love is a strong thing, and if u really love something enough u will do all for it. Yes to be able to have something together u have to speak, but i dont think yer all right about that, coz when i meet my hb he dident talked danish, but he learned and yesterday was the day for our 6 years of relationship, so u see love is stronger then words!!

thank ye. I dont really know how we did it, but what we did worked,i helped him whit his danish school home work,and some how i think that was 1 of the reson we still togehter and still going stonger. if we had meet when he could perfecktly danish, i dont think we would had been where we are today. I remember most of all that we used body launguess as a tool, and most of all love dont speak any laungess, so that was what keept us up..

sorry i've only just joined an obviously 'hot' debate so i may be repeating somebody elses point of view but...
i feel that although communication is a fundemental espect of a successful relationship, speech is not the only means of communication. if you and your partener don't speak each other's language very well then learning each other's language can become a big part of the relationship... this way you can grow together, and keep things exciting at least for a while. maybe it works for those who are serious about the relationship and want to move into a new future together. i wish nothing but success for the brave adventurers... xxx

I think it is very romantic for two people of different cultures to come together and learn each other's languages..

I can see how it would be easy to fall for the swooning while on vacation at a resort.. and in defense of those who have fallen for these men, how can you not at times when they say things to you to melt your heart.. The idea of a foreign lover for many women is very romantic.

But equally, there are many of us here who have met these men differently, perhaps online, or not at a resort while on vacation..

I wish luck to all of you in your relationships... we all only want the same thing = true love.

Here I say and hopefully for the last time: men are men and women are women!

Yeah ok ok I have to agree that alot of men in tourist places do tend to go after one thing, but not all.

Thankfully I met some nice guys in my hotel in ölüdeniz, one in particular.
His name is Can (barman) and he said he had a girlfriend (not sure if he still does) and is very happy with her, loves her very much and wouldnt dream of cheating on her
He still likes to talk with other females and he doesn't see a problem with it because he will remain faithful.

It is nice to have a friend like that I think.
Unfortunatly in the same hotel the receptionist (Ãœmit) who was trying it on with my friend (though she made it PERFECTLY clear that she WASN'T interested) and then Can also told us Ãœmit had a wife and two children!

I honestly do not know how people can cheat on their partners when their partner loves them so much and especially if they have children together.
In my opinion they do not deserve them!

I'm sorry to say it but ladies are also like this too so it's not just men....infact there was a murder in Hisaronu this year because a women cheated on two men.
full story

Sometimes, you just meet the perfect guy, and the language its different...thn come strying to deal with it...put when there its love that its building up....no words, just gestures, actions and interest..tehn comes problems of communication, put at least one of them have to learn a lot about the others language to communicate........and sometimes it ends like a fairy tale...........put culture....thats another $20 bucks. Finally love sthe only thats stands up...body langauge also helps..menawhile you willlearn the language or he will.
So, I hope so.
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