Merhaba herkes,

Please could all of you nice people on the forum help me with this translation and your opinions on if you think i should forgive my turkish boyfriend's infidelity (going with another woman) I have been with him for three years, and I was living with him in Kuzey Kibris. He has been seeing a girl for three months now (behind my back, without me knowing, while he has been texting me his undying love and promising to 'wait for me' he doesnt love her at all and it was 'just sex' first, shall I forgive him? She apparently loves him though and he doesn't want to hurt her ??! (but he has hurt his faithful devoted girlfriend of three years - me) and secondly please could somebody translate this for me ( i have told him to end it with her and then contact me, but not to text me or call me till he has ended his sordid (dirty) affair) Translation lutfen ..............


The longer you leave it to finish with 'N' the harder it will be, if she loves you (which I don't believe after only three months) I just believe she is very jealous of me and doesn't want to lose you)

Then the more days go by, the stronger she will feel, the harder it will be for you to end it with her and you will lose your angel, your baby, your ever faithful and loving Charlotte Rose Forever. I don't want that to happen. Finish it please and finish it now, it will give enough time for her to forget about you and me before I come over in August. I hope you make the right decision.

Once you have ended this with her, I don't want to hear her name or talk about this again. I just want to forget what you have done and carry on building trust with each other.I can't take any more pain, please put me out of my hurting and make your choice Bekir.





Thank you so much everybody, I'm sorry to ask, but urgent please(or as soon as you can,this is so important tome)

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Charlotte Rose

Thank you so much for your advice, I am really willing to forgive his infidelity because I left him, but I will keep an open mind and not take the relationship seriously till we have built up trust again.I understand what you are saying though, and He probably will think it is okay to do it again if he is forgiven, i will give him this last chance, and if he is every unfaithful again to me, i will definitely leave him (and make my next realtionship with a female!!! )

Thank you for your advice,

Please, please could somebody do the translation so I can send him this last text for him to think about ??


Plllllleeeeassse :o<
xxxxxx
Thank you everybody
Charlotte

(please, please can somebody please do the translation for me xxxx

Please translate to turkish................

The longer you leave it to finish with 'N' the harder it will be, if she loves you (which I don't believe after only three months) I just believe she is very jealous of me and doesn't want to lose you)

Then the more days go by, the stronger she will feel, the harder it will be for you to end it with her and you will lose your angel, your baby, your ever faithful and loving Charlotte Rose Forever. I don't want that to happen. Finish it please and finish it now, it will give enough time for her to forget about you and me before I come over in August. I hope you make the right decision.

Once you have ended this with her, I don't want to hear her name or talk about this again. I just want to forget what you have done and carry on building trust with each other.I can't take any more pain, please put me out of my hurting and make your choice Bekir.

I guess everyone deserves a second chance... but is this his second chance?
I hope someone can assist you with your translation

If you have a bit honour you can kick him out...

Thank you so very much for all your input and comments, you are very nice people. You have cheered me up, your comments have made me laugh and made me smile ;o> thank you so much everybody.

Of course, everybody on the outside looking in can only give their opinion, but does not know both sides of the story.

When I lived in Cyprus (after leaving him a first time) I promised him (soz veriyorum) that I would NEVER Return to the UK only for a holiday. We had a beautiful apartment, I had a super job and I was making enough money for both of us, but our culture differences made me so very depressed and slowly with all the problems and arguments, it made me very ill. So i booked my flight and returned to the UK.

After promising him I was with him forever and would not leave him again because i had already left him once before and it hurt him very deeply.

This time he couldnt understand my return to the uk, we were okay (after lots of problems) and also I had a fantastic job and also a lovely apartment and a man (bekir) that stuck by me through everything and tried every which way he could to make me happy, he didn't understand my illness and my return to the UK.

So i understand why he was unfaithful to me, he took my return to the UK very personally and felt unloved, and betrayed.

My actions drove him to another girl, and I understand.

My only hope is that he will end it and end it soon, that way I can forgive him and I do believe it will make our relationship much stronger in the long term future.

Anyway, i know he has been a typical man and thinking with his 'moby dick' :o> but he now feels like shit excuse my language because he can't stand to know what he has hurt me.

He truly loves me and feels nothing for this girl, which is awful for her because she is in love with him and apparantly she has threatened to kill me if she ever sees me!

This is not my problem, or her problem but my unfaithful boyfriend's problem. He has caused all this heartache and upset.

She doesnt want to finish it, but he does.

I think I have a few stormy weeks ahead of me, but I am concentrating on myself now and my career in sales. I want to make a lot of money and just think about myself and not my sleazy boyfriend ! :o>

I know my own self worth, and I am very pretty, I have opportunities to be unfaithful and have been asked out countless times by different men, so far I have said no!

What do you think ladies ? Do you think I should not get mad and instead 'get even' by having some (protected) no strings attached sex ???or do two wrongs not make it right ?

Anyway, this will really be his only and last chance!

Please somebody do the translation for me so I can text it to him soon.

Thank you again to you all, You are all very wonderful people and your 'moby dick' comment made me laugh out loud

Incidentally, he is also a fisherman, as well as a boat captain (haha, he has obviously been fishing for more than his dinner!! )

xxxxx Thank you every body xxxxxx

This website is wonderful !!!

Charlotte Rose