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Turkish ladies
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 02:21 am |
Quoting vineyards: Alameda, you know this whole thing is a waste of time. Let's not answer this duo anymore. They will obviously try to go on with their show. So be it. Let them do their thing. Don't bother trying to get your message through, All you wil get is anger and frustration. |
A gang...?
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 02:24 am |
I think it's the voice of common sense rather than a gang.
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 02:28 am |
I agree Vineyards... Although I can't say I'm angry, just perplexed.
Quoting vineyards: Alameda, you know this whole thing is a waste of time. Let's not answer this duo anymore. They will obviously try to go on with their show. So be it. Let them do their thing. Don't bother trying to get your message through, All you wil get is anger and frustration.
Initially, I was a bit puzzled because one of them was our moderator and I thought moderators would have to be very mature people who would sort out problems cooling down angry people. Having met such a phenomenal moderator for the first time, I reacted naively only to find out that the whole thing had already turned into a pig circus at the hands of these xenophobic teenager mutant ninjas who pose like feminist psychiatrists.
I keep receiving PM's from people advising me to ignore them. Now the real problem is that these guys are not aware that they have a problem. All they care is zapping you right when you show up.
Life is beautiful and there are more important things in it. |
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 02:32 am |
Quoting alameda: I agree Vineyards... Although I can't say I'm angry, just perplexed. |
What is really perplexing is that when there's a chance to find a common ground and communicate, you run away! You don't really want it, do you?
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 02:33 am |
Quoting Gizli Yuz: I think it's the voice of common sense rather than a gang. |
Right, at SOME circumstances it's "common sense" and in others - it's "gang"! Very cool...
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 07:04 am |
I've met several turkish women and my opinion is that they're a bit stuck up, rude, and arrogant. I've had conversatons with them and it seems like they all want "a handsome man who is rich." Most of them brag about their virginity. And the ones in west turkey all talk about east turkish guys like the scum...and said they wouldn't want those guys near them or to even scrub their shoes.
I guess the ones I've met called themselves "modern." They are very concerned with their looks and nosy about their neighbors and gossip alot.
Sigh...I guess everyone has faults and no one's perfect. But I am sure there are some nice turkish ladies, I just haven't met them yet.
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 11:49 am |
Yes they are the desperate housewives of the future. I instantly remember one from New Jersey, three from Canada and two from Ohio. There are of course millions more here there and everywhere.
I would agree with you if you discussed the matter with facts and figures rather than basing all your arguments on a couple of ladies whom you met. Doing so would also indicate that you are serious, intimate and geniunely concerned about the subject you brought up.
Of course, this is not a sociology forum but now that there are those who dauntlessly fight for their opinions, I think they should also be brave enough to face the burden of reading a bit before staging their next toilsome campaign on cultural matters. In other words, I am asking you to write a bit more responsibly.
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 02:46 pm |
Is it ok if people share their experiences? At the end it will come to a big picture. Looks like everybody's experience is different.
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 04:08 pm |
Quoting vineyards: I have seen messages from a wealth of people - those quoting words from their learn-one-word-a-day subscriptions to pour their derisions upon things others say, in a bombastic manner. Those people are hardly ever short of such sarcastic remarks and they spit them out at will.
Outside the forum, the situation is not any better, the guy who parks his car next to mine is an asshole and, he will not heed my polite warnings. It is a world full of ignorance and rudeness not to mention deceit. That must be the reason why one Alan Parsons song from the 70's moans: "I don't want live in the real world". The real world is so full of problems...
Obviously, the Internet made its debut in a very timely manner just as humanity was getting fed up with the unbearable consequences of an industrial life style.
As a result, almost everyone has jumped on the Internet band wagon. Here, people feel as if they are demigods who are entitled to saying things normally they shouldn't. At this point, politeness, thoughtfulness and all the excellent aspects of the human trait are put aside.
Somewhere on the Internet there must be a file entitled “Net Etiquetteâ€; I suggest that everyone should read it at least once.
Coming back to me, at this stage in my life, I am beginning to question myself fearing that I might have a previously undiscovered social dysfunction -one that has lingered in me for years waiting to be unearthed by a catalyst which in this case is the Internet. Admittedly, I was initially concerned more about falling victim to a state of procrastination induced by spending long hours in front of my computer screen. Presently, I am more or less convinced that I am a sociopath just like millions of others who kill time similarly -cursing and ridiculing people in the hope of freeing themselves of the boredom caused by their unbearable lives. Nevertheless, my reasons are probably the other way around. I am standing in the middle of this sad world and watch it collapse piece by piece.
When I was a little child, I was confident that tomorrow would be much better than today. I believed in progress and the benevolent effects of it on society. Today I am not sure about what future holds for us.
That being said, there is still some room for optimism; as it is expressed in a famous Livaneli song:
I gazed at the world from a coast
Hands all salty and a pearl sits on my palm
A blue vision stretching in vast space
And a yearning for freedom is tingling my heart
It is beauty
That will bring salvation to this world
It will all begin when one loves another.
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Vineyard, I went back and reread your post which I found ironic. You openely admit that you are a sociapath, cursing and ridiculing people. But you have issues with other members when you feel your up against the wall. Maybe this is your defensive mechanism or just plain boredom perhaps. I would suggest taking your own advice and take a crash course on "Net Etiquette". Now who is the real demigod and immature one here? My one word for the day is büyümek.
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 05:17 pm |
Teaschip, you misunderstood that post.
You are taking things literally; I might as well call myself an elephant if I knew I could express myself more emphatically. Oh my God, I am tired of making these explanations. Why don't you start a thread and curse me everyday as the first thing in the morning.
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 05:34 pm |
Quoting vineyards: Teaschip, you misunderstood that post.
You are taking things literally; I might as well call myself an elephant if I knew I could express myself more emphatically. Oh my God, I am tired of making these explanations. Why don't you start a thread and curse me everyday as the first thing in the morning. |
Ok, I'll try to read between the lines and not take your posts seriously then. I find no pleasure cursing or starting a thread about you. However, you may find other members who may take you up on your recommendation.
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