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Mexico city, sexual harassment..
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10.       geniuda
1070 posts
 25 Jan 2008 Fri 07:34 pm

Quoting Elisabeth:

I go to Mexico a few times a year and I have to say...the men there are very very aggressive

In which way are they very very aggessive Elisabeth?

11.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 25 Jan 2008 Fri 07:36 pm

Quoting geniuda:

Quoting Elisabeth:

I go to Mexico a few times a year and I have to say...the men there are very very aggressive

In which way are they very very aggessive Elisabeth?



hehehe....I wasn't talking about sales. Let's just say they were very "friendly"

12.       geniuda
1070 posts
 25 Jan 2008 Fri 07:42 pm

Quoting Elisabeth:

One of the worst experiences I ever had was in Paris. A man actually followed me into the public restroom (Ladies Room)! I was terrified. I thankfully had a small can of hairspray in my purse and came out of the stall screaming like a maniac and sprayed the hairspray in his face. (I just hope he wasn't innocently waiting to use the bathroom!! hehehehe)


I think this is a universal problem, it happens in most countries.We (friends and I) were harrased in Paris too, it was very scary..and it was not until some guys from Spain saw the situation and they came to the rescue..of course they told these men they were our boyfriends then the harrasers dissapeared lol lol
(the worst thing was that after all this, the protectors dissapeared too)

lol

13.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 25 Jan 2008 Fri 07:47 pm

Yes, you are absolutely right, it happens everywhere to tourists...but to have it happen regularly in a place where you live....that's a bit much.

14.       Cacık
296 posts
 26 Jan 2008 Sat 11:26 am

Yes, it definitely happens everywhere. I lived in Central America Guatemala and El Salvador for a year, and funnily enough I never experienced anything bad ! But I have in Turkey and in the UK. But it does happen everywhere to so many women. Sigh !!!!

Such a shame

15.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 26 Jan 2008 Sat 11:55 am

I have travelled pretty extensively worldwide (to both resorts and cities) and I have to say that absolutely NOTHING compares to the feeling I had when I walked out of the airport at Bodrum in Turkey. Despite all the stereotypical teasing from friends before I went "ouh they will like you in Turkey because you are blonde" blah blah, I was pretty shocked at the behaviour of the men - which ranged from bare-faced staring, to calling out, to actual harassment - especially as I was walking with my boyfriend at the time. Stepping outside of that airport, felt something like walking onto a stage or cattle market, where the "audience" were gathered to check out the new "meat". It was even worse in the town centres and market places.

I agree that French are a bit persistent, but they never behave this way, or would make such comments if you were clearly with another man.

I have been to places where I felt uneasy, or even sometimes scared (remote places in China, Colombia and Kenya spring to mind), but never have I felt so blatently... "demeaned" is the word, as I did in that resort in Turkey

I have since learned to not be polite, smile, or be nice in anyway in such a place!!!!

16.       libralady
5152 posts
 26 Jan 2008 Sat 12:23 pm

I must have lead a very sheltered life or I am no ones type

17.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 26 Jan 2008 Sat 12:26 pm



Quoting libralady:

I must have lead a very sheltered life or I am no ones type




Don't worry Libra - better luck next time. Dudus don't seem particularly choosey!

18.       bydand
755 posts
 26 Jan 2008 Sat 12:34 pm

Quoting catwoman:

I am pretty sure that sexual harassment in public places must also be a problem in Turkey...



Surely not.

19.       libralady
5152 posts
 26 Jan 2008 Sat 12:35 pm

Quoting libralady:

I must have lead a very sheltered life or I am no ones type



Or should I die my hair blonde?

20.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 26 Jan 2008 Sat 12:37 pm

Quoting libralady:

Quoting libralady:

I must have lead a very sheltered life or I am no ones type



Or should I die my hair blonde?



Doesn't seem to make any difference

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