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13 Sep 2010 Mon 10:35 pm |
My point was that crimes of all sort happens even in "civilised" countries. And in my view a country that tolerates the killing of girls for honor reasons in my eyes is not a "civilised" country. Why should a girl be killed by her family if she has been raped by a man? ..
sure bad things happen everywhere but in Canada perpetrator will be punished by court order (if they catch him of course) whereas in many Arab countries such case will not even get to court as such action is perceived legal and justified. See the difference?
There was a fantastic a series of articles about honor killings from Roberts Fisk in the independent last week.
In one of them he says:
Iraqi Kurds, Palestinians in Jordan, Pakistan and Turkey appear to be the worst offenders but media freedoms in these countries may over-compensate for the secrecy which surrounds "honour" killings in Egypt ´ which untruthfully claims there are none ´ and other Middle East nations in the Gulf and the Levant. But honour crimes long ago spread to Britain, Belgium, Russia and Canada and many other nations. Security authorities and courts across much of the Middle East have connived in reducing or abrogating prison sentences for the family murder of women, often classifying them as suicides to prevent prosecutions.
It is difficult to remain unemotional at the vast and detailed catalogue of these crimes. How should one react to a man ´ this has happened in both Jordan and Egypt ´ who rapes his own daughter and then, when she becomes pregnant, kills her to save the "honour" of his family? Or the Turkish father and grandfather of a 16-year-old girl, Medine Mehmi, in the province of Adiyaman, who was buried alive beneath a chicken coop in February for "befriending boys"? Her body was found 40 days later, in a sitting position and with her hands tied.
(there was even a case in London recently!!)
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http://www.independent.co.uk/opinion/commentators/fisk/robert-fisk-the-crimewave-that-shames-the-world-2072201.html (just read and cry really!!)
DD is right to say that in many countries honor killings are being treated more different than the other killings..Those type of crimes are seen justified morally. This moral justification is reflected in many areas in life: Like, police dont treat the person the way he deserves. In some rural areas, they ignore the evidence; they pretend they did not see or hear anything; judges are more symphatetic etc..
Even in jail they are treated differently and hugely respected if their crime is ´honor killing´.
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13 Sep 2010 Mon 10:55 pm |
This is not just a christian thing Arafta. And fathers raping their daughters is not a christian tradition and is not limited to "christian countries". There are Muslim men, in muslim countries that also rape their own daughters, it is called incest.
so you are saying that men raping their daughters is not a christian tradition but men killing their daughters is a muslim tradition?
In the Gaza Strip, Saudi, Lebanon, Irak, Jordan
Let`s not make up stuff. According to wikipedia, countries in which honor killing is legal are Jordan, Syria, and Morocco.
Wikipedia also states that honor killing was legal in the christian Brazil and Colombia until the 1990`s
A June 2008 report by the Turkish Prime Ministry´s Human Rights Directorate, says that in Istanbul alone, there is one honor killing every week;
A 16-year-old girl had been buried alive by relatives for befriending boys in Southeast Turkey; her corpse was only found 40 days after she went missing.
southeast Turkey? you mean Kurdistan?
Would you like some more?
yes because 3 countries don`t make up the majority of Arab countries.
Edited (9/13/2010) by Arafta
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13 Sep 2010 Mon 11:00 pm |
Turkey: In Turkey, persons found guilty of this crime are sentenced to life in prison.[76] There are well documented cases, where Turkish courts have sentenced whole families to life imprisonment for an honor killing. The most recent was on January 13, 2009, where a Turkish Court sentenced five members of the same Kurdish family to life imprisonment for the "honour killing" of Naile Erdas, 16, who got pregnant as a result of rape.
source:wikipedia
ahh those bloody Turks oppressing Kurds!
Edited (9/13/2010) by Arafta
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13 Sep 2010 Mon 11:04 pm |
so you are saying that men raping their daughters is not a christian tradition but men killing their daughters is a muslim tradition?
Read my posts again Arafa you are the one who mentionned Mulsims. When I mentionned honor killings I never mentionned any religions. You are the one who started to make a distinction between them. I never said that honor killing were a muslim "tradition" do not put words in my mouth. Honor killings do not know religious bounderies.
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13 Sep 2010 Mon 11:10 pm |
Read my posts again Arafa you are the one who mentionned Mulsims. When I mentionned honor killings I never mentionned any religions. You are the one who started to make a distinction between them. I never said that honor killing were a muslim "tradition" do not put words in my mouth. Honor killings do not know religious bounderies.
just because you avoid the word muslims doesn`t mean you are not referring to them. your fake "political correctness" doesn`t work here.
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14 Sep 2010 Tue 01:31 am |
just because you avoid the word muslims doesn`t mean you are not referring to them. your fake "political correctness" doesn`t work here.
don´t you dare start labelling me as being a fake "politicly correctness". What are you some kind of martyre want to be? Or is your paranoiya clouding your judgment? You do not know me and in no way are you in a position to judge me. You do not take the time to read the posts and only pick out what suits you. Honor killings are not just a "Muslim" thing, it is just that it is the ones that are spoken about the most. But in the time that I have been living on this planet I have seen Christians commit honnor killings, jews commit honnor killings. And further more I upstain from definning people by their religion because in my beleifs WE ALL COME FROM THE SAME RELIGION, Muslim, Jews and Catholics and I am not mentionning all the others, We all come from the same religion. Now if this is too complicated for you to understand or if this is a way of thinking that is too modern for please refrain from reading. Anyways I am just a fake in your eyes!
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14 Sep 2010 Tue 02:39 am |
I guess it is naive to think the world is beautiful.
I guess it is naive to think that everyone can get along.
I guess it is naive to think that there can be a world without war.
I guess it is naive to think that people are not defined by their religion, skin color or gender.
I guess it is naive to think that we can all live together without killing each other.
I guess it is naive to think that children can have a real childhood without being raped, maimed or killed.
Well if it is naive to think all of that I would rather be labelled a naive woman and have people call me a fake and call me every name in the book. But I know that I have retained one thing from my childhood. Everyone is a good person and the world is a beautiful place and in my eyes no one is better than the other, there is no religion creating barriers between people and there is no war.
That is what I am, naive, because there are wars, people die and people kill, religion creates barriers amongs people and the world is ugly. But I hope to see a little bit of beauty in this world before I die just as I have seen when I was a child.
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14 Sep 2010 Tue 03:03 am |
I guess it is naive to think the world is beautiful.
I guess it is naive to think that everyone can get along.
I guess it is naive to think that there can be a world without war.
I guess it is naive to think that people are not defined by their religion, skin color or gender.
I guess it is naive to think that we can all live together without killing each other.
I guess it is naive to think that children can have a real childhood without being raped, maimed or killed.
Well if it is naive to think all of that I would rather be labelled a naive woman and have people call me a fake and call me every name in the book. But I know that I have retained one thing from my childhood. Everyone is a good person and the world is a beautiful place and in my eyes no one is better than the other, there is no religion creating barriers between people and there is no war.
That is what I am, naive, because there are wars, people die and people kill, religion creates barriers amongs people and the world is ugly. But I hope to see a little bit of beauty in this world before I die just as I have seen when I was a child.
enough drama already. if you can`t handle an argument you can simply admit that you were wrong. don`t worry I won`t bully you.
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14 Sep 2010 Tue 03:13 am |
you know what Arafta you are not worth it!
If you consider what I wrote drama you have a serious problem.
If people do not agree with you they are fakes.
If they have their own point of views they are racist or what ever.
A bigot call another a bigot, plain and simple.
Edited (9/14/2010) by stumpy
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14 Sep 2010 Tue 03:50 am |
I have never called someone here a bigot but I guess that`s what you consider yourself to be.
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14 Sep 2010 Tue 03:54 am |
your interpratation not mine
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