My love, I understand your letter and I do not think bad of you ok? The Turkish members translated it for me. I want you to know that I truly adore you. I will not enter the room anymore. You can be sure on this. I am very happy that you opened up a jewelry shop. I hope it becomes very successful. I know you will be busy with work but please never forget me because I never forget you. Know that everytime we are not talking, you are always with me. I carry you with me in my heart. I don't want anyone to come between our relationship. I have sealed and locked away my heart for you. I want to go to Turkey and live with you. Yes, I want to carry your child my dear. Please call me when you are on msn and I will come for you. It doesn't matter what time or day it is, I will come for you. Just as long as I am near the computer, not so tired and/or not working, I will come for you. I miss you too much. Your love...

Aşkım, mektubunu anlıyorum ve senin hakkında kötü düşÃ¼nmüyorum, tamam mı? Türk üyeler benim için çevirdiler. Şunu bilmeni isterim ki seni gerçekten çok seviyorum. Bir daha odaya girmeyeceğim. Bundan emin olabilirsin. Bir kuyumcu dükkanı açtığına çok sevindim. Umarım çok başarılı olur. Biliyorum işinle meşgul olacaksın ama lütfen beni unutma çünkü ben seni asla unutmayacağım. Şunu bil ki konuşmadığımız zamanlarda herzaman benimle birliktesin. Seni kalbimde taşıyorum. Aramıza hiç kimsenin girmesini istemiyorum. Kalbimi senin için mühürleyip kilitledim. Türkiye'ye gidip seninle yaşamak istiyorum. Evet, senin çocuğunu taşımak istiyorum canım. Lütfen msn'de olduğunda beni ara, senin için gelirim. Hangi gün olduğu ya da saatin kaç olduğu farketmez, senin için gelirim. Bilgisayara yakın olduğum sürece ve çok yorgun olmadığım ya da çalışıyor olmadığım sürece senin için gelirim. Seni çok özlüyorum. Aşkın...

I just have a hesitation about not entering the room, is it metaphorical?

Edit: The sentence in bold is edited.

Mltm, thank you very much for the translation. For a moment there, I didn't think anyone was going to translate for me because I've been asking for a lot of translation lately. Sorry members...... :- Thanks goodness you helped me. -) And about your question regarding cam. I was just referring to the chatrooms. My boyfriend doesn't want me to enter the chatrooms. He is afraid I will meet someone new and forget him. He is crazy... How can I?..when I'm in love with him.

asiaprncess,
u r not allowed to enter the chatroom here? :-S

well, christine, there are women who love being under a total control. such women have no their own viewpoints and prefer not to think, since such women actually are not able to think at all. i met this kind of women, and believe me, they are so dull and colorless. they keep silent, do their job about home and wait till their husbands give new instructions. most of these women are religious and i would also add that they are harmless, they just exist!

Christine - keep this man on his toes and inform him that u do go to chat rooms. Since i started going to chat rooms my boyfriend gives me more attention as he is worried i may meet someone else. I know he visits chat rooms also - but he is not enjoying it so much anymore !! he he
Myra

What a nonsense. I understand why he doesn't want her to chat in chatrooms and i think that is very normal. As long as he doesn't say 'i forbid you', then nothing is wrong. Besides, why would one be interested in meeting strange men on internet if you have a boyfriend ánd your normal friends in daily life? Ofcourse, meeting people from all over the world is nice and good for language/cultural exchange but.. how would you feel if your boyfriend was chatting with unknown foreign girls? Wouldn't it get you all jealous and uncomfortable and very insecure? These feelings can ruin a healthy relationship, because if you are jealous/incomfortable/insecure you cannot act towards each other the way you used to. So maybe better avoid those feelings for him too.

But your boyfriend must also learn that, for example chatting / pm'ing on this website, is based on the exchange of knowledge about Turkey/Turkish and he should appreciate you for trying to learn as much as possible. And if friendships grow from this, then that should only be good.

what a nonsense!
why do u think that in chatrooms u meet only men? and why the hell its wrong meeting strange men? i chat with caliptrix, tirrogan and ade. so what? these are totally strange men to me! hehehe, i love talking these guys!
i really enjoy chatting different ppl. and i cant imagine anyone forbiding me this.

what a primitive thinking! :-S

christine is right! there must be a trust! what kind of love is that if u will be gradually forbiden doing this or that?

asiaprincess, do u have ur own head or not? at least my own head is not for decoration! go ahead, u can be submissive to him, its not my business, but then, later, dont cry, sweety! i know what i talk!

yeah, deli kizin, u r right, its ur choice.
i know, what is love for far, since i married a man from far. this was not a good argument.

its all up to u girls!

let me tell u one thing, dear, i give no support to such behavour be it turkish or european! nothing can justify such attitude towards women. i give no f... to the cultural and religous background. i hate those subtleties dictated by the traditions and massive mentalities. maybe too much freedom in holland made u bored and u look for the tough rules?

the stereotypes (on turks) that hang around dutch ppl, u think is on no basic? u think turks r holy and dutch r bad liers?

and, thank u very much for ur welcome!
it says nothing to me if they all know u from this website, and if u stick around here longer than me.

i just come here and say what i think, no matter if im supported by others or not. i dont care.

human rights, freedom!
NO to primitive mentality!

thats all me - kazpol
with love

Wow, I received many interesting comments especially by you Yesterday. The situation is complicating. First of and foremost, I do have a mind of my own! If I don't agree with my boyfriend, I do let him know. I could understand why my boyfriend feels the way he do. If you were in his shoes, maybe you would too. The story is too long...The chatroom that I am referring to is not the chatroom here!!! I welcome your comments but I think you are too quick to judge and you are rather cold!

Yes, my boyfriend has and do try to understand me. Some things I do, he does not like and he knows this. No relationship is perfect. But there is an understanding between us and yes, you did judged me. At least I thought so. You talked about there are women that likes to be under a man's control and that they have no mind of their own. They are not able to think at all; they are dull and colorless and..so forth. I know you didn't mention my name when you posted these comments but what is a girl to think other than this person (Yesterday) is probalbly talking about me. Sorry if I misunderstood you but I strongly felt that you were insinuating that I was submissive, dull and colorless which is very far from the truth!!!!

oops! girls, not eot! i came back!
asiaprincess,
the example i gave before, i posted it purposely, i pretended i talked to christine, but i was talking to u. indeed i met such women and wanted u to avoid such marriage, coz ur letter to ur bf gives me such idea.
this is the only subject i guess that turns me on, wherever im i do react this way. ur letter gives an example to other young not mature girls, actually not good example. u say u r not submissive but, honey, u totally obey ur bf, at least ur letters say so.

i dont remember well, but were u girls talking about relatives somewhere in turkia talking bad on u? gossiping on u? why? thats how it works in tight family relationships. my aunts would also gossip on me, but i put the end, i cut the relationships, its better to cut than suffer from toxic and ill so called 'wonderful family' realtions.

maybe im too much different from u.
and how does it work, how can u develop ur relationships if he doesnt speak english and u turkish? can u love without knowing the language?

yes, dear asiaprincess, i heard a lot from many ppl that im cruel, harsh etc. it doesnt matter so much.

deli kizin, so what that i dont accept ppl's religous background and still meet ppl? do u see any problem here? i probably meet and talk those who are free from their religous culture. slaves have no their own lifes, thus have no their own points, they live within a scheme called a tradition.
i may sound like a powergirl, but u try to sound like a mature woman which sounds false, sweety.

Wow I've been typing kilometers. I'm obviously a bit bored in my holidays.

Let me quit by saying that i think that putting two extremes against each other all the time and leaving no space for either progress or a different situation, that is primitive. Maybe believe in a man who forbids you to enter chatrooms is naive, but believing that the girl who would listen to that is dull and colorless is naive too. We will see how the lovestory of Asiaprincess will follow. You should just not loose yourself in it, Asiaprincess. If a man takes over all the control in a relationship, 'you' are gone. But what is 'us' in a relaitonship worth, if 'you' no longer exist as an individual?

The weather is way too hot here to worry about these. I just hope it all ends well!

Oh and Aenigma.. I agree with what you said too.. there's a saying in Holland of which I'm sure it's universal:

Wat u niet wil dat u geschiedt, doe dat ook een ander niet
What you don't want to happen to yourself, don't do that to someone else either

deli kizin
this is an answer to ur question in pm, just wanted everybody to view it.
im from south kazakstan, married a pole, livin in katolandia-polandia. does it matter? being from a central asia gives me a wider viewpoint on muslim ppl. livin in polandia gives me more knowledge on europeans.
u r too much fascinated about the new country: tea ceremonies, customs relationships between elders and youngsters!
remember one thing: by encouraging those traditions u support their lifestyle where the women have 'no space' as u say. how come those turkish-muslim women avoid this kinda subjects? how many turkish women r on net? is it comparable to the number of dutch women? u see some turkish women and think all of them r allowed to be in net?
dont ever justify the islam! yes, i have a problem with religions (as well as traditions), i have mentioned it before. but u sound u have a problem with me.
i dont care for mini skirts, i dont see a problem in wearing long ones, hahaha, but, honey, u r gradually in the tradition, it starts up with a mini-skirt and ends up somewhere else. why cant u go a bit far in ur thinking?
yes i often use the super cool smile, dont u like?

goodnite, deli kizin

I didn't join Turkish Language Class to be attacked especially by someone like you Yesterday. The members here have always been nice and if they didn't agree with what I did or said, they have no trouble expressing this to me. Like I said previously, I do welcome all comments and/or opinions. It's good to hear other people's view point, ideas and/or opinion (good or bad). This is what helps make you grow as a person. But the way you go about expressing your ideas are very negative. How old are you??? I am sure you are much older than I am and the way you respond to people is very negative. Maybe you should really sit down and evaluate yourself and ask yourself, why am I like this??? What is wrong with me?? Look, you and I both know I didn't set any bad exampls for young girls. How dare you sit there and say to me "ur letter gives an example to other young not mature girls, actually not good example. u say u r not submissive but, honey, u totally obey ur bf, at least ur letters say so." Just because I respect my boyfriend enough and told him I will not enter the chatroom anymore does not justify myself as being submissive. If you really believe so, something is terribly wrong with you. Maybe you have a hard time with listening because I did made it obvious that my boyfriend doesn't always agree with what I do but we do come to an UNDERSTANDING. DO YOU UNDERSTAND NOW??? It doesn't matter if you do or not because this will be the last post I send you. I am tired of sending messages and getting the same type of negative responses from you. And I believe you mentioned something about his family gossipping about me? hahaha, very funny and very untrue. I will close this post now and no doubt, I will probalby get another response from you. I think you like to stir up drama, trouble, whatever you wanna call it. And by the way, if you thought you got the last laugh, think again, really think again.

Thank you Duda.

princess
last laugh? go ahead, u all have that last laugh! do i care?
hahahaha hahahaha

hehehe...you're exactly right Deli_kizin.. take care and I'm excited for you. Take care.

i dont care for the last laugh, sweety

one more thing, why do u behave as if u were a goddess of turkishclass, that i would try to gain ur respect? what didnt deserve ur respect my majesty, the fact that im from kazaklandia and live in polandia?

why did u tell all ur love story?