Sen hayatımın. en önemli varlığısın fakat her geçen gün umutlar azalıyor

I tried my best but wait for others to correct........

question for you how do you have a relationship with a person you need translating for. I am just curious as to the depth of a relationship when you need people to help you with everyday situations.

Its not really everyday. Sometimes I just get a bunch written at once and I can´t make sense of it. Other times I am fine understanding. The person who writes me sometimes goes off and I can´t translate much because its weird sentencing.

it must be hard to have a relationship with someone who does not communicate in your language of understanding. I am curious as to how you met and how could a relationship start with out really understanding.I am not trying to embarass you or downplay your relationship with your boyfriend, I am trying to find and figure out how one can develope a relationship without understanding each other. Let alone a over the seas long distant one.

Did you meet in person first ?

NOPE. It doesn´t bother me. He´s been learning English and is getting pretty good at it, much better and faster than my learning. If you aren´t trying to embaress me then why not ask me these questions privately.

The whole difference doesn´t bother me or him, thats why.

I wish you success and happiness

as far as embarrassing you and asking you privately I don´t write private messages

you have the option to answer or not and I did not think I was being rude and I am also sure many others on TC are curious as to how these types of relationships start. I have read and seen so many on here. Usually they are beyond repair and are just fighting back and forth with someone translating. Worse are the ones who have gotten preggars from some barman on holidays. Or the older ladies dating some barman who is 30 who is cheating on them .........  I was just curious as to how easy/ hard it is to keep a relationship going when you can´t speak the same language or live in the same country.

I will commit suicide. There is no Turkish like this. He should learn Turkish before English.

It´s as easy or as hard as you make it. I am a very patient and understanding person so it´s easier for me then most. And I understand what you are saying. I would be thinking same thing if I wasn´t in the situation. I just don´t let the distance bother me, or the difference in language, or cultural difference.... and I don´t have high expectations right now. 

It is like speaking English like this:

To want to go to cinema. To want to come with me? To be fun. Come on, to go. To not to love me? Then why not to come to cinema?  Not to make me upset. Not to break my heart. To disappoint me you.

In reference to what?

maybe he did not go past primary school to learn turkish writing

you could offer him lessons  because you have your teaching degree