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to Si++ - you asked what shoked me, and I have to sadly admit that nothing really does any more. I´ve seen/heard about all types of tragedys these days so much so that they are not shocking at all. Whether it be floods/earthquakes etc ruining and killing thousands of people lives, whether a father/mother has set fire to their own house to kill themselves along with their children, or whether a child is kidnapped and raped before being killed, or whether it´s honor killings, or murders for no reason and so on.
Don´t get me wrong, it ALL horrifies me, but shocks me? Not one bit. There´s too much of it in today´s world to make it shocking any more. It happens so much you sadly get used to hearing it all.
On the actual subject note: I agree the difference between arranged and forced marriages is very thin but we must not forget that that line still exists and thankfully too. Some women agree to arranged marriages - and I know one of them being very excited about the whole thing. To that note I do not disagree with arranged marriages if the participants agree to it, but if they do not, no-one should have the right to force someone to do something they do not wish to do when it will dramatically change their lives.
I also agree that all around the world people live their lives, dramatically different to what we live ours and in most (not all!) cases we should have to respect that (unless we count it as morally wrong). For example the chinese eat such different variety, some of which we would consider a health hazard in a kitchen (cockroach), or alot of (not all!) eastern countries the woman is considered to be the one to stay at home etc and the man at work, where as western countries, women show more independence. Or another example we all celebrate different days, like in India, they celebrate Holi festival and they go round covering themselves - and others! - in bright colors of powder!
I´m not saying I wish ALL the differences stuck around but like I said before these differences make our world very interesting and make learning about other cultures etc interesting too. For example, seeing everyone and yourself get splattered in different colors of powder is an experience I know that I would love because it is so different from my own (or tomato throwing in Spain! )- though I wouldn´t go as far as eating a cockroach in China 
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