Hi there. I´m an Arab girl, and I´d like to ask about getting married to a Turkish guy. How do you do it there? Is it allowed to get married to a foreign girl? And does it cost an arm and a leg? I mean is it expensive for a guy? And how will my life be if I decided to live there with him? Do you have Turkish schools to teach Turkish language in Turkey? And is Turkey a safe country to live in as a foreigner?

Thanks in advance
Dear Fatima!
I am also 23 years old and just got married in Turkey. Since I am a foreigner, it took about a week and around 700 turkish lira (depending on the guys job it´s around one month´s salary). As for the paper work, you need a statement from your embassy in Turkey, you have to have translated it and your passport, and go to a hospital for some blood tests. After all these you need approval from the foreign ministry and an appointment from the marriage office. And paperwork, paperwork, paperwork.... Since these places are far away from each other in Ankara, we spent pretty much money on travelling too. This is included in the 700 lira.
Since you want to live here, after all this you have to take care of the ID paper and pay around 450 lira during five years and finally you will get a full residentship. Of course if you pay the whole fee at once you get it automatically. But you have to stay married for two years, unless the government takes it back.
The life Turkey is similar to the European standards, of course there are some differences. The prices are around the same, services (transportation, restaurants, bars) are very good and the people are very friendly, helpful and talkative. This means that they don´t like rushing things. As for the safety Ankara is not more dangerous than London.
Before making your decision, listen to your heart and instincts and everything will be all right. It sounded like a lame pop song, but very true.
Instead of social pages like myspace or facebook you should check pages like this, where you can find people whose IQ level is more than the number of their teeth, and there is not just one thing on their mind but at least two.
Have a nice day everybody! W.
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