As far as I understand, it is an abnormality to do with the chromosones.

Kelebek: we have all experienced this sort of love and the man has played away, when we were in our teens.

The good thing is, you are very young, and there are plenty of young single men, who would only be too willing to love and cherish you, for the person you are.

It will be his loss, and he will regret it. As he has not appreciated the love you gave him.

He might be feeling he wants a taste of the high life, then will probably settle down easily later as they usually do. He is still very young and needs a life at the moment.

Try and find it in your heart to move on, and explore new horizons. Don't dwell on him too much. If you meet someone else, he might be devastated. Go out and meet new persons. This will be the best direction.

I sent international signed for and it never reached destination in Turkey. Too much hassle with Royal Mail, since June, and still waiting for compensation.

Emma: twice I have sent things to Turkey and it hasn't arrived. I only use Western Union money transfer now. Hope this helps you.

You can be sure. It can be collected in 20 mins, as long as person has proof of identity and given the 10 digit number from you by W.U.

Emma: twice I have sent things to Turkey and it hasn't arrived. I only use Western Union money transfer now. Hope this helps you.

You can be sure. It can be collected in 20 mins, as long as person has proof of identity and given the 10 digit number from you by W.U.

Thankyou, just had it translated, it was he is waiting for her.

Friend just been on phone for translation.

I have given what I know.

This is what other is seni Bekhcem or is it Bekleyecegim?

Please translate quick, person on phone. thankyou

If a Turkishman's wife worked, then she would have her independence. She would not be relying solely on her husband. This is where he would not feel the main provider. He would also not feel the respect of a male, that the stay at home housewife would give.

Personally, I think he would feel he would lose the macho husband image being protective and providing for his wife and family.

I don't think it would go down with the Turkish culture where they lived and he would probably feel inferior to his surroundings. The culture is very important to prove he can provide for wife and family. The male seemingly still has to some degree dominance in the household. And, as someone stipulates, what is expected is the wife, to be quiet and allow him to have his male friends.

Thanks Elisa: have put it in my favourites.

What Ramayan says is the trend for a Turkish wife in Turkey, the ideal age.

We in Britain and America are more versatile on age of partners.