at least something with sense

I hope this clarifies my thoughts on being a virgin and my beliefs and a little on how I think it is should be qualified, yes

Below is a private message I sent to Yeru:

Yersu,

Thank you so very much for your nice words. Of course since the 19^th amendment passed in America woman want to have more rights and such and started to get them, but I feel strongly on having men controlling woman and having more control period. I think it’s sexy. I do not tell my family this. They are Latina and hate men. ;p

But what I was trying to say on the forums is that if you are the best and right girl for a certain man, than he would not want to be with other woman.

I tell this very nice Turkish boy to go date, to go touch, to go make love with other woman and I will be there for him when I arrive. This is so if he does this there is a better chance he will think if me. He says no he will never do that. But then again if he did, when we meet he will see me and I WILL be the best girl he has had and he will know this instead of wanting to ‘venture’ more. It is a win-win *wink* *wink*Allah promised me and gave me the heart of a woman, that will not be broken.

I didn’t post this information on the forum because I was quite embarrassed with myself with being so open, but as you know now they judged me to soon eh?

Gracias, Ambra

ps: What do you believe in? And do you have any knowledge on how Turkish woman are? What are you like? Thanks thanks

Ok, I typed a couple of lines commenting on the above but then I thought it´s not worth it so I´ll just continue laughing if you don´t mind

Dear Daydreamer,

I hope you are being nice. I am trying to be nice to you and share my beliefs and you are being very rude to what I think and laughing at it. So, please, tell me what you think then.  You are older woman, no? So please stop dis-respecting me  I came here to be happy and share my thoughts.

As you, an older lady, tell me your views on virginity and its qualifications.

Ambra

 DD are you older woman???

hey, why do you tease her? )

she really may think so. it is her natural right to feel, think. behave and so on as she is.

in some long-distance relations some women really may tell other part - go and find someone to "have a fun" while i m not there. maybe bec they feel guilty of being so far. maybe to show herself as free-minded person. maybe nature of relation is so that she feels disabled to have any rights on him. different reasons.

there are swingers at last.

maybe she will change after several times when she arrives and boy wont find her the best ...

maybe she will find that one that will find her the best without trying greener grass, as in other case she will have to face those trials for the rest of her life...

but in any case smth tell me that if Amber stays here long enough we will know the end of the story )

dont take it as disrespect.

consider it as inner aversion of views, but not you

some sceptical smile ...

Dear Ambra,

Yes, I am an old lady with grey beard, a few wards and rough skin on my heels. If you want to know I´ll gladly tell you what I found hilarious about your post. First of all, I think you´re just trolling. I mean, you joined this site just to throw in a controversial/ridiculous statement and watch other people take you seriously And I think I´m too old to believe any woman would have so little self respect that she´d be ok with what you´re saying. Oh, did I mention that I think you´re Tami?

edit:

As for my views about virginity, I belive you should lose it if you want to and not lose it if you don´t. It´s as simple as that

Tami??? ohhh again old team

Sure, assuming she´s real, she has all the right in the world to let her partner cheat on her. Like i said, some want 3 co-wives, others have sex with goats. It´s not what made me laugh. I was amused by the naivety of the statement that she will let her bf or her prospective husband do whatever he wants but at the same time she believes he won´t do it It basically means, she doesn´t WANT him to do it but feels so inferior to him that she wouldn´t stop him from doing something she´s not ok with. I might be old fashioned but the girl is asking for trouble. Home violence hardly ever happens to women who are clear about the limits...

hm.. if she is real - nice observation

if she is real - it is her life. and she seems insisting on her own logic.  and she wont accept anything different, at least bec of stubbornness

good luck! life is great teacher ... no matter what we say - all for nothing

if she is real