yeah, deli kizin, u r right, its ur choice.
i know, what is love for far, since i married a man from far. this was not a good argument.

its all up to u girls!

let me tell u one thing, dear, i give no support to such behavour be it turkish or european! nothing can justify such attitude towards women. i give no f... to the cultural and religous background. i hate those subtleties dictated by the traditions and massive mentalities. maybe too much freedom in holland made u bored and u look for the tough rules?

the stereotypes (on turks) that hang around dutch ppl, u think is on no basic? u think turks r holy and dutch r bad liers?

and, thank u very much for ur welcome!
it says nothing to me if they all know u from this website, and if u stick around here longer than me.

i just come here and say what i think, no matter if im supported by others or not. i dont care.

human rights, freedom!
NO to primitive mentality!

thats all me - kazpol
with love

Wow, I received many interesting comments especially by you Yesterday. The situation is complicating. First of and foremost, I do have a mind of my own! If I don't agree with my boyfriend, I do let him know. I could understand why my boyfriend feels the way he do. If you were in his shoes, maybe you would too. The story is too long...The chatroom that I am referring to is not the chatroom here!!! I welcome your comments but I think you are too quick to judge and you are rather cold!

Yes, my boyfriend has and do try to understand me. Some things I do, he does not like and he knows this. No relationship is perfect. But there is an understanding between us and yes, you did judged me. At least I thought so. You talked about there are women that likes to be under a man's control and that they have no mind of their own. They are not able to think at all; they are dull and colorless and..so forth. I know you didn't mention my name when you posted these comments but what is a girl to think other than this person (Yesterday) is probalbly talking about me. Sorry if I misunderstood you but I strongly felt that you were insinuating that I was submissive, dull and colorless which is very far from the truth!!!!

oops! girls, not eot! i came back!
asiaprincess,
the example i gave before, i posted it purposely, i pretended i talked to christine, but i was talking to u. indeed i met such women and wanted u to avoid such marriage, coz ur letter to ur bf gives me such idea.
this is the only subject i guess that turns me on, wherever im i do react this way. ur letter gives an example to other young not mature girls, actually not good example. u say u r not submissive but, honey, u totally obey ur bf, at least ur letters say so.

i dont remember well, but were u girls talking about relatives somewhere in turkia talking bad on u? gossiping on u? why? thats how it works in tight family relationships. my aunts would also gossip on me, but i put the end, i cut the relationships, its better to cut than suffer from toxic and ill so called 'wonderful family' realtions.

maybe im too much different from u.
and how does it work, how can u develop ur relationships if he doesnt speak english and u turkish? can u love without knowing the language?

yes, dear asiaprincess, i heard a lot from many ppl that im cruel, harsh etc. it doesnt matter so much.