospitable and welcoming. I think it obviously depends however on which women you have met and from which part of society or background they are coming from plus age plays a big part in it.I am sure there are very nice turkish women just as well as some not so nice ones.Like that everywhere you go.However i generally i have don't have a bad word to say about the wonderful women i have met and i would hope they could say the same about me.
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 01:38 pm |
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is it because they dont wanna hear about moons and stars any more, and want to compensate their place in social life by being arrogant and demanding expensive gifts? then it sounds like its easy to satisfy them buying them diamonds.
how about demanding rights? 
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 02:17 pm |
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Quoting Deli_kizin: To generalize a bit:
What I heard from Turkish men is, that Turkish girls are very demanding, rather arrogant, not easily satisfied (they want the most expensive gifts ), they are moody, bossy and not friendly |
Ahhh I think this is a cultural thing! Its the same in Italy and Spain too - its expected of girls to be pouting and moody and to act disinterested. The man does all the chasing and begging!
Ahh well ...
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 02:33 pm |
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Regarding what you said about Italy and Spain, I've never been to Italy but I live in Spain since last year, the moodyness has nothing to do with the man doing all the chasing, in my country (Venezuela)men are expected to do all the chasing, much more so than in Spain, yet a Venezuelan girl who displayed the usual "charm" of most Spanish girls, let alone those from Madrid won't be popular with guys.
As for Turkish girls and women, the few I've met are all quite humble and friendly, definitely better company than Spanish ones, Venezuelan girls may be too fashion-and-looks oriented sometimes, but they're also much kinder and friendlier than Spanish women
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 02:36 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Ahhh I think this is a cultural thing! Its the same in Italy and Spain too - its expected of girls to be pouting and moody and to act disinterested. The man does all the chasing and begging!
Ahh well ... |
Why do I get the idea you're not the type that allows men chasing her? 
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 03:10 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting russianlady: Hello group,
I have been away for time but wanted to know more about Turkish women life in general, my brother has Turkish girl and they get on very well, I am very like her and she has met me and my parents. Have the good day greetings from Russia |
Ouh what a strange question! Russianlady how would you answer the question "what is Russian woman's life like?" |
I knew its answer
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 03:21 pm |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting AEnigma III: Ahhh I think this is a cultural thing! Its the same in Italy and Spain too - its expected of girls to be pouting and moody and to act disinterested. The man does all the chasing and begging!
Ahh well ... |
Why do I get the idea you're not the type that allows men chasing her? |
Actually that's not strictly true. Of course EVERYONE values something more if they had to work hard to get it - unfortunately, as usual, culture allows the men to enjoy the chase.
Although I dont actually "chase" anyone (!!) I do enjoy a slow-build up ....meeting eyes across a room, flirting over a period of time...much more enjoyable than "hey babe let's go back to my place" wham bam! 
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 03:47 pm |
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Quoting Iceheart_Omnis: Regarding what you said about Italy and Spain, I've never been to Italy but I live in Spain since last year, the moodyness has nothing to do with the man doing all the chasing, in my country (Venezuela)men are expected to do all the chasing, much more so than in Spain, yet a Venezuelan girl who displayed the usual "charm" of most Spanish girls, let alone those from Madrid won't be popular with guys.
As for Turkish girls and women, the few I've met are all quite humble and friendly, definitely better company than Spanish ones, Venezuelan girls may be too fashion-and-looks oriented sometimes, but they're also much kinder and friendlier than Spanish women |
As far as Italy is concerned it is a cultural thing>Italian men never grow up being tied to their mother's apron strings for ever..right now even there is a govermental programme to help those old immature boys to stand up on their own.Mothers are the most important women in their lives so taking marriage to an Italian into consideration is getting married to his mother.
Spain...I wonder about your observations.I have been living in Spain for about a year and a half and i would not dare to say that Spanish women are not friendly or kind.They resemble some women from Macho countries and fortunately for them they became able, with he whole govermental social welfare policies ,to stand for their rights and to play important role in a society.As women they have rights to be moody in my opinion .I would disagree that Spanish men do not hunt for adventures or chase in the amount other nationalities do.They do...encouraged by all sex explosion displayed everywhere...Finally as you said>yet a Venezuelan girl who displayed the usual "charm" of most Spanish girls, let alone those from Madrid won't be popular with guys."if I got it in a correct,proper way I can only respond that
Spanish women have good expression for those girls who are popular with guys.Unfortunately this expression is used by spanish males too
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 04:16 pm |
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You didn't get me right, what I meant by "charm" was sarcasm, since I don't think Spanish women, especially those from Madrid are charming at all, I meant to say that in Venezuela a girl who constantly swore and complained about everything in a very despondent tone like happens frequently with Spanish women won't be too appreciated by guys, especially those looking for a more serious relationship.
And all those arguments about women being moody and arrogant because now they have more rights and stuff are just convenient excuses, middle-class women in South America are pretty much as emancipated as those in Spain, yet they are often much more polite and kind.
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 04:25 pm |
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Quoting Iceheart_Omnis: And all those arguments about women being moody and arrogant because now they have more rights and stuff are just convenient excuses, middle-class women in South America are pretty much as emancipated as those in Spain, yet they are often much more polite and kind. |
Actually we were not saying that at all! The moodiness and arrogance is all part of the cat-mouse game that men love to play! It has NOTHING to do with women's rights - quite the opposite!
Spanish women - come and defend yourself about these comments!!!
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07 Oct 2007 Sun 04:44 pm |
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Quote: The moodiness and arrogance is all part of the cat-mouse game that men love to play! |
I beg to differ,it may be so in Spain, but in South America girls are expected to play hard-to-get, but moodyness or rudeness are quite a putoff for most men, actually, only those egomaniacs who think they're irresistible would continue to pursue a South American woman who treats you with rudeness or arrogance, because that means almost invariably that she's NOT interested in you.
And judging for the remarks you can often hear from men in Madrid I'd say a lot of Spanish men don't like playing cat-and-mouse with rude or moody girls either. Keep in mind I'm referring to Madrid, women from other regions of Spain, especially Cantabria and Asturias have a much better reputation, but Madrid women aren't too popular in Spain, just like Parisians in France,haha
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