I think this is the only part of Turkish culture most girls here are interested in...

How they all wish to suck this thrilling and tremendous culture brings tears to my eyes..

 But not the men?

Ahh the little darlings!

You were next in line to find out you had an interesting profile...but you blew all yor chances !

 Well it seems I have certainly blown mine................. I deem that as a lucky escape

so true...

....so you think my thinly-veiled sarcasm was wasted then?  

Dont take it so seriously, better suitors may come up.

seems like there is a tree somewhere, called "tree of turkish husbands" or smth - go pick some leaf and marry it got bored? get rid of it and then go back to the tree and pick a new leaf on the other hand - turkey is a paradise on earth...maybe there really is this tree standing in the middle of paradise...

hello Fatima ..
I really understand your feelings but i just wanted to say one thing:
not all arab countries are oppressive i´m living in syria it´s located south Turkey ...I drive a car, travel. work, walk in the street with modern fashion without hijab and nobody considers me as bad girl or irritates me..there are good guys in lebabnon who speaks your language and are open minded .
... most of syrian families has Turksih relatives especially from south Turkey as they speak arabic too ..we share with them the same kind of food we also drink turkish coffee and follow the same steps in marriage.i discovered this fact from my turkish relatives
i alsoI traveled a lot to Turkey to many cities and i found that open minded men are the same as open minded arab guys,but surely different from saudi arabia
i got one marriage proposal from a Turkish guy, but there isn´t any "nasip´..(:
now syrians are allowed to cross turkish boarders without visa ..it´s true they are kind but don´t mold yourself into one nationality..what about men from albania or bosna?they are muslims too (:

[Diary of an Expat Bride] Therapy for cross-cultural couples

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Hi

I am married to a turkish guy and yes he is the most gently and lovin guy that I know.  The sad thing is that I am in England and he is still out there in Turkey.  We have been trying for nearly 2 years to get a visa for him but we still dont have one.  We are still in the proccess of applying for the second time and I am to go and see him on 20th Dec and I can only stay for a week as I work here.  If you do fall in love with a turkish guy then make sure that he is good to you.  I know there is bad and good in all guys but it is picking the right one for you.  Good luck and best wishes for the future. xxx

Cheryl