from this point they should force to marry all those foreigner girls with whom guys had relations - to be fair.

i hope they will force my BF   

 yeah... this sounded for me also the most scary thing for a women that´s why i want to know is it true or not.

we still dont know my mother-in-law birthday either, as she was registred few months after she was born.

 yes.İ heard this from one turkish guy who shared traditions in seminar...

to JUSTİNETİME.İ agree with you also.But from this point i think also turkish guys who knows their families pretty well should think before get involved in relations without saying what kind of dificulties they can face.İ mean there is no secret that all these interenet relations sooner or later will end in a one or other way and before to start them,it would be great to think what they can do with other person lives (in this case those women who is going to Turkey blinded with empty promises and after suffering because of dumping with some excuses).it is not fair anyway.so before jumping in to foreigner bed they should think at first what they really want and what they are doing.

Of course we dont have right to judge just share opinion.And of course we should respect also other culture and traditions (i really do, just try to see diferent angles too).By the way - i think some time ago i heard that in some traditional williages women who has been raped need to get marry with guilty person...İs this true?

İ agree with CANLİ.Man should be MAN in situation like this (in age close to 30 when i think is the right time for creating a family and live his own, adult life).Maybe just this guy is not right one - as it is to hard to make his own decissions and be in charge about his and other persons life.İt is much easier to give up and put the blame on something or someone else.Wanting is in 1st place and the rest is just obstacles with what he should fight.İf love is REAL-- only thing what can stop lovers is rejecting from beloved.İf woman is ready to sacrifise all her life and leave everything behind in the name of love (even more - she feels guilty about spliting family,but her beloved didnt say anything about her family and their reactions), he should do the same.İ am so sorry again that life is not always giving everything so easy.But maybe it is better, who knows...i wish the best and still believe that everyhting what happens is just next step forward to something much better...

 Thanks Trudy!

i have question about section 2 Constant Harmony 1.homework.Why i need add "e" and which meaning i need to put on words.İt is the same as add "a" or "e" ?

 life here is pretty interesting, you just need to be sure about your deccision and open to all new  

 maybe it was meant like "i am young, but for you it is enough, as we are lowers now"...