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If you understand that you have bad sides and really wanna change it I think its more valid then just accept them and dont do anything to change it and harm people around you and sometimes yourself. If you get married waiting to be happy so you are running in a rong direction. Happiness depens just of ourselves ) thourgh our choices and decisions) and not of somebody else we dicide to be together forever ( or until the realtion keep working well). Some things also depends of the family where you are gonna enter.. if they accept you then take it as a bless, if they dont, be sure that they will try to convence your partner to leave you ( quite common in turkish traditions).
I agree. We just talk about different things. Remember, body tends to max potential and min kinetic energy. It means that we try to make as less bodily movements as possible. When you know smth bad in yourself you either accept it or change it. Mostly people prefer complaining, but not changing. it is hard to step over inertia.
I believe that when we marry we are waiting for happiness, at least when it is marriage based on love. Then we may either create happy life for ourselves and others around, or just wait for happiness to come. Though, if while marrying we do not consider money, status etc as main goals what will we marry for? I think for happiness.
you know my grand-grand mother convinced her older son to leave his already pregnant wife for future better candidate. she tried to do the same with my grand-father and she failed... People say that one man - no man. But none cancelled the importance of personality, individual in History.
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And I certainly believe that in one person 2 very opposites can be united.
Calm down!
