Thats the thing, there is no relationship. It was mentioned long ago when he also was pushing the love word on me, he said he wanted to be with me and if there wasnt the distance he would be in relationship.
>>> Well this is just an imagination. There is the difference. How would we can think like if there wasnt the distance? So what if I were Tom Curise? Nonsense I believe.
It has never been mentioned since and neither has the love word. Of course once I finally give in. One day he talks to me from midnight to five in the morning (his time) and is all talk about coming here and me going back and him introducing me....wait. the girlfriend thing was mentioned, i forgot he said he would introduce me as his girlfriend because i had asked what he would introduce me as. "Of course I would introduce you but as my girlfriend." But that was that day. Then I do not hear from him for an entire day.
>>>So I think if he wants to introduce you as his girfriend he cares about you. Because a girlfriend is someone special. At least IMO. I would not introduce a girl I do not care about as my girlfriend. And for a one day “balck out” of messages; maybe he did not want to bother you sending messages everyday. People get bored of a message bombardmend. So sometimes it maybe good to stop it for a day or two. I am not being positive here it’s just how people feel nowadays I believe. They need a freespace.
Then we talk again but i could not talk to him at home due to my room mate being home and a bunch of people. It was 3am his time so we talked on video on my phone while I was in my car, then ge said he said i should go home and he sleep. So i go home then about an hour later he is still on so i said good night and he asked if i was home yet. Wanted to talk again but i could not. I told him again about my roomate and he got mad. My roomate is a man and he had a bunch of male friends over. Now i mention he is gay male roomate. Which he was okay with for the most part.
>>>Well you cannot accuse a man who thinks about you and loves you about being upset about your stay with a male. But roommate really is a gay it is another story. And also, how long can a relationship last over the chat? We are not makind business here. It is about love, feelings, touch, hugging, feeling the warmness of your loved one, holding hands and kissing etc… Technology may help us communicate but I do not believe that it can help that much about saving a concrate relationship. One of you guys must move to the other country.
Then we talk again that morning and everything was great we talked about teaching each other our languages again because it was getting frustrating that morning. We plan a video chat at 9pm (his time) he says if he is late he wants me to wait for him. But what pisses me off is why even give me a time if he is going to be late, he does it all the time. Its been a couple months and never not once has he made the time. Over half the time he plans a 9pm and isnt on til 12-3am. That a big gap to be late.
>>> Well, do not know. I personally do not like people who are late. I think like they do not care about if they are late or they have a plan making problem. But maybe he has a valid reason? But well being late 3 to 6 hours is a trouble.
But this day it was around 1am and he just goes off on me after being extremely late. Which is why i needed a hurry on what was being said. I did not have a facebook before i met him, i did not want one, but i made one because he asked me if i had one. I even looked him up a p and found him. I had ten friends. My list was invisible to everyone but me. Just as his isnt visible to me but i know he has quite a big one since everything he posts has like 20-40+ likes (not shares but personal photos and posts) which is rare that he does but he manages to find time every single day to change his main photos, yes everyday.
>>> I think facebook is the biggest “headache” and “stomache” that the technology provided as. Because people make reasonings looking at other people’s status. I personally hate the affects of facebook over people. Nonsense, kills the real socialism. And you cannot base your feelings or relationship or whatsoever over the amounts of likes or the Pictures on the god damn facebook.
Anyway, how and why my very little list he knew of and why it made him mad i have no clue. He got on and did not say anything and i did not say hi because 99% of the time i wait and he never says anything until i do. I was already mad he stood me up and then after being on for twenty minutes just goes off on me. Finally got things cooled down just to be even more confused than ever. Not only was it ups and downs as you read...because his English wasnt clear, but i have not heard from him since. I deleted everyone but him and two of my female friends and even changed my relationship status to married and made a comment about i am his or something. Then i posted a photo i took of him and said "seni seviyorum."
>>> So you are in a relationships that is contradicting your statement at the begining of your message? Or that was just a game? J hehe.
He was on yesterday read my messages liked his own photo and so did his sister (which is odd because i am pretty sure im not talked abou. And she is not a friend, not a single person he knows was). But he said nothing to me. Anyway, for someone who wants me all to himself he sure takes his time, demands stuff and has no time for me. Did i mention for a whole week he said nothing to me until i removed him as a friend. Claimed he never seen me on yet i would say hi and it says he read my message but would not reply. But got extremely mad i removed him. And he says "we may disagree" a lot. I have no clue that that means still. He just got out of military, has no job does not attend school but has no time for me. I just almost give up, i wait and am on time and dedicated for......?? Sorry im ranting on a learning page. Im done now.
>>>Do not worry. It will be ok. You guys do not need to be upset because of a long distance relationship. I also had feelings about a girl too far way. But it did not work. To work it each of the parties must put in so much. All their soul, energy, time and dedication. No games, no nothing. You must be loyal to eachother. Design flights on regular basis and visit eachother regularly. Otherwise it will end someday. G
no, no relationship. i just added that i was married and said i was married to him, i wanted to put ease in his jealousy, so he knew i was his. but its is not mutual. it worked. but he said he needed a break. one hour chat two days a week and needs a break? makes no sense. sometimes i think he lies to get me to do stuff on video that i keep saying no to. i told him i am not a whore and he got really pissed because i thought he thought that. well....what else would i think? but there is no relationship. even though he says he cares, i do not think its enough for me to put in all the effort i have been. i am exhausted. very exhausted.
