Body language in all sorts ( ) is fun - sometimes - but marrying a man I can't communicate with in spoken and written language? No way! I need to be able to talk to my partner. If he does not speak my language and/or English, he should learn, same for me: I need in that case to learn his - though I hope it will not be Zulu, Xhosa or such one...

Especially having an intercultural love requires language. There will be many things you think different about or different habits you are used to. To avoid nasty surprises or painful situations, these are things to talk about. Points of view about life and religion, maybe even politics or history. Your dreams, your hopes. Dreams and hopes are more than willing to be in each others arms, walk on the beach and go out together. There is more to love than the things we do to express our love.

But.. who are we to judge someone elses love? No one can ever know what goes on between two people, no matter if they communicate with words that are intelligble to both or if they do not. Maybe there is more to love than those sms they ask to get translated. Maybe those sms are for them what a smile of a lover is when you live side by side. Who knows?

You must communicate with your partner because of knowing him/her well so partners should speak same language to know eachother..You cant express your feelings and ideas with body language..

Yes possible but you cant express your whole feelings,maybe you can express your sexual wishes but how can you have an idea about your partner without speaking totally?