tsk again henry , especialy for the bits what you put its a great help ,

just need to figure out what to reply to that message as its one of my best mates friends n he dont like his mates hitting on me lol sad i know

My pleasure. 

My thoughts would be to just ignore him.

Any response at all I think would just encourage this guy to try further approaches.

hay hello i wana learn tyrkish with english

ther is not turkish with eng

so please

I think you will find Turkish and English here!

 also Anglo-Turkish

´Canım´ isn´t really as ´strong´ as ´sweetheart´ though, is it?  I call my friends ´canım´ and yesterday a friend in front of me in the Tedaş queue called the cashier ´canım´ and I´m pretty sure they aren´t lovers!!!    

Also it can be used in a slightly sarcastic way (eg ´yok canım) and the site dictionary gives ´and´ as a meaning for ´da´ followed by this comment:

4. used to add emphasis to a scornful or sarcastic remark: Kitap yazmak da iş mi? As if writing books could be called work! 

...so...maybe this person isn´t really ´hitting´ on ahalliwell 

I don´t think there was anything wrong with görüşmiyoruz as Henry wrote it. 

it must be " görüşmüyoruz" insetead of " görüşmiyoruz"

Ok - I see now I was getting confused with ´görüşemiyoruz´ - my apologies 

ooof!  Thanks Zeytinne.