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turkish men in tourist resorts
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 12:30 pm |
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Quoting Rain:
People are same..wherevr you go..if you are good be sure u ll have nice ...if you thnk bad sure u ll get bad..its up to you..
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Yes, this is it!  If you respect others, they'll come back to you with respect.
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 12:36 pm |
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This thread it like a scratched recorded - keeps repeating it self and is incredibly boring!
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 12:39 pm |
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By the way..orhan pamuk such a lair..he can sell his country coz of money of chair..he got no character...dunno who control his mind to do and say all this,,.
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 12:42 pm |
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Quoting libralady: This thread it like a scratched recorded - keeps repeating it self and is incredibly boring! |
i was thinking the same... i cant really remember how many threats we have about popular Turkish Resort Guys hehehe
and i really wonder...when we will understand its a matter of personality and cases, not nations... Turkish, English or whatever...
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 01:48 pm |
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Quoting kim459: could someone please enlighten me as to why most of the turkish guys working in holiday resorts are so desperate to be with an english woman...and also use them to buy them clothes gifts etc.... i go to turkey a lot and had what i thought was a really nice turkish boyfriend, however on a recent trip i realised i didnt as he became extremely violent towards me. |
Not all Turkish men working in resorts are the same, and iam sure there are many that are geniuine. However, in Turkey the standard of wages are generally low, and it can be hard to find work in Turkey without qualifications. Working in bars, and restaurants in the resorts can be very difficult, they work very long hours, and often work without insurance, the minumum wage in Turkey is something like 450ytl a month, and alot of the resort workers are getting paid way under the minimum wage, but they often dont have any choice but to do these type of jobs. On top of this, working in the resorts only provides pay for the summer season, so the money they earn usually has to last them through the winter too. Quite alot of the resort workers, especially those from the poorer areas of south east Turkey also depend on the money to support their families, brothers, sisters etc, many of them come from very poor villages, which are worlds apart from the lively holiday resorts. Then they see the tourists, flashing their cash about, spending it here and there, and they think that they are rich, which is not always the case, but you have to understand what type of backgrounds some of these men are coming from.
Also, regarding the workers that use English women for financial purposes, if they feel there is no shame in doing this, then it shows that they are uneducated, and have no respect for foreign women. If they had any respect for foreign women at all, then they wouldnt use them for money, gifts etc. I think its just the way they have been bought up, they see foreign women as nothing but money,and although they probably wouldnt use muslim women for financial gain, they feel no shame in using foreigners, in my opinion, this shows that they are uneducated, uncultured, and narrowminded, they may act overtly friendly, and seem quite modern and openminded, but very often they are not what they seem, its just an illusion put on to draw in customers.
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 09:42 pm |
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This is just too simplistic.
Some men prey on women.
Some women prey on men.
And it just so happens that turkish beach resports are just one of many places in the world that this occurs.
Single people go on holiday and put themselves in the frame of mind to fall in love and unfortunately be taken advantage of.
I can honestly say this almost happened to me my first visit to brussels back in 1990. But, that is another story... 
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 10:34 pm |
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İ come to think that posting the link wasn't enough,i ought to copy and paste all the posts in the other thread as well,lol
Maybe then we can be logical and reach same conclusion.
There are goods and bads every where,in men,in women,in Turkia,in UK,every where,maybe were in Mars too,lol
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 10:35 pm |
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Quoting CANLI: İ come to think that posting the link wasn't enough,i ought to copy and paste all the posts in the other thread as well,lol
Maybe then we can be logical and reach same conclusion.
There are goods and bads every where,in men,in women,in Turkia,in UK,every where,maybe were in Mars too,lol
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Yeah  . I had a Martian boyfriend once . He always wanted money and was green with jealousy  !
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 10:36 pm |
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 @ Canli ve Aenigma
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27 Oct 2006 Fri 10:55 pm |
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Drum, bang, drum, bang, drum bang.......................... (why is there no yawning smilie?)
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