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'Anatolian women''
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31 May 2007 Thu 11:29 pm |
Good grief, of course I am not saying parents who hire babysitters are bad parents. How on earth did you get that??
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31 May 2007 Thu 11:33 pm |
Quoting xkirstyx: So many women get caught up in being equal to men , they act as though its not their place to cook and clean, but are fine to go to pubs and leave their children with strangers to look after etc. |
in here it sounds you're negative about the parents leaving their kids with babysitters.
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31 May 2007 Thu 11:52 pm |
NOOOOOO flippin hec... haha no-one could be with their kids ALL the time ( without wanting to kill them occasionally ) The point I was trying to make was.... now I'm not sure how to put it without losing the point or offending again.... some of my old school friends who have kids, They feel that certain things like housework and preparing fresh meals is wasting time. They say ridiculous things like" women fought for years so I dont have to waste time on things like that" They are happy enough to give their kids junk food take-away every day and leave their child with anybody who will take them so they can go out drinking. There have been times they leave their kids with people they dont know last minute cus they hate to miss a night out, then their kids end up in some dodgy situations with the guys they bring home.
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31 May 2007 Thu 11:57 pm |
Quoting xkirstyx: NOOOOOO flippin hec... haha no-one could be with their kids ALL the time ( without wanting to kill them occasionally ) The point I was trying to make was.... now I'm not sure how to put it without losing the point or offending again.... some of my old school friends who have kids, They feel that certain things like housework and preparing fresh meals is wasting time. They say ridiculous things like" women fought for years so I dont have to waste time on things like that" They are happy enough to give their kids junk food take-away every day and leave their child with anybody who will take them so they can go out drinking. There have been times they leave their kids with people they dont know last minute cus they hate to miss a night out, then their kids end up in some dodgy situations with the guys they bring home. |
ahhhh ok yes I know the type. thanks for explaining, I guess I just took it as a general annoyance of women who dont stay home to cook and clean. Got you now and agree
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01 Jun 2007 Fri 12:45 am |
Quoting catwoman:
Quoting qdemir: catwoman, I simply asked you to tell us about women in your home country, Poland to know about the issue from the first hand rather than the second hand. |
Is this how you 'ask' qdemir? That's interesting (so manly) . Anyways, I'm glad that there are feminists in Poland who point these things out and fight against them (as opposed to defending them ).
Thank you karekin! |
I just wanted to know about women in your home country, Poland because of the fact that you are always talking as if there was no infringement of natural rights of women in your country to exist, but in Turkey only. (Nobody defends such infringement of any rights on here.)How sad! women in Poland are exposed to much worse infringment of rights. Every woman hasn't chance to have education abroad, have they?, catwoman.
Above all, what I am surprised at seeing most is you need some other people's support on here. 'Thank you ...'
Do you really need that, catwoman? Actually, I am disappointed.
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01 Jun 2007 Fri 02:29 am |
I was just catching up on reading these posts......what's up people???? Either poster's are taking up attack stance or they are in full on defensive mode.
How much energy is wasted with such negative back and forth squabbling?
Why do we allow ourselves to get so lit up by someone we really don't even know? Why do we expend so much of ourselves on these back and forth debates and take offense so easily?
Have a drink...relax !
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01 Jun 2007 Fri 05:19 am |
Quoting qdemir: I just wanted to know about women in your home country, Poland because of the fact that you are always talking as if there was no infringement of natural rights of women in your country to exist, but in Turkey only. (Nobody defends such infringement of any rights on here.)How sad! women in Poland are exposed to much worse infringment of rights. Every woman hasn't chance to have education abroad, have they?, catwoman.
Above all, what I am surprised at seeing most is you need some other people's support on here. 'Thank you ...'
Do you really need that, catwoman? Actually, I am disappointed. |
I am really sad that you had to say this.
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01 Jun 2007 Fri 12:21 pm |
Quoting girleegirl: I was just catching up on reading these posts......what's up people???? Either poster's are taking up attack stance or they are in full on defensive mode.
How much energy is wasted with such negative back and forth squabbling?
Why do we allow ourselves to get so lit up by someone we really don't even know? Why do we expend so much of ourselves on these back and forth debates and take offense so easily?
Have a drink...relax !
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And I'll just join the drink anyway
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01 Jun 2007 Fri 01:13 pm |
Quoting Deli_kizin: And I'll just join the drink anyway  |
Deli_kizin, didn't you say that you were going to stop drinking?
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01 Jun 2007 Fri 01:25 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting Deli_kizin: And I'll just join the drink anyway  |
Deli_kizin, didn't you say that you were going to stop drinking?  |
Ohh no.. I couldn't do that I will just stop when Im about to get into the stage that all that seemed funny a minute ago, now becomes extremely sad. So I will just stick to the funny part
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01 Jun 2007 Fri 01:27 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting qdemir: I just wanted to know about women in your home country, Poland because of the fact that you are always talking as if there was no infringement of natural rights of women in your country to exist, but in Turkey only. (Nobody defends such infringement of any rights on here.)How sad! women in Poland are exposed to much worse infringment of rights. Every woman hasn't chance to have education abroad, have they?, catwoman.
Above all, what I am surprised at seeing most is you need some other people's support on here. 'Thank you ...'
Do you really need that, catwoman? Actually, I am disappointed. |
I am really sad that you had to say this. |
I am sad you feel that way. However, your posts, I don't mean the ones on this thread only, create such an impression.
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