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MY LIFE IS IN DANGER
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:39 pm |
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Quoting Aenigma: I just can't stop thinking about your ordeal last night Ceyda. What the hell is happening to the world? Society is breaking down so much - but where does this cruelty come from?
There has always been bullying between peers, but kids used to have a certain respect and fear of adults. Where has that gone, and why? What kind of children are being raised now, and what the hell will they grow into? People who have no compassion, no respect for law, no respect for people, animals.... in fact the medical definition is PSYCHOPATH - a person with no compassion. Is that what we have to look forward to? A country of psychopaths? |
GÃœNAYDIN!! dünyaya hoş geldin canım..!!
it has gone so far hasnt it..?? its now impossible to do anythng about it..
only the government can fix this problem and they wont.. maybe they cant..
i mean, this bitch who has kicked my door in and scared the shit out of my family, has kicked me out of school just as i am preparing for my gcses.. her and her friends can do this look. the school say that they are powerless, the police say that they are powerless... we are powerless.
it is clear that we are all under the government's thumb, so why dont they do somethng about it?
why cant they change the laws so that girls like that are put in a special unit or school, if not, forget their education, they will only end up in a womens prison anyway. let them stay at home, if they choose to roam the streets, let it be, let them be arrested and put away in a cell. where they deserve to be.
i dont want to be in a country where the government allows things like this to happen. i want to be in turkey more than ever right now, because at least i will be able to feel safe.
im sure many of you have read my other thread about the turkish women who gossip, and how my summer has been ruined because of my "mother-in-law-to-be", but, i would even prefer to be there with all of them right now because i would feel safer than i do now...!!
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:39 pm |
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Quoting deli: miss ceyda you are in my thoughts. |
thank you cnm
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:43 pm |
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:46 pm |
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Quoting Aenigma: Quoting miss_ceyda: im sure many of you have read my other thread about the turkish women who gossip, and how my summer has been ruined because of my "mother-in-law-to-be", but, i would even prefer to be there with all of them right now because i would feel safer than i do now...!! |
Me too Ceyda. I want to live somewhere where there are still values. I hope all young people how crave the kind of freedom English kids have here, and moan about their parents being so strict will realise it is because they care about them so much. Kids who are free to do as they please, are kids who are not loved, so they learn not to love or feel compassion either. |
yes, i can see where you are coming from...
and i hate to say this, but, the only thng we can do, is escape from a place like this.
i would love so much to have the power to change everything, so that not just my family is safe, but also everyone else.
i am however, like i said, POWERLESS, so all i can do is leave this shit place and try and forget about everythng that has happened.
i will be 16 in august people, im still young.. these years are supposed to be some of the best in my life.
i should be focused on college now, and turkey and the turkish language.. but i cant be.. i have to worry about how the government is not doing its job properly...
this isnt right.. i have to do something... :'(
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:54 pm |
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:56 pm |
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Quoting Aenigma: Quoting miss_ceyda: . i have to worry about how the government is not doing its job properly...
this isnt right.. i have to do something... :'( |
I realise that I am very lucky to be living where I do, because we don't see this kind of behaviour...yet. But how long before it reaches here too? Yep Ceyda...time to get the hell out!!!!  |
i could contact the government i suupose.. i have done it before..
i went on strike at school because of the iraq war.. ahh the amount of trouble i got into because of tht.. surely the school should be encouraging such behaviour??
after that i emailed the gov. head office with my war poem which im sure you have read.. not surprisingly, there was no reply but soon after we had them trying to hack our pc..!!
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:56 pm |
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well,nowhere is heaven friends,always goods and bads on everywhere,just we have to know that things changing bad way day by day,and youth in big problems about the changes which called modernisim and freedom
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:58 pm |
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:59 pm |
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Quoting MrX67: well,nowhere is heaven friends,always goods and bads on everywhere,just we have to know that things changing bad way day by day,and youth in big problems about the changes which called modernisim and freedom |
i wouldnt call this freedom you know..
freedom is where people can live peacefully, with laws of course; but fair ones.. where people can comfortably sit in their own home without the fear of a group of yobs attacking their house... freedom is where you can go to bed and not have to worry about your younger brothers and sisters being in danger when they are sleeping in their beds... its not living with the fear of society having no morals and thus acting like this...!!
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 03:03 pm |
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i totally agree with you Ceyda,but crowded cities and demoralizations on family lifes,makes worse things day by day.And i think goverments not enough interested in the problems of youth,and they just thinking to keep longer their chairs
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 03:06 pm |
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here is the rest of the translation from ilker, bir_türk...
"kız babama saldırmaya basladıgında babam en sonunda dayanamayıp kız karsı komsunun cıtlerıne fırlattı gozlerıme ınanamadım babamın bu halını gorunce.Eger o an babam kadar korkunc bakan kımseyı gorseydım nereye kaççagımı sasırırdım.Kızın bu gucu nerden bulduguna sasırmamak elde degıl ve bu 3 kez oldu.Kıza kavga etmek yetmıyor.Bir dusunsene ben okuldayken basıma bole bır sey gelse elımden gelen hıc bırsey olmucaktı.
Kızın elınde yarım sıse vodka vardı ve o kadar sarhosu kı sadece kendı dunyasındaydı sankı.Benım dısarı cıkmam ıcın bagırıp duruyodu fırsatını bulur bulmaz babamı gecıp benım ustume saldırdı elındekı sısyle wurmaya kalktı aama wuramadı.
O kadar gereksız laf ve kufurden sonra babamla ewe gırmeyı basardık we kapıyı kapadık.Fakat 3 sanıye gectı gecmedı kapı tekmeldı kapının arkasındada ben wardım ıcersı hep camıdı ben cok korkmustum.Ne olcagını bılmıodum we kapının arkasındakı merdıvenlere oturmus beklıodum babam tekrar geldı we kızı kacamasın dıe tuttu bu arada annem polisi aradı.Bu sırada o bagırıp cagıran kızdan eser kalmamıstı o an kzın uzerınde koyu bır leke fakedıldi kız kan ıcınde kalmıstı.Babam kızın dıger arkadaslarını erkek arkadaslarını aramıs ıcın serbest bıraktı.Kısa bır zaman ıcınde etraıfmızı kızın arkadaslarından 20 kısı toplanmıstı daha sonra polis ve ambulans geldı.Kız kapıyı tekmelerken ayagı camdan ıcerı gırmıs ve derınce kesılmıstı bu kadar kan akacagını hıc tahmın etmemıstım sankı etrafta cınayet ıslenmıs havası wardı.Tum komsular camdaydı ve hıc bırısı ne oldu ıyımısınız dıye sormaya bıle gelmedı.Sonra adli tıptan geldıler,sankı kendımı fılmde hıssedıordum şoktaydım...
Polis burda durmayı kabul etmedı we hersey tekrardan olabılırdi tum gece ayakta kaldım tekrar gerı donerler dıye.
Turkıye’ye gelmeyı cok ıstıyorum artık burda duramam.Keske annem butun bu sorunları yaratmasaydı en fazla burda 5 gun daha kalırım.sımdı benım Turkıyeye neden bu kadar cok gelmek ıstedıgımı anlayabılyor musunuz? Yazın bu olanlardan sonra anneme cok tesekkur ederım.Eger bır gun boynum kırılırsa yaralanırsam sakın şok olmayın "
thank you everyone.. i will be back online later... xXx
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