You won´t learn if you don´t try!

 at least you try thats all that matter, practice makes perfect im in the early stages of learning aswell but i do try to help others if i am able to.

just try, u cannot learn if u don´t make any mistakes

just try, u you cannot learn if u you don´t make any mistakes      

 but my translation could ruin a beautiful relationship moment ha ha

 ....or looking on the bright side, it could save someone from a terrible mistake

 I didn´t like to say that

it was something to do with my friend i wanted to know what it meant without haveing to ask her

Quoting lady in red
 ....or looking on the bright side, it could save someone from a terrible mistake lol

Quoting lesluv
 but my translation could ruin a beautiful relationship moment ha ha

i agree with both of these and so it brings up my query:

i like to attempt the tur to eng transations here on the forum because I can come back and check on my mistakes and they are easily found and neatly organized.   

but I feel very bad when my attempt is wrong.      that poster could be upset and respond too quickly to their loved one before a better/correct translation is posted.  even if they do wait for more translations, they could be heartbroken or incorrectly hopeful. 

so, what should i do?  should i stop trying/attempting translations for the ones im not too sure about?  your best suggestion?

The best thing to do is to always put a ´disclaimer´ at the end of your translation.  Something like ´my attempt but I´m only a learner so wait for corrections´

 Great advice! It also means that we feel very relaxed about correcting it, knowing that you are asking for corrections  ...