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marriage!
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 04:29 am |
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Quoting nana: i know his family knows cuz his aunt wrote me to ask and say that they love me |
Awww sounds like a lovely family 
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 05:31 am |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: ...dont talk, just look and feel |
"We'll be together forever baby!" I'm sure it works well after a few rounds. 
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 11:31 am |
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Quoting Capoeira: Quoting Lapinkulta: ...dont talk, just look and feel |
"We'll be together forever baby!" I'm sure it works well after a few rounds. |
Ooouh yes ! And then later....
"The winter's are so cold and lonely now baby, I think of you always and wish you were here with me, my "wife". I can't get any work yet for the winter - things are bad, if it was not for you, I think I would die. Please can you send me some money baby....."  !
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 01:03 pm |
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i think that is so wrong of you to say. a lot of turkish men are only after english girls money and its just wrong a lot of these girls do truley love these men and in return these men seem to feel no guilt at the pain you put them through. why are you so cold hearted?
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 01:16 pm |
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Quoting vickysmith: i think that is so wrong of you to say. a lot of turkish men are only after english girls money and its just wrong a lot of these girls do truley love these men and in return these men seem to feel no guilt at the pain you put them through. why are you so cold hearted? |
Am I cold hearted??! Or realistic??!  Why do you say it is wrong of me to say this, when you then go on to say exactly the same thing! It is about time these girls opened their eyes to the reality of these holiday "romances".
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 03:13 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting Capoeira: Quoting Lapinkulta: ...dont talk, just look and feel |
"We'll be together forever baby!" I'm sure it works well after a few rounds. |
Ooouh yes ! And then later....
"The winter's are so cold and lonely now baby, I think of you always and wish you were here with me, my "wife". I can't get any work yet for the winter - things are bad, if it was not for you, I think I would die. Please can you send me some money baby....." ! |
Oh how this story is all toooo familiar!
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 03:15 pm |
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YEAH BUT THESE GIRLS DONT SEE IT AS A HOLIDAY ROMANCE THEY TRULEY LOVE THESE MEN
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 03:17 pm |
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and dont forget not all turkish men are as shallow!!!
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 04:21 pm |
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Quoting vickysmith: YEAH BUT THESE GIRLS DONT SEE IT AS A HOLIDAY ROMANCE THEY TRULEY LOVE THESE MEN |
Time to wake up, maybe?
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01 Dec 2006 Fri 04:59 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting vickysmith: i think that is so wrong of you to say. a lot of turkish men are only after english girls money and its just wrong a lot of these girls do truley love these men and in return these men seem to feel no guilt at the pain you put them through. why are you so cold hearted? |
Am I cold hearted??! Or realistic??! Why do you say it is wrong of me to say this, when you then go on to say exactly the same thing! It is about time these girls opened their eyes to the reality of these holiday 'romances'. |
Exactly aenigma x
This was my point in previous posts to many English and American women here. I have been through this twice with ex-turkish husbands and again two completely different men and of different background yet still the same in many ways. It doesn't matter if you both speak the same language or not, it still boils down to the way some of these men take advantage of these foreign women!
I won't say that all of them are like this because some of you ladies here on TC have maybe found 'true love', but the majority of them are this way especially those you meet on holidays in resorted areas!
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02 Dec 2006 Sat 03:37 am |
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Quoting cat_leo: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting vickysmith: i think that is so wrong of you to say. a lot of turkish men are only after english girls money and its just wrong a lot of these girls do truley love these men and in return these men seem to feel no guilt at the pain you put them through. why are you so cold hearted? |
Am I cold hearted??! Or realistic??! Why do you say it is wrong of me to say this, when you then go on to say exactly the same thing! It is about time these girls opened their eyes to the reality of these holiday 'romances'. |
Exactly aenigma x
This was my point in previous posts to many English and American women here. I have been through this twice with ex-turkish husbands and again two completely different men and of different background yet still the same in many ways. It doesn't matter if you both speak the same language or not, it still boils down to the way some of these men take advantage of these foreign women!
I won't say that all of them are like this because some of you ladies here on TC have maybe found 'true love', but the majority of them are this way especially those you meet on holidays in resorted areas! |
How true, how true.... I don't think you would be taking offense in less you feel you might be a victim of this...hmmmm. All that aenigma and others are trying to say is that you need to be aware that even though your situation seems unique and you think "oh no this is so different, we REALLY love each other", they are just saying that if it wasnt something they have seen over and over, they wouldnt be warning you. It's up to you to wise up and and sheild yourself against users. And it is sooooo true that turkish men are proud men and even if they really needed money, they just wouldn't have the nerve to ask someone they really loved. It's a really bad sign. But i guess everyone has to learn from their own mistakes... just know that you have been warned and if things turn out great good for you and your boyfriends. If not.... they told you so 
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