I agree with both Deli_Kizin and Oeince in many parts. But those few more years I carry on my back, have proved to me that life and love are not as pink as we think they are.

It’s not my intention to hurt anyone. Honestly. And I wish to all of us that our expectations and dreams will be fulfilled and life will be exactly as we have planned it.

My dear Deli, I wasn’t talking about a light romantic adventure, when I said that I have seen this “film” before. I think It was the most intense and serious relationship I ve ever experienced. A long and serious one. Not with a “ holidayresort-man” as u said, but with a serious and well educated (in school and in life) man. And it wasn’t only my or his need to be loved that brought us together. It was far more than that.

Missing? Huh! Longing? You can never believe how much. Life? What life? My whole life was him. Whenever we were meeting, we were spending hours, just staring at each other, to cover the miss and to engrave the details of each other’s face in our memory for the lonely times to come. Words? We could tell from a simple “hi how are you” written on a screen, how the other was feeling each day. The words were always the same. But in an amazing way that I could never explain, we could catch each other’s mood without even watching each other’s face. I bet you understand exactly what I m talking about Why did we let this relationship go? Cause realities were stronger than any love could ever be…

Anyway, these details don’t concern anyone else but me, I know. I just wanted to say that I know what you mean and I also know how you feel. And I get unbelievably happy when other couples manage what we couldn’t. Just, the question here was what do we think of and which obstacles a couple could have to face with, in such a relationship. I deposited my experience and thought loudly on the questions made. Truth hurts, I know, but it’s better to be aware of what we MIGHT have to fight against, than to keep living in wonderland and then fall off the clouds suddenly.

So, to cut it short, I only have one last thing to say: Love CAN move mountains. So, go for it! Just always keep in mind that reality can be tougher than we expect it to be. Thus, we should better be aware of this fact, than keep our eyes closed while walking on cloud nine…

p.s. I m writting these down, mostly for myself to read and keep in mind. Cause, if I know myslef, then I can tell for sure that I always choose the cloud nine instead of reality and precaution. And then I fall down and then I stand up again, and so on...

Hello dear Sophie

I didn't mean to hurt anyone either and with holiday-resort-man i definitely didnt mean your love Just to put the record straight

Now that i think of it, it's really difficult to answer such a question. Because, as you said, it really just concerns you in your story, me in my story. I think the only way to really get an answer for yourself, is to have one yourself.

I wonder what love actually is. But in the same time i realise it's a thing we cannot speak right about. Who knows what it is? What word will be capable of telling? Let's just keep on writing poems about what we all feel and leave love to love

.. you mean like me and my bebe??
..when Manila meets Istanbul eh???
..kinda hard and challenging, though ..but what should I do??
I can never deprive somebody of something he really deserves...
the consequences? suffer it.. suffer the long distance.. the culture differences.. whatever.. just.. but just do not procrastinate to be in each other's arms .. go an extra mile each day and carpe diem...

IN LOVE? IT'LL WILL NEVER BE EASY, BUT IT'S WORTH IT..