My husband's friend wrote this to my friend. I cant ask hubby to translate because he will be upset that i am getting involved. Can someone please help my friend? Sorry its a little long! Thank you to whoever has the time to translate...

hersey yolunda. sen kayboldun. aslinda kaybolmak degilde hayirasiz ciktin. ne ariyosun ne soruyosun. isin acikcasi bende bir yerden sonra arayip sormadim. cunku senden hicbir yanit gelmeyince biraktim. Aslinda sana karsi birazda kirginlik var ama olsun. arkadas arasinda hatalar olur darginliklar olur ama bunlari devam ettirmek iyi degil. Iki samimi arkadasken bir lafimi ciddiye alarak araya sogukluk girmesine sebeb oldun. Belki bilmiyorum saniyosun ama biliyorum. Aptal degilim. Sonucta anliyorsun. Ama bunu ciddiye alipda arkadaslarimla paylasmani pek hos bulmadim. bende hala bunu neden ciddiye aldigini cozemedim. Ama hep bosverdim. Ama sen her arayisimda bu soguklugu gosterdim. Ben ise defalarca ozurdiledim ki ben o kelimeyi anlamli olarak soylemedim. Aramizdaki samimiyete dayanarak soyledim. Ama soyledigime de pisman ettin zaten. Hic onemli degil. Ben orda seni gorunce sevindim. ve o sevincin vermis oldugu heyecanla o kelimeyi kullandim birde bar ortami alkol var. SEN BENIM SENI BOYLE BIR KOTU KONUMA LAYIK GOREBILECEGIMI DUSUNMEMEN GEREKTIGINI SANIYORDUM AMA YANILMISIM.
Bu konuyu hic ama hic konusmak istemiyorum. Kisacasi seninle samimi olmaya da korkuyorum artik. Cunku ictenlikle soyledigim hatali bir lafi benim aleyhime cok guzel kullandin. HELAL OLSUN

Everything is going fine. You lost. In fact it isnt losing, just you turned out to be bad luck. What are you looking for, what are you asking. The truth is that I storpped asking and searching after a point. BEcause I gave up when I didn't get any reply from you. In fact I am a bit angry with you, but so be it. There can be mistakes between friends, or tensions between friends, but isn't good to prolong these. We were such good friends, and you took one thing I said too seriously and caused this coldness between us. Maybe you think I dont know, but I do know. I am not stupid. In the end, you understand. But I didn't like the way you took this seriously and shared it with my friends. I still can't work out why you took it seriously. But I decided to forget about it. But everytime I called you you showed me this coldness. I have said sorry so many times that now I can't say that word and mean it. I had said it based on the closeness and honesty between us. But you made me regret saying it. It doesn't matter. When I saw you there I was very happy. And that joy gave me nervousness and so I used that word, also it was in a bar with alcohol around. I HAD THOUGHT THAT YOU WOULD NOT THINK I DESERVED TO BE PUT IN SUCH A BAD POSITION BUT I WAS WRONG.
I don't want to discuss this subject any more at all. In short, from now on I am afraid of being honest and close with you. Because you have used just one word, that I said in a mistaken way, against me. JUST FORGET IT BEFORE GOD

Marion - thanks so much for taking the time to translate this rather long text so well. My friend sends her thanks to you too xx

You sure it was your "friend's" message?

I promise it was for my friend! My husband is well aware that if he was up to anything I would throw a huge sunat (circumcision) party in his honour and would invite both our friends and family to view the ceremony. I'd even buy him a brand new red and white suit, complete with fez. It would be the last party he attended,trust me! And thank you Handsome for having faith in me I miss our chats. Must get on the chat line one day soon. I have had so much to do recently that i havent had time. Also, i have started turkish classes - been to one so far - that's why i couldnt make sense of the email - ha ha.

love you too xx

Good thinking Handsome. I will keep that in mind. But you have to admit, it is a giggle getting the girls going!