Ok, thanks. First, I thought you were turkish because your turkish is quite advanced, but then I saw some weird mistakes that a native would not make and I couldn´t be sure.

Then your writing level is really advanced.

"Eðer yaðmur yaðarsa þemsiyemi getireceðim" is not the translation of "in case", it´s the translation of "if it rains..." It´s possible that it won´t rain but in anyway I´ll bring it.

"Yaðmur yaðarsa diye..." is not correct,  it´s either "yaðmur yaðarsa" or "yaðmur yaðar diye", "if it rains" or "in case it rains".

Yaðmur yaðabilir/yaðar  diye þemsiyemi getireceðim.

In fact, "in case" is not veyr much used in daily life in turkish. We usually in many cases simply say, "ne olur ne olmaz þemsiyemi getireceðim", we guess that "in case it rains".

"ne olur ne olmaz" = in any case

Melike, are  you turkish? Or you just know well turkish?

 Yaðmur yaðar diye þemsiye(mi) getireceðim.

or

Yaðmur yaðabilir diye þemsiye(mi) getireceðim.

But you did it well, and the second one is correct.

 In fact, it depends the case. perfect tense can be translated in both ways. I think it wouldn´t be wrong to say either "ilerlemiþ" nor "ilerledi". In english perfect tense is used in a lot of cases where we just prefer to use  simple tenses. If we knew more about the story behind the sentence, we could be more certain.

"-dýr" suffix is very rarely used in turkish, and furthermore, I don´t think that it´s used for a case like this. Most of the english sentences that are in past perfect tense are simply translated to the simple past tense in turkish.

Geçen yýldan beri ingilizcen çok ilerledi.

This one is the last version

"Onu yalancý diye adlandýrdýðýný söyledi ama sen onu asla/hiç bu þekilde adlandýrmazsýn."

Instead of "bu þekilde" you can use "böyle" as well.

I see that turkish learners have a lot of problem with the words ending with the letters "p,ç,t,k".

In the rule, it says that if you have a word ending with one of these letters, and if you want to add a suffix that starts with a vowel,  they softens to "b,c,d and ð" respectively.

However, there´re many words that do not respect this rule.  In our lessons, we  give as exception just "one  syllable words". In one syllable words, the letter do not change.

There´re other exceptions, and I´m giving them now.

2. In some one syllable words, softening takes place.

Forexample:

Kap-ýn...kabýn

3. In proper names, softening never happens.

Örnek: Ürgüp´ e, Zeynep´in

4. The rule does not apply to words borrowed from other languages (this one is the most confusing)
Examples: Devlet-imiz, Tank-ýn, Hukuk-un, Hürriyet-imiz, Sanat-ýn, Millet-in, Bisiklet-in, Saat-in, Bilet-in

I think it´s not a turkish thing. There´re many turkish men who like to meet his girlfriend and spend time with her. There might be many like yours in Turkey, as well, but thinking that it´s a turkish thing would be quite over simplfying things. It´s just high probability that being a non turkish you fell on such a type who does not know the real meaning of having a relationship. They are the kind of men you have to avoid because the bad news is that they never change. You´ll never be satisfied in this relationship, you´ll just get more and more frustrated and hurt. Don´t ever think to start a life with him. He will marry you, you´ll have kids, but you will always feel yourself isolated.