Very sweet and thank you for your kind and direct offer... as you can see from my yesterday´s translation, I do have a BIG ISSUE with trust at the moment. Where are all the nice Turkish guys gone? Why it all starts so beautiful... and ends up so sad! He was just in for the money and decieved me for 8 months!!! Completely abused my love, my trust, my generosity, my understanding... it´s very humiliating, really....

at least you find out what he wanted from you in the first place. Up to this day, i still don´t know what my ex bf wanted from me. I don´t have money, I can´t go to Turkey, and he can´t have sex with me as well. 2 years of my life, he wasted really. Made me believe that i was the only girl he loved, only to find out, that he was with another girl, who can give him all the things he needed, that i couldn´t. I told him that if he as somebody else new, just tell me, and i will leave him alone, because i understood we were in a ldr. But he never did say anything to me, even told me, he would come here for me. Anyway, at least, me and the other girl had already spoken to each other, and although it seems she is now moving on (quite fast, i must say) i´m still feeling a bit devasted of all the things that has happened this past month, up to now. still trying to recover.

If only i knew what reason he wanted me in the first place, or if i knew he only used me for something, maybe it would have been easy for me to move on as well. I still don´t understand anything.

I really do sympathize with you. It is extremely disappointing and humiliating to be cheated and used like this. For  months he made me believe that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, every day I had loving and passionate messages. And then went quiet when I found out his dirty tricks and refused to send him any money or buy him gifts. In the end he wasn´t even a MAN enough to apologize or say good-bye properly. He made up a story that he was in the hospital to get my sympathy and start asking me for money again!!!! I just can´t believe it...

anyway, this is a lesson for us. Let´s learn from it, and move on. offffffffff... i still am frustrated really. I wish he never made any promises to come here for me. I have started planning my year, so we could be together, and now all is ruined. I have to start fresh. I do wish i knew how to do it.

 If you need i can be in love with you also

and plus you wouldnt need any turkish translations hahaha

think about it

ALWAYS make sure you´re really wanted by the man.

Fairy tales selodm tell us, how much patience, wisdom is needed to have a working relationship and a loving man... but why not LEARNING????

You know, you are right. Of course I am moving on... and similarly, I nearly gave up my job for him and planned my year around moving to Turkey for a while as well... This is just disgusting!! But heads up girl. We are not that desperate for such pathetic guys, are we?