I am just so agree with you for the first time...
Any way lets continue what turkish people expect
-You love baklava, you been all arround the world but did not eat anything like that, you just can not do without it.
-Black tea come to turkey from england ? never heard that, you think black tea originally from turkey, but anyway, there is no tea like Karadeniz tea,
-Do you know what you really like about tarhana soup, it is so feedy, and taste nothing else in the world. And you did eat it before in Turkey, but the one you are eating(actually we drink soup here, noth eat-as a term-)just now, is so delicious.
-In some areas of turkey people do not use tables to eat.They have very picnic kind of eating.Ask your friend-bf-gf-hb-wf before you go if they are eatin in "yer sofrası", and if yes, do not go with short skirt.
-After eating, try to help cleaning of table, of course they won´t let you do that mostly but that will show you are, you ll be a respectfull wife-if that is the case, or a good impress to their daughter-if just friendship-.
-ıf they are wathing tv while you are there (if you spend more then 5 hour together at the house that is very likely)be silent andt stare at tv.When everybody laugh, try to gigle, if they ask you why, repat last scene yo seen with your actions.If they cry, just put a sad face on you, if they ask why just do "i dont know sign"
-When you walk with your bf-hb, that is pretty sure some guys will stare you, in this case hold your husband´s, by´s hand or arm more tight, to make him feel safe, you are with him, you care him, you have no interet in that loosers.
-always try to walk with your hb-bf arm-in-arm (google it if you do not do that in your country to see how it is done), if your gf-wife turkish, always hold her hand.
-ok, great we know you have still young and tight body/great body, but try to wear mode modest swimming suites.( actually that depends of your bf, if you did not sleep with and he invites you to swimming, most likely he wants to see you
so before you go show him your swimming suite and ask if that is ok,i know you are independent woman and you won´t let anybody control your life, but be smart for a while.)
-when you go your bf-hb home hug their mom-sister, if you go your gf-wf home shake hands strongly with his brothers.
-Always bring some chocolates, (please, i love them-and of course you ll visit me when you come to turkey after all this instruction to make your relationship better, won´t you, so bring my chocolates-) if there is a kid-ther always be a kid- at the house, bring m&m´s.I love them also, but that is for kids...
-If your relationship just starting, it is ok bring parfume, shirts, or anything cost les then 100 bucks.But never a cellphone-laptop etc.I know he is very honest and really love you, but why you wanna pland a seed in his mind that you can effort this kind of gifts, no big deal(eşeğin aklına karpuz kabuğu düşürmek)
I may or may not add more later...