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Things are not any better, I am from the US, so our cultures are trully worlds apart. I figure once all the goo-goo-ga-ga feelings are starting to fade there will be some heads butting. I am hoping being married to him does not require going back to 1950s. 
Well.. to be honest, if his family are traditional, that is EXACTLY what you will be doing. Women are expected to take care of childcare, the house, cooking and MOST IMPORTANTLY, take care of all the needs of their husband 
Like I said though, maybe his family are not so traditional...
One of my Turkish friends - who I love dearly - changes into some sort of oligarch when at home. I have actually seen his wife bring him out a choice of socks and belts in the morning!!
She is responsible for everything in the home (except shopping because then she would be going somewhere on her own) and must ask permission to go anywhere. It took me 6 months to get permission from him to allow her and the children to use our garden when we weren´t there so she could sunbathe and swim.
He is not like this around western women!!!!
Maybe your husband will not expect you to take the role of the traditional Turkish wife?? Who knows: maybe you should ask before the tiny tots arrive?
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