Precisely, that is why I went to bed............ I could hardly keep my eyes open let alone my mind fresh  and of course, I had to try out my smilies.

 Easily done, as you are a natural when it comes to pigeon-holing  yourself and many other members . 

Btw,  you´re in grave danger of joining the "pompous" and/or "sanctimonious"  (your descriptions) club.  Does that mean I´ll have to move out?     Oh, and I was enjoying all that time on my own.  GG won´t be happy with you, that´s for sure.  You must remain in her "popular" group and leave me out in the cold.      ( ) 

 I said some of the posts were hot air. If some members don´t get it all there own way they seem to resort to bullying and name calling. Libralady´s suggestion about actually doing something instead of talk talk talking about it seemed refreshing. I know it might take a long time to make a difference.

Great idea libralady. If not Amnesty International some sort of group that offers hands on support. In my area there are shelters for abused women. I take food, cloths and useful items there. I have also taught some classes that helps the women and children.

As for hands on "one to one" help, often these women are in such a state of emotional and psychological trauma, it´s difficult to do, and can be counterproductive,  unless one is trained and has the required resources.

Like some here have mentioned, getting a black eye or bloody nose are not the all that can happen. Of course, if you are in a situation where the abuse is in front of you, you should take action, but be very careful and get backup fast. Thinking about plans of action in advance is the best idea.

There are truly some horror stories of abuse of female victims of rape. Women are left with not only emotional scars, but horrid wounds that need surgucal intervention. There are organizations that provide medical needs, but they need money.

Here is one that helps women with fistula, not a pretty subject, but it is one where major life altering changes for the better can happen with a relatively small amount of money.

i wonder why do you always complain about Aenigma, i think she has stolen your husband from you. there is no other explanation for being so obsessed with her

I have deleted my post, because I think I was wrong and impolite to say those, though I didnt mean it rude. I have not deleted the posts in which I was quoted, not to delete anything other members have said.

Sorry for the offence, misunderstanding and inconvenience I have caused, it wasn´t my intention to do so at all, and sorry for the ones who have taken it much more personal than I ever wrote it to be.

Apologies

ciko, i love your posts.

 what is now? what is wrong again? cant some grownups handle discussions? what a misery!

 Hehe. Something like that. But what is wrong in saying you´re wrong ey

 Shhhhhhhhhh

 ehm, what? who is wrong? you? then i agree

why just cant they let others to say what they have on their minds and hearts?

why cant you say that God is cruel? what is wrong with that?