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Turkish girls!!!
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 02:14 am |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting alameda: I've seen that same thing and have no idea what the answer is other than try not to get into such a situation. In our global world that is easier said than done.
I'm sure there will be some here who would be amazed to see me say sometimes Turkish parents can be unreasonable and tyrannical. Nobody should be forced or coerced into marrying anyone they do not want to marry, but it does happen.
It is a very difficult balancing act to play. If there is no rational reason for them to prevent you being together, you have to be very patient and your partner must truly be a partner.
I know one man who is with a woman his family did not approve of. He has remained an attentive son, but he loves this woman and will not leave her. He's been with her for many years and through the years the family has learned to respect her and their relationship.
The Turkish son has done an amazing job dealing with this.
One should never marry someone they don't want to marry just because your family wants you to. To be in love and marry someone else is tragic, and a disaster waiting to happen. |
Really beautifully said Alameda.  |
it is,getting married to someone out of your choice,just to satisfy your family is walking on a very muddy ground and putting yourself in a prison for a rest of your life.It happened so many times in the past and still looks like history enjoys repeating itself.Sad if people do not feel strong enough to break family bonds,really sad!
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 03:10 am |
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Don't you think that regardless nationality,culture,religion,educational background,etc...we, the women are all munecas de trapo-the rag dolls for those men we love ..in a way???http://pl.youtube.com/watch?v=Vi9KgIPwT7g&feature=related
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 11:37 am |
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I had an interesting class with some so called *happy* Muslim women. One of the discussion questions asked if you could change anything about your body what would you change? One student replied * i would be a man*. I asked for the reasons of this statement. She stated that men were free to do as they please and she would also like such freedom.... And the other women in the class agreed with here.
THe next question for discussion: if men could have babies what would our world be like...Another female student said *they would sit at home with the babies and watch their female partners cheat on them like they do*
Needless to say İ was floored by these responses. So anybody who says these women are sooooo happy should think again!
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 12:51 pm |
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I am really starting to think that alot of these guys are using there culture to hide behind. They say all the right things at the right time tell you that you are there everything, BUT what they do forget to tell you is that you are just for now not forever. I think that is more important to know then all the sweet words that comes so easily. The funniest thing is why when they mess up for example make you pregnant the culture becomes a problem. If these guys actually take there culture so serious they wont even be indulging in acts with foreign woman. Please note that i have said some male not ALL!
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 12:55 pm |
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Quoting Bathory: Please note that i have said some male not ALL! |
not all but the majority
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 01:20 pm |
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Quoting Bathory: I am really starting to think that alot of these guys are using there culture to hide behind. They say all the right things at the right time tell you that you are there everything, BUT what they do forget to tell you is that you are just for now not forever. I think that is more important to know then all the sweet words that comes so easily. The funniest thing is why when they mess up for example make you pregnant the culture becomes a problem. If these guys actually take there culture so serious they wont even be indulging in acts with foreign woman. Please note that i have said some male not ALL! |
Oh yes,culture and religion have always been such convenient excuses for SOME ....Just a cover to escape responsibility  and wonderful example of immaturity.
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 01:32 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal:
not all but the majority |
Femme_fatal......i would not know about the majority as i only know one and believe me once bitten twice shy. 
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 01:50 pm |
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Quoting Bathory: Quoting femme_fatal:
not all but the majority |
Femme_fatal......i would not know about the majority as i only know one and believe me once bitten twice shy. |
i dont need to be diplomatic.
the majority is so.
and i also dont need a personal experience to confirm that.
this is obvious as the the sun on sky.
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 03:26 pm |
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Quoting Capoeira: I had an interesting class with some so called *happy* Muslim women. One of the discussion questions asked if you could change anything about your body what would you change? One student replied * i would be a man*. I asked for the reasons of this statement. She stated that men were free to do as they please and she would also like such freedom.... And the other women in the class agreed with here.
THe next question for discussion: if men could have babies what would our world be like...Another female student said *they would sit at home with the babies and watch their female partners cheat on them like they do*
Needless to say İ was floored by these responses. So anybody who says these women are sooooo happy should think again!
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Wow! That really speaks for itself..... Amazing, thanks for sharing Capoiera.
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 03:46 pm |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting Capoeira: I had an interesting class with some so called *happy* Muslim women. One of the discussion questions asked if you could change anything about your body what would you change? One student replied * i would be a man*. I asked for the reasons of this statement. She stated that men were free to do as they please and she would also like such freedom.... And the other women in the class agreed with here.
THe next question for discussion: if men could have babies what would our world be like...Another female student said *they would sit at home with the babies and watch their female partners cheat on them like they do*
Needless to say İ was floored by these responses. So anybody who says these women are sooooo happy should think again!
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Wow! That really speaks for itself..... Amazing, thanks for sharing Capoiera. |
I wonder what the response would be from a group of women here in America. It would be an interesting experiment...when we get together with our friends we could ask this question and see what the response is. Will it be different? Will American women want to be a man or just have thinner thighs/bigger breasts/flatter stomach? I know what I think the response would be...but who knows. Do women everywhere feel this way? I know I have often wondered if I would make more money in my profession if I were a man. I have a terrible suspicion that I would...but that is another subject.
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16 Nov 2007 Fri 03:58 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: Quoting catwoman: Quoting Capoeira: I had an interesting class with some so called *happy* Muslim women. One of the discussion questions asked if you could change anything about your body what would you change? One student replied * i would be a man*. I asked for the reasons of this statement. She stated that men were free to do as they please and she would also like such freedom.... And the other women in the class agreed with here.
THe next question for discussion: if men could have babies what would our world be like...Another female student said *they would sit at home with the babies and watch their female partners cheat on them like they do*
Needless to say İ was floored by these responses. So anybody who says these women are sooooo happy should think again!
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Wow! That really speaks for itself..... Amazing, thanks for sharing Capoiera. |
I wonder what the response would be from a group of women here in America. It would be an interesting experiment...when we get together with our friends we could ask this question and see what the response is. Will it be different? Will American women want to be a man or just have thinner thighs/bigger breasts/flatter stomach? I know what I think the response would be...but who knows. Do women everywhere feel this way? I know I have often wondered if I would make more money in my profession if I were a man. I have a terrible suspicion that I would...but that is another subject. |
I don't know any women here in the U.S., who would want to be a man. Well of course, those who are born that way, as they claim.  Being in the profession I am in, I believe for the most part women here make as much as men. That's if you have a good HR Department who is fair and consistent. You do however, see more executives that are men rather than women.
Really where the discrimination comes in is appearance. Attractive people, whether your female or male do tend to make more money than others. That's why for men who are short, they tend to have short man syndrome. Women, who tend to be more attractive seem to get the promotions.
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