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Traditions ...
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25 May 2007 Fri 08:11 am |
My boyfriend is saying that he want to come to my place with somebody and ask me to marry him or it is the first visit.And he was saying something about the coffee that the girl should give to the guests and for him visout a sugar?????? Can somebody please explain what will go on?
Many thanks
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25 May 2007 Fri 09:17 am |
Yes you can decide your own life but you know its just tradition.
I dont know sugar. Maybe you can serve sugar (chocolate, lokum etc)
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25 May 2007 Fri 09:54 am |
Yes, I agree, plus I like the traditions ... I wanted to say if I have not have anybody whom his parents can address ... what to do in this case?
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25 May 2007 Fri 09:57 am |
Oh yes sorry
Your friend maybe, your relative maybe or if there is no one you by yourself. There is no problem.
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25 May 2007 Fri 10:06 am |
I believe with the sugar he meant that the Turkish coffee has to be made well. I mean, there is a certain way Turkish coffee should be made AND look. It cant be all fluffy and foamy, but totally foamless like nescafe isnt correct either if i remember.. So the girl has to make the coffee perfect. And if his father loves very sweet coffee, she should add 2 spoons/lumps of sugar to his coffee in the cezve?
I thought there wasn't really such a thing of Kız istemek anymore, or mostly informal and without the coffee
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25 May 2007 Fri 10:21 am |
I would never see that happen to us, though it would be rather cool and Id like to say that my Turkish coffee is not bad for a starter either hehe.
But as my lovers parents didnt do the Kız istemek (çünkü onlar kızı istememişler ), he just took her
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25 May 2007 Fri 10:23 am |
Maybe cause you are foreigner. So they just respect your culture and traditions i thougth and dont need that.
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