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I just came back to USA from visiting my boyfriend in Antalya and Istanbul. He wants so much to marry me, but his father is so angry, and says he will not give permission for his son to marry me and the only reason is because i am American. We are 28 years old, so what the heck is this all about that being adults we would need his father´s permission? My boyfriend and I are heartbroken, because his father has never met me, but does not want his son going to USA. that would take time anyway due to marriage visas needed. I would gladly live in Turkey as long as my boyfriend and i can be together. My boyfriend never wants to upset his father, and says well, if he left and married me, his family would not speak to him ever again. Just to please be patient and he will talk with his father more. This is tearing us up so much. Especially since I am learning turkish, and i am a good, repectable woman, who does not deserve this pain and heartbreak. Hope no one has to deal with this heartbreak like me.
i am so sorry  actually i had similar experience with my turkish family but after they met me and my boyfriend didnt change his mind about our relations, i arrived to Turkey and they needed to accept me, as they needed to choose - lose son or not.For now our relations are perfect - even better than i had ever with my own parents.Maybe try to find some chance to meet them and try to prove that their son will be happy with you   good luck! 
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