Really......why do so many try to hook up with foreign girls and try to leave the country.

I have never wanted such a thing in my life.

was a general statement  and not directed at anyone in particular.

Been married to my wonderful Turkish husband for almost 8 years.  However, I did not meet him on holiday and he speaks and writes English just fine...although when he speaks English to other Americans they look at me like I am his translator.  He is a very successful businesman but he worked very hard to get an education before coming to the US.  In my opinion, it doesn´t matter weather or not your husband is Turkish but if he is a loser in his country, he will most certainly be a loser in another one. 

PS...I would be willing to endorse gokuyum as he is educated and speaks English.  However, he does not know how to swim so may have trouble getting to your country.

This is the thing I´ve lived by. "We all wear masks. It Up to us to see not be blinded by the mask but see the real person behind it"

Needless to say. Someone can be sweet and then the mask comes off and not so much. It someone can be mean and mask comes off and they´re really sweet. 

I´ve noticed a lot of similarities lately with Turkish men and American men., yet also English men. I think men are men, some just have higher values and morals in life than others. I´ve met some really awesome people from Turkey, or well, I have talked to some really awesome guys from Turkey and I have talked to some really pig-headed jerks. I have talked to some really nice women and some really rude women. It´s not just men. My boyfriend seems to have this belief that all women just want money and materials. And he is Turkish and lives in Turkey so I am guessing he has been with some not so nice women. Which means women can be just as awful as men. Not me of course, I´m pretty awesome!!  

We all wear them, some wear natural masks some wear fake masks. IIt´s all a matter of how stupid we ar3 not to see the truth then again people can really wear them well. Shame on them. 

This reply was pointless now that I think about it. But since I wrote all this out......

Is it me?

Which part?? 

Bold part

I´m a moron....totally did not see the bold part. Well, you are pretty awesome. So you can be one of them. 

I agree with some of what you wrote but the part about your turkish boyfriend believing all woman want money and materials ( with you saying he must of been with some not so nice woman is totally incorrect.

In Turkey girls dont´ run around and try out boyfriends with the same freedom that american girls do. They don´t have such open relationship. Family life is very important and important is the  social reputation of the girls and the family unit in whole. Most men don´t marry till around 30 plus because what is expected is that marriage and children follow meaning he must be the provider. A home is necessary. Traditional the man must have a job/career and a home in which to provide before marriage. The reason why turkish guys like foreign woman is because they are less demanding. Turkish girls want to know they have someone who can support them and they will have a comfortable life before they give up the goods. Americans who are broad minded will give up the goods for a coffee a donut and a few nice words...  Meaning they are not bothered by  a guy not working or having any money or plans for the future because the living conditions and  life in USA or England are socially different . In turkey a woman marries and than mostly they stay home and live on the income of the husband while she serves him, does his laundry, keeps him happy and rears his kids. She is not living in USA so she sees her life different. It is not as easy for her to get a job that pays well. And most men are still of the macho nature of wanting to be the supporter in Turkey.

I was just stating what he told me he and I quoted him "women just want money and material things." I dont agree with him. And in the USA women are what the men here want. We do what the American men expect. They want easy, materialistic, dumb bimbos so.......that is how we act. Well not we as in me.

But the boyfriend, his wife cheated on him for a richer man who bought her a lot of things. And his mother does not bother with much of anything unless it benefits her with money. SHe divorced her husband (his father) for a richer man. So he hasnt had very good expirience.....

Yes culturally its different. But unless an actual hooker most American women won´t sleep with someone for a coffee and a donut. Also alot of American women are ignorant to false promises of love and riches. Very ignorant.