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Thread: Turkish Learning Groups - students needed!

41.       pansi
94 posts
 02 Aug 2008 Sat 11:54 am

i am also ready to learn seriously



Thread: how i can delete my profile?

42.       pansi
94 posts
 30 Jul 2008 Wed 12:01 pm

i was expecting more from this website, to be honest.and also i thought that talks will be more about Turkey and in turkish what could help to learn.



Thread: Two thirds of young women in Turkey sit at home

43.       pansi
94 posts
 30 Jul 2008 Wed 11:43 am

i am so sorry that i opened my mouth.as i am dumb and dont know anything about turkish women and relations and life generally (even i am sociologist and have traveled pretty much).but i still think before trying to change the world you should ask - is it ok for them also who rights you are protecting or trying to get.ok - you all are right!!!tamam mı?have a good day!



Thread: how i can delete my profile?

44.       pansi
94 posts
 30 Jul 2008 Wed 11:11 am

maybe i am to dumb but i couldnt find this option...



Thread: Two thirds of young women in Turkey sit at home

45.       pansi
94 posts
 30 Jul 2008 Wed 11:09 am

Quoting girleegirl:


I really have no clue what you are trying to say with your stereotypical “car accident” comment and your treatise on the pop industry but according to your way of thinking the people of the world should turn a blind eye to human rights issues because we just need to understand differences in culture? Sorry, that’s just wrong.



it is really easy to talk about rights sitting by desk and typing posts.pitty that i need to write 4 posts just to explane main difference between man and woman and cultures.and about "car accident" - i meant that women are brave and on the same level when everyhting is perfect but in the end they still need men advice.i am not talking about human rigths but understanding.For example, do you really think that if sending women who doesnt have any work experience and knowledge to work will heal society and make them more statisfied about their life?it is the same like to talk about religion.no matter what other will prove or give as "right" and "correct", it depends of persons who are involved not of those who are talking about it.i am really sorry that you cannot see my point of view



Thread: look who the real closed minded people are at TLC...

46.       pansi
94 posts
 30 Jul 2008 Wed 10:13 am

Quoting Daydreamer:

How liberal was the idea that it is natural for women to stay at home as they are the ones giving birth?

Still, I´m tempted to agree with you that you can´t call yourself liberal if you don´t accept other people´s choices in all aspects of life - be it careers, clothes, music or what they watch. (As long as it´s legal of course)



agree.in liberal thinking we should respect other persons choices and dont call them wrong.of course it is dissapointing that in working places women get smaller salaries even they usually are working more hard than men.



Thread: Two thirds of young women in Turkey sit at home

47.       pansi
94 posts
 30 Jul 2008 Wed 10:05 am

Quoting girleegirl:


Calling it normal does not make it right. In ancient times gladiators were thrown into an arena and forced to fight to the death…..would that still be acceptable in these days? No! Times change….unfortunately, women’s rights is one of the areas in which it is still creeping along and you know why? Because men still hold the balance of power and because some women think its ok because its “normal”.



why woman who drive with car after accident ask man to fix it?
i am not talking about rights but about understanding - in different times and different countries are different understanding about things.it was in history different and now it is different.İ am not calling normal so many things in nova days - such popindustry with teenage stars,who is popularize parties and one night stands, drugs,violence in tv,teenage alcoholism, animal killing just for new clothes ,running to get more money for buying things what we actually dont need, just to be equialent with our neighboud and friends, etc. but they are part of modern society.then why to call society who are living like this so many centuries wrong?they understanding are different and they are not complaining.İ cannot agree with all things what happening in Turkey but i can accept that they are living like this and i dont have any rigths to change them.



Thread: Two thirds of young women in Turkey sit at home

48.       pansi
94 posts
 30 Jul 2008 Wed 07:51 am

the fact is that turkish women and average american or europian women are DİFFERENT.we cannot except the way how they live and think with our own experience and try to heal society with - "you need to live like i think because it is better".always will be women who will want work and always will be who will want spent time at home.there is also many things what seems strange for me, but for this society it is normal - as sitting at home and asking money from husband, as growing their kids at home not leaving them to stranger care,as role distribution in family.



Thread: how do you feel today?

49.       pansi
94 posts
 29 Jul 2008 Tue 10:13 am

but in the same time i cannot delete it and it is a bit annoying



Thread: Two thirds of young women in Turkey sit at home

50.       pansi
94 posts
 29 Jul 2008 Tue 10:05 am

İ didnt read other posts but those women who i know doesnt feel unhappy about sitting at home.İ am not talking about education here - but about peaceful home life(İ am sitting at home also - need to be honest - even i have university degree and i cannot say that i am not good educated,but for now it is more language problem).İt is more like lifestyle for housewives.When husband leaves in the mornings, they have their own things to do,house to clean, kids to play, shoping to do, friends to visit etc.Husband is taking care about financial side of family but women is housekeeper and full time mom.Also for young women it so much depends of family - how they see daughters future - with carrier or at husbands home.İf family is against study, then it is problem.But in the same time let young girl to work in places where is mostly man working also seems to be a bit dangerous.For me - i dont see this as a big problem.maybe it is better than average working mom who doesnt see their children, not have time for themselves or for friends, not even mentioned about time for husband.İ dont know noone who is complaining about sitting at home (just about persons who i know).But of course - to get at least highschool education is important.



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