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abortion is not a forbidden topic, is it...?
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:29 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: Has anyone ever heard of abstinense? |
 
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:32 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: but I have never heard of anyone dying because they didn't have sex |
I think it may be possible  
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:33 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Elisabeth: Has anyone ever heard of abstinense? |
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Hummm...ok, its when the girl from the west tells the dudu....NO WAY, Get out of my hotel room!!!
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:41 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth:
Has anyone ever heard of abstinense? OH...I know...I need to get with the program...but I have never heard of anyone dying because they didn't have sex and it is 100% effective. |
We have two extremes here. Abstinence and permiscuity. Do we really expect that any man or woman is to have sex with only one person their entire life?
Both of those options are unhealthy I think.
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:42 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Elisabeth: Has anyone ever heard of abstinense? |
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Hummm...ok, its when the girl from the west tells the dudu....NO WAY, Get out of my hotel room!!! |
 and no more drinks for me..
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:44 pm |
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Quoting KeithL: Quoting Elisabeth:
Has anyone ever heard of abstinense? OH...I know...I need to get with the program...but I have never heard of anyone dying because they didn't have sex and it is 100% effective. |
We have two extremes here. Abstinence and permiscuity. Do we really expect that any man or woman is to have sex with only one person there entire life?
Both of those options are unhealthy I think. |
My parents have been married for 39 years and never had a different partner. To this day they are still in love with eachother. I don't find that unhealthy. Although rare, but not unhealthy.
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:46 pm |
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Quoting teaschip1: Quoting KeithL: Quoting Elisabeth:
Has anyone ever heard of abstinense? OH...I know...I need to get with the program...but I have never heard of anyone dying because they didn't have sex and it is 100% effective. |
We have two extremes here. Abstinence and permiscuity. Do we really expect that any man or woman is to have sex with only one person there entire life?
Both of those options are unhealthy I think. |
My parents have been married for 39 years and never had a different partner. To this day they are still in love with eachother. I don't find that unhealthy. Although rare, but not unhealthy. |
Ermmmm what has promiscuity got to do with abstinence? Why are you equating unplanned pregnancies with multiple partners?
Elisabeth, I presume you do not call for abstinence within a marriage? There are many abortions given to married couples...
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:47 pm |
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Quoting KeithL: Quoting Elisabeth:
Has anyone ever heard of abstinense? OH...I know...I need to get with the program...but I have never heard of anyone dying because they didn't have sex and it is 100% effective. |
We have two extremes here. Abstinence and permiscuity. Do we really expect that any man or woman is to have sex with only one person there entire life?
Both of those options are unhealthy I think. |
I didn't mean abstinence if you are in a committed relationship. I just think it is a good idea for you and your prospective lover to know eachother very well before sleeping together. In my case, he would know, if I got pregnant there would be NO abortion. At that point he would have the option to run....FAST!!
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:49 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: Quoting KeithL: Quoting Elisabeth:
Has anyone ever heard of abstinense? OH...I know...I need to get with the program...but I have never heard of anyone dying because they didn't have sex and it is 100% effective. |
We have two extremes here. Abstinence and permiscuity. Do we really expect that any man or woman is to have sex with only one person there entire life?
Both of those options are unhealthy I think. |
I didn't mean abstinence if you are in a committed relationship. I just think it is a good idea for you and your prospective lover to know eachother very well before sleeping together. In my case, he would know, if I got pregnant there would be NO abortion. At that point he would have the option to run....FAST!! |
I can't argue with that.
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:49 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: I didn't mean abstinence if you are in a committed relationship. |
Sorry Lis, but this is RICH! You think that unplanned pregnancies only happen to unmarried "promiscuous" women? Do you have figures for the percentage of married women and unmarried seeking abortions to back up this claim?
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15 Jan 2008 Tue 08:53 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Elisabeth: I didn't mean abstinence if you are in a committed relationship. |
Sorry Lis, but this is RICH! You think that unplanned pregnancies only happen to unmarried "promiscuous" women? Do you have figures for the percentage of married women and unmarried seeking abortions to back up this claim? |
As I said...I don't think sex should be happening if you are not in a committed relationship. My assumption is that is you are having sex with someone regularly, somewhere in your mind you have assessed that there is a risk of getting pregnant.
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