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let´s see if there will be more happy ending posts entered here

I hope so

speaking at least one same language with a level of proficiency would help too. Tc can help with there day to day problems.  

what your honesty shows that even with communication many relationship fail with no harsh reasons. To me it is funny to see some of the ones on here so desparate that they lay out all their dirty laundry here to be with some idiot who can not speak a lick of a common language.  Statistic show that almost 60 percent of what seems to be good relationship end within 5 years - just long enough to make 1.4 kids  .... Imagine if you can barely speak the language during the beginning......

I agree with what you say and yes if they bothered to learn the language it would be helpful but you see them posting the same crap month after month relying on someone else to figure out what their love one wants or says .... is a little sad , is a little funny, hopefully stastics will change for them but stastics say they will last less than 14 months when they finally are together living  day to day life...

we could make them flash cards for everyday life instead and they could just line them up

I have known my Turkish husband for over 20 years and married for the last 8.  The key to our relationship, just like any other, is communication.  Despite our cultural differences, we have very similar backgrounds and come from similar families.  We may not have exactly the same beliefs but at our core we have very similar ideas and conclusions about marriage, children (we have 3), spirituality, family, money, etc... We have similar educations and share similary ideologies.  How can you love/marry someone if you don´t even have a basic understanding of how they feel about these things?  In my opinion, a strong and successful relationship is based on similarity and compatibility.  I don´t believe in the saying "opposites attract."  I believe that people who have similar backgrounds and interests probably make it way past 14 months. 

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hey Golge do you want to collaborate and make turkish english flashcards for relationships

I don´t know that anyone has ever decripted Turkish body language before (I still don´t know whether my husband is shaking his head yes or no half the time!)...but I wish you both luck in your endeavor!  I would like to be the first to order a set of flashcards please!

little click sound with tongue   

actually there is a book coming out this later this year just about turkish body language I had seen it on amazon.com I believe it comes from a thesis, it explains hand shakes and arm positions and eyebrows the whole gamut... I will search the title for it again

in the mean time.. http://www.turkishhands.com/

Bıyık yakışmış

I give them 1 year until the passion gets a little lower, and then you are replaced by the new toy, or by a serious girlfriend.

Love is an uncontolable and reciprocal desire or urge to discover everything about another person.

Unfortunately love dies out (except in rare occassions), when there is nothing more to discover in the other person. It is not the end of the world; good news is that one can experience many loves in a lifetime.

On rare occassions, the partners in love join in an eternal unity and become one, duality ceases to exist. It takes a higher level of human being to reach that state and once attained it lasts forever.

I think that is not about turkish men..it can be for every man/ woman around the world..love is first of all physical atraction more of emotional or communication skills....there are, still, an animal inside of human beings...

There is one animal driven man here. Hunt him

Ben bilmem, gökuyum bilir....

bu şart...olmaz mı?..

it says "you cant enter in sombedy`s soul with your boots"...

first flash card  correct me if wrong

is ´depression´ actually ´someone´s soul´? I didn´t know that!