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turkish girls
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13 Feb 2006 Mon 09:14 pm |
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13 Feb 2006 Mon 10:35 pm |
turkish girls are beautiful but they have some problem..when they got married and also give birth,they suddenly got fat..this is not good...at least i think
you know french girls never get fat..even after marriage
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14 Feb 2006 Tue 12:06 am |
most girls, wherever they are.. tend to enjoy snatching other girls' guys.. drives any person crazy...
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14 Feb 2006 Tue 10:17 pm |
girl..
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15 Feb 2006 Wed 02:04 am |
Quoting Kelebek: apart from miss-ceyda and ramyan who gave me an idea about their personality.. |
hea kuyruk yarası hehe i dont think someone would tell her own characteristics...
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15 Feb 2006 Wed 02:49 pm |
It is very difficult to comment on any particular race's personality. Everyone is different and what one might agree with another will not. One woman might be controlling and coniving another might be submissive. What you are after really is nothing to do with general personality traits but more to do with the fact someone swipped your boyrfiend and you are looking for a way to get him back?? Forgive me if I am wrong, but that is the way it reads to me.
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15 Feb 2006 Wed 03:23 pm |
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15 Feb 2006 Wed 05:09 pm |
miss ceyda = a typical turkish girl
if u have any question about turkish girls,just watch miss ceyda and her entries.u can find out all answers u need
edit: i made a big mistake as a english language and literature student.i dunno the reason.maybe i am lost
thank u deli_kizin for warning
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15 Feb 2006 Wed 05:42 pm |
Quoting goner: miss ceyda = a typical turkish girl
if u have any question about turkish girls,just watch miss ceyda and his entries.u can find out all answers u need  |
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15 Feb 2006 Wed 05:59 pm |
Quoting goner: miss ceyda = a typical turkish girl
if u have any question about turkish girls,just watch miss ceyda and his entries.u can find out all answers u need  |
oh my god!! please explain this in more depth goner.. i dont really like to be described as a typical anything u know.. im intrigued by your comment though...
btw:
his= used for guys
her= used for girls
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15 Feb 2006 Wed 06:29 pm |
ceyda nın da diline düştük ya,vay halimize...
ok no more explanation.u r a typical turkish girl and from dis moment i am a loser babe,why dont u kill me... is der somebody to kill me?
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15 Feb 2006 Wed 10:46 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: Quoting goner: miss ceyda = a typical turkish girl
if u have any question about turkish girls,just watch miss ceyda and his entries.u can find out all answers u need  |
oh my god!! please explain this in more depth goner.. i dont really like to be described as a typical anything u know.. im intrigued by your comment though...
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his= used for guys
her= used for girls  |
miss-c u know we always call u ''lan'so goner wrote ''his' it was a nice also meaningful mistake...hey dont worry being typical girl not bad...why u offended maybe we r kidding btw deli_kizin i cant help myself to join u a sweet mistake
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16 Feb 2006 Thu 01:53 pm |
I dont know what it is about Turkish girls but they seem to hate British girls in particular.I seem to have come to the conclusion after spending much time in Turkey that they are jealous of english girls taking 'their' men.
I also get the impression that they like to look down on British girls and either laugh or insult often to their faces about their choice of dress etc.For example if me and my friends were to go out in Turkey at night to some bars,a club maybe and there are Turkish girls around they would take great pleasure in pointing and speaking about us as though we werent there.I think is maybe because we would wear a skirt which was just above the knee of a top which showed slight clevage.I do find it very off putting and to an extent i can understand that they don't like us (people like me and my mates) but at the same time there is just no need to be so rude to us.
I remember a time about 2 years ago when i was visiting Turkey and whilst standing on the street in the middle of the day with one of my Turkish male friends a group of Turkish girls walked past and shouting insulting remarks at me whilst laughing amongst themselves.My friend then shouted at them down the street telling them in Turkish that they are jealous and they need to go grow up.
I have had this discussion with lots of my Turkish male friends and they suggest to me that some of turkish girls' characteristics are extreme arogance,jealousy,insincerity,bitchyness and so on.
I have to say i am enclined to agree with the above however i would say its important that this is only my experience of a certain number of girls and this is in no way representative of the whole female population.
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17 Feb 2006 Fri 12:24 am |
i think its obvious that a lot of turkish girls strive to be more european.. just turn on your tv or go to istanbul...!!
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17 Feb 2006 Fri 11:14 am |
Quoting SERA_2005:
I also get the impression that they like to look down on British girls and either laugh or insult often to their faces about their choice of dress etc.For example if me and my friends were to go out in Turkey at night to some bars,a club maybe and there are Turkish girls around they would take great pleasure in pointing and speaking about us as though we werent there.I think is maybe because we would wear a skirt which was just above the knee of a top which showed slight clevage.
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I ve been to Turkey many times and not only in big cities. I ve also stayed at Keşan, which is a very small town near the borders, etc. I have never experienced something like that you are describing above, though the way I dress is not so... conservative. My mini skirts and tight jeans never put me in an uncomfortable position there. And Miss C is right. If you take a walk at Istanbul's for example streets, you will see many turkish ladies dressed up in a very 'european' way.
But, I have made an ascairtenment after meeting many turkish women and having friendly relationships with them:
they are very clever, when it comes to men. They never say what it's in their minds. They never disagree with their men, they seem to just obey them. At the same time, although they appear as the victims in their relationships, infact they are the bosses. Everything they do has a reason and a good plan. They do nothing spontaneously. They always get what they want although they always appear as the poor housewifes who have nothing to do but follow their husband's wish. They brainwash their husbands and in the end, those poor guys think that it was all their idea and wish in the first place.
I really don't know if I should congratulate or critisize them for this attitude. It needs intelligence and patience to act this way. And they certainly have both!
**** of course when i say "never" or "always" i mean in the cases that i have been close to. I cant speak for all turkish women. I bet they are not all like that****
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19 Feb 2006 Sun 06:06 pm |
I know there are lots of Turkish girls' who wish to be more european yes,Lots of them want to make their hair lighter and wear glue/green contact lenses.That could be something to do with popular culture and its influnce as far as what is seen as desirable.I just get the feeling that they like to make fun of European girls' because they want to be more like them,and they are not,simple really.
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19 Feb 2006 Sun 09:25 pm |
Quoting SERA_2005: I know there are lots of Turkish girls' who wish to be more european yes,Lots of them want to make their hair lighter and wear glue/green contact lenses.That could be something to do with popular culture and its influnce as far as what is seen as desirable.I just get the feeling that they like to make fun of European girls' because they want to be more like them,and they are not,simple really. |
I don't understand why they would wanna look like european girls. They have an amazing exotic beauty. I was stunned at Antalya, when I saw hundreds of them at the beach, without make up, without fancy clothes, just with their natural beauty. And who said that light hair or light coloured eyes are what a woman needs to be beautiful? Do you think that a western transparent skinned woman with freckles and a funny red tan looks more attractive than a dark skinned, black haired and black eyed eastern beauty?
I believe that they have the beauty and they have the brains. What they miss is an open mind and some self confidence.
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20 Feb 2006 Mon 10:51 am |
Quote: I know there are lots of Turkish girls' who wish to be more european yes,Lots of them want to make their hair lighter and wear glue/green contact lenses.That could be something to do with popular culture and its influnce as far as what is seen as desirable.I just get the feeling that they like to make fun of European girls' because they want to be more like them,and they are not,simple really.
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I not agree what u said about Turkish woman want to be more european way..what??they wear green contact lense..come on!!mostly their eyes color are blue or green. I dont think they are insulting european girl, they are mostly friendly and generous,i think just u get insulted from them.Even i am Asian, once i at there, there are so respect,is not what u said laughing and insulted.And 1 more things, i notice that european girls go turkey is not only for holiday..i think they also thirsty for something else which they can get from turkish guys(i not mean all european girls).i dont think Turkish ladies want to copy european or want to be european,(the way their dress,..) they have their own amazing culture and natural beauties.
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20 Feb 2006 Mon 10:53 am |
All this is my own opinion...i not mean to aganist some one...
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20 Feb 2006 Mon 11:32 am |
Quoting Aslan: ...I think we should be careful when we generalise about human beings...or we may end up judging people that we don´t know anything about... ...that is just my humble point of view...
...and the way one generalises and judges others show more of oneself than it show how other people truelly are... |
Yes you are right. But what we give here, and in many other topics as well,is our opinion and point of view. Of course nobody implies or thinks that whatever we say concerns all turkish society. Even one family's members are not behaving similarly. How can a whole nation?
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20 Feb 2006 Mon 11:36 am |
...oh, so true, kaplan...
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20 Feb 2006 Mon 08:43 pm |
Of course i am not saying that what i have suggested goes for all Turkish girls as that could be a clearly ridiculous generalisation!
I am simply saying that in my experience Turkish girls are influenced by western music and popular culture as well as their own.I can only speak from what i know and to me it seems that they wish to make themselves look more european (whatever that may be)in some cases.
I did not state an opinion on which kind of beauty was 'better' because i don't think like that.I do however think that some Turkish women are incredibly beautiful and so are some european or western women.Its takes all sorts as i know most of you will agree.Not everyone will find the same face attractive and maybe one could suggest that it is a case of the grass is always greener on the other side if you will.
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20 Feb 2006 Mon 09:13 pm |
I don't know you, therefore I can't judge you Sera,neither do I know enough British girls, in fact I've never met one personally.
But have you ever thought the reactions or behaviours you got from turkish girls might be because of you or your british girlfriends as well? Maybe, you behave in a way that looks so eyecatching to some people. You know every country has a different culture, moral values or whatever. I can comment on turkish people, turkish girls and boys particularly as well. There're ofcourse bad sides of turkish girls, but these things are because of social things, the european image has a lot of effect on our life, and some people look really worse and funny while managing to be like an european. But I don't think turkish girls are not friendly to european girls. I don't know what you did to try to understand them, try to see how they are, except hanging around in a bar or in a club.
Additionally, I've met some french people, and they told me that British people are an exception and try to be an exception in the european culture. They told me that they were different. But it's better not to have any prejudice.
From what I've heard also, there are a lot of slang british people going to a touristic place, hanging around behaving in a slang way, drinking a lot, dressing inappropriately etc.
But I can make such a criticize. In Turkey, the club-disco culture hasn't still very adopted, and settled down. So, there are a lot of (let's say bitchy and unqualified girls that go to places like that.
And one more thing, turkish modernlooking women cares about how they look very much. They really care for their make-up, hair etc. and follow the fashion very much, which I find sometimes too exaggerated. And I've heard that Britsh women dress a bit badly And, you know when people see someone unlike them, they make fun of.
But you should know some turkish girls more closelt in a meeting in a different atmosphere to make a real generalization.
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21 Feb 2006 Tue 12:55 pm |
If you read my last post,the first thing i said was that i didnt want to make a generalisation!
And yes your right you don't know me or any other british people for that matter so some might suggest you are some what unqualified to speak with such opinion on this topic! However i do understand what you have said and to a certain extent i agree.There is a certain percentage of british girls who behave in a way i find particularly unapealing and often make idiots of themselves.I however do not do this,i have many Turkish friends both male and female so i know what i am talking about.I do think though that whatever country one wishes to mention there are always going to be a certain amount of people who do not represent the rest of the country well whist on holiday in a foreign country or indeed at home.
I would like to think that i behave well whilst i am in Turkey,simply wanting to have a good time isnt a crime.I don't drink excessivly or behave inappropriately yet these things still happen.I suppose whatever any person does there will always be another willing to comment upon it as you have demonstrated well.
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21 Feb 2006 Tue 06:18 pm |
I am maybe unqualified to speak on this subject as well, me being old man but I find myself agreeing with a lot of what Leann and mltm were saying.I know most of the British holidaymakers behave properly but you do get a few (boys& girls)who seem to go over the top. I think the Turkish girls looks and behaviour are second to none.I would also add that I have a lovely 14 year old granddaughter whose father is Turkish.
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21 Feb 2006 Tue 08:41 pm |
Turkish girls...Our grandparents are telling us Turkish girls and their appearance,characteristics how was in the past..and they have missed past years..''Girls were natural and respectful''they say..''but girls have suddenly changed recently''they say..no respect,no beauty and no no no...
I think they are really true..Girls are trying to look like western girls in Turkey..Its very interesting because there are lots of girl with same appearences in our environment...
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21 Feb 2006 Tue 10:53 pm |
Quoting freshman: Turkish girls...Our grandparents are telling us Turkish girls and their appearance,characteristics how was in the past..and they have missed past years..''Girls were natural and respectful''they say..''but girls have suddenly changed recently''they say..no respect,no beauty and no no no...
I think they are really true..Girls are trying to look like western girls in Turkey..Its very interesting because there are lots of girl with same appearences in our environment... |
dont you think that the older generations should just accept what turkish girls have now become? or do you think they should still hold onto their traditional morals?
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 12:29 am |
Quote: Girls are trying to look like western girls in Turkey..Its very interesting because there are lots of girl with same appearences in our environment... |
I think that some turkish girls do try to change their apearance because they would prefer to have a different look whether that be more sterotypical european or not is another matter. I think it is inevitable that the women/girls are going to change from generations before them.Times are changing this is what happens when a socity evolves.I suspect this developement is not isolated to Turkey.This is something which we have been seeing since the 60's and 70's and has slowly been carried through to people who are children of the 80's such as myself which would make them now in their 20's.
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 08:00 pm |
I will join my grandparents..I think I have old head...
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 08:19 pm |
Quoting freshman: I will join my grandparents..I think I have old head... |
Talking with you for ...how long was it? 5...10 minutes? has persuaded me that you don't.
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 08:28 pm |
who are you?
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 08:34 pm |
Ofcourse you don't remember me. I wasn't the first or the only one to whom you showed your "strong" principles, as i have learnt. But if you have more questions, I ll be glad to answer them through a pm. This is not the right place to, don't you think?
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 08:36 pm |
yes..I have no word for you..and I loved only 1 girl..and you must know that you werent good girl too..enough for you?I have met only 1 girl and I adore her..good luck...
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 08:46 pm |
Quoting freshman: yes..I have no word for you..and I loved only 1 girl..and you must know that you werent good girl too..enough for you?I have met only 1 girl and I adore her..good luck... |
honeyyyyyy!!! What word are you talking about? You really don't understand or you are pretending not to? Neyse... i bet many girls in this forum know exactly what i mean, when i say that you have shown your "principles" before.
And to cut it short, this is not about you having a girl. Who cares anyway? This is about you pretending the shy and conservative one.
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 08:49 pm |
Quoting freshman: ..and you must know that you werent good girl too.. |
And by the way, I never said I m a good girl
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 08:55 pm |
anyway..everybody makes mistakes..I wish everybody can happy..I am moving and I will miss only 1 girl..I wont miss Turkish girls...
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 09:04 pm |
Aferin sana! iyi şanslar!
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 10:10 pm |
Quoting freshman: anyway..everybody makes mistakes..I wish everybody can happy..I am moving and I will miss only 1 girl..I wont miss Turkish girls... |
Oh nooo. The turkish girls will miss you so muchhh.
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 11:07 pm |
Quoting mltm:
Oh nooo. The turkish girls will miss you so muchhh. |
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22 Feb 2006 Wed 11:25 pm |
im not sure about this
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23 Feb 2006 Thu 02:17 am |
Quoting sophie: Aferin sana! iyi şanslar! |
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23 Feb 2006 Thu 02:55 pm |
Quoting sophie: Quoting mltm:
Oh nooo. The turkish girls will miss you so muchhh. |
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Yeah - and so will the English ones
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24 Feb 2006 Fri 03:56 pm |
Quoting mltm: Quoting freshman: anyway..everybody makes mistakes..I wish everybody can happy..I am moving and I will miss only 1 girl..I wont miss Turkish girls... |
Oh nooo. The turkish girls will miss you so muchhh. |
im guessing this includes me hey ramo? goner? :S
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24 Feb 2006 Fri 04:01 pm |
Quote: QUOTE]
im guessing this includes me hey ramo? goner? :S |
dude im not sure about it..why dont u ask freshman???
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25 Feb 2006 Sat 02:44 am |
Quote: Quoting ramayan: QUOTE]
im guessing this includes me hey ramo? goner? :S |
dude im not sure about it..why dont u ask freshman??? |
id rather not worry about it too much
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29 Apr 2006 Sat 01:31 am |
I think in this discussion two extremes stand against eachother: the western girl with (too) free morals, a free will, a free mind, not obeying, independent and the obeying, conservative Turkish girl.
But.. aren't those slutty western girls not actually exceptions of western culture? Among my friends there are no really easy girls. Yeah we like to go out and dance and yeah we wear mini-skirts. But no, we don't sleep with everybody we meet, we don't even kiss with everybody we meet and we make sure that our clothing hides the parts of the body that are only for us (and our true lovers).
And aren't those conservative, obeying Turkish girls the ones who live in the villages and not really in the big city? Isn't Turkish big city-life becoming more European than we are in Europe, without the nasty 'too free moral'- aspect?
I don't know if these are right, it's just my humble opinion. But i think that in this sort of discussion tehre is always too much fuzz about the slutty european girl (who is an exception on the rule and not representative for all of Europe) and the conservative obeying turkish girl (who is not representative for all of Türkiye either).
And about Sophie and the natural beauty.. i think we all adore what we don't have
I have blonde hair, blue eyes and pretty fair skin, would love to have dark waving hair and tanned skin. But look at the amount of Turkish girls wearing blue contacts, colouring their hair blonde.
I think Kadir's tanned look, dark hair and colour-changing eyes (either from hazel to green to dark brown), are extremely attractive. I like the fact he is strong and that i'm tiny. It are characteristics and looks i cannot find in Holland. Ofcourse everybody will try to find love closer to home But i do believe that it's always the other side we tend to adore more, than the own thigns we have.
iyi geceler!
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29 Apr 2006 Sat 03:02 pm |
very well put deli kizin
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30 Apr 2006 Sun 04:44 am |
i love this posts.the one SERA2005 talk abt turkish girls.i m not turk but i did have fine turk as my soulmate.they laugh at you not bcoz as your guy friends say "bitchy so on".i travel a lot as part of my job to turkey and came across thousands over 35+ british so called women flirting with 20 smething turkish boys.normally in muslim culture any age gap so big is frowned upon.I dont know your age so they cld have laughed at if u r in the above said situation.turkish girls are as pretty as anyother women.they are not inferior.
regarding the other post they are very clever.it was so amusing.after all making a guy happy by any means is good and i can take it in cheek that turkish girls do well.defnitely i got to ask my fiance if she have some plans like that.hahahhahahha good posts i love this
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30 Apr 2006 Sun 04:54 am |
fresh man you cant be so rude.if sophie says something about you.why did u respond like "i lmiss one 1 girl and not not any turkish girl" i dont know what u mean here.dont take ur gun to come and kill me.just i would like to know is there anything which have been unfair against you
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30 Apr 2006 Sun 05:03 am |
DELI KEZIN
a small info for you did you watch the program called world wedding in BBC.its good story for all of us in cross country relationship.this program show the walk of dutch girl with moroccan guy.it was such a nice program hope u can catch this
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30 Apr 2006 Sun 01:03 pm |
Quoting airlineguy: fresh man you cant be so rude.if sophie says something about you.why did u respond like "i lmiss one 1 girl and not not any turkish girl" i dont know what u mean here.dont take ur gun to come and kill me.just i would like to know is there anything which have been unfair against you |
Well, a look in these two threads will help you understand I think
http://www.turkishclass.com/forumTitle_11_3601
http://www.turkishclass.com/forumTitle_11_3717_4
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30 Apr 2006 Sun 01:14 pm |
Quoting airlineguy: DELI KEZIN
a small info for you did you watch the program called world wedding in BBC.its good story for all of us in cross country relationship.this program show the walk of dutch girl with moroccan guy.it was such a nice program hope u can catch this |
Well i can watch BBC so i could check upon it anytime soon i guess. But being in a relationship with someone from Türkiye i think i'm quite experienced
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30 Apr 2006 Sun 01:14 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: very well put deli kizin  |
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01 May 2006 Mon 02:10 pm |
ok sophie enlighten me.I get a rough idea thatt his guy rub u in a wrong way.but two things i dont get you.
did this guy black mailed you guys coz i read onelike that.
second what the hell he talk abt his love lost.why he is whining abt his love lost.
seems like funny.
i save my comments until i know things clear.see you guys
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01 May 2006 Mon 03:13 pm |
Quoting airlineguy: this guy rub u in a wrong way.
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01 May 2006 Mon 06:30 pm |
Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting airlineguy: this guy rub u in a wrong way.
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01 May 2006 Mon 06:48 pm |
Quoting airlineguy: ok sophie enlighten me. |
The explanations you were asking for, are waiting in your inbox.
I can't even imagine what would have happened if i had given him the right to...rub me!
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01 May 2006 Mon 07:50 pm |
Quoting sophie: Quoting airlineguy: ok sophie enlighten me. |
I can't even imagine what would have happened if i had given him the right to...rub me! |
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01 May 2006 Mon 09:55 pm |
Quoting airlineguy: ok sophie enlighten me. |
enlighten me too hhehehe
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01 May 2006 Mon 11:36 pm |
Quoting ramayan:
enlighten me too hhehehe |
Again? Come on you know all about it. You never miss a gossip.
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02 May 2006 Tue 02:29 pm |
Quoting Elisa: Quoting sophie: Quoting airlineguy: ok sophie enlighten me. |
I can't even imagine what would have happened if i had given him the right to...rub me! |
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02 May 2006 Tue 03:51 pm |
thanks sophie.he defnitely need to be banished from turkish class.he is such shame and a bad apple.thanks for your reply.but i was shocked to hear that.i wish deli and co can explain abt the blackmail part of this freshman
i really pity the girl who he claim loved him.is there anyone who loved him.thats dbtful
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02 May 2006 Tue 04:21 pm |
Quoting airlineguy: thanks sophie.he defnitely need to be banished from turkish class.he is such shame and a bad apple.thanks for your reply.but i was shocked to hear that.i wish deli and co can explain abt the blackmail part of this freshman
i really pity the girl who he claim loved him.is there anyone who loved him.thats dbtful |
it looks like sophie has really enlighttened him sooo deeply hahahah
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02 May 2006 Tue 04:24 pm |
Quoting ramayan:
it looks like sophie has really enlighttened him sooo deeply hahahah |
I only said what he did. The rest, he got by reading the posts in the forums
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02 May 2006 Tue 04:27 pm |
ouh wise guy...how many wise ppl we have here..umm so many i think...
but most important thing is that..we have good enlighteners ( a new word for english vocabulary) hahah
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02 May 2006 Tue 04:29 pm |
Quoting ramayan: ouh wise guy...how many wise ppl we have here..umm so many i think...
but most important thing is that..we have good enlighteners ( a new word for english vocabulary) hahah |
Can you make that clear my dear?
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02 May 2006 Tue 04:56 pm |
Quoting ramayan: enlighten me too hhehehe |
It is not like you to miss out on gossip Ramayan
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