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660.       gokuyum
5050 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 10:39 pm

Find a man from your country if you dont want to take a risk.

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661.       Kelowna
375 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 11:29 pm

 

Quoting beautifullies28

Its funny. I don´t know about Europe or the rest of the world but to marry a woman (or man) for a Visa to come to America is the most stupidest thing someone can do. Americans can´t even get jobs in America because there is no jobs and most of the illigal Mexicans as is take up most of the work where work is under the table not to mention they get 1/3rd of normal pay and sometimes don´t even get paid at all, what can they do....complain? Not to mention the vast growing of outsourcing. America is a dead end. Not to mention you can´t get a home or apartment without a squeaky clean background or near spotless credit. Unless you sell drugs......there is nothing here. Doctors and Nurses are the only job that seem to always always need filling. I know many many educated people with degrees who can´t even find a job. Unless they marry someone with wealth and or a good job. Otherwise good luck! I am poor, and I can´t have kids. So if someone wants to marry me for a Visa, well....sorry, you won´t get far unless the cardboard box mansion I live in is good enough. I do not plan to get married for a long long time. I know more successful long term unmarried couples than ones who got married and stayed married!

 

 To whine and complain is a poor defense and shows you don´t want to know what your actual value or future potential is. What makes you think you should be able to get a home with a poor credit rating and a finacial risk just because you want. I like how you slander the mexicans  who actually work for a living . Yes they take the jobs no american wants.  Also I don´t think they have taken all the jobs in all 52 states.The will work long hours for little pay and live in shitty living conditions so they can send the money home to look after their families. The are not immigrants but illegal workers with no work permits. They actually work they don´t live off food stamps and goverment programs. You may know many educated people who have choosen the wrong profession meaning a career where there is already to many in that field.  There are many jobs available if one opens their eyes  puts for the effort and actually look. As far as children you already earlier stated you have 2 children and a failed relationship. I agree look after the ones you already own before considering having more. Also why do you say american guys are not good. There are many nice men in USA it just depends on on who you attract in life and how you live.
There are many nice men in Turkey too but the ones who are looking for internet girls deserve anaylisis so do the girls looking for them. At one time chatting between countries was for the educated and elite. Now anyone can get on and chat. Most of the guys looking for girl on internet are the ones who can not find one in real life or can not actually support the anyways.

662.       stumpy
638 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 11:30 pm

Quote:beautifullies

If you slept with him that was first mistake! If they say they love you after like say 2 days (or even a week) you should already know its a sack of lies.
you are genorous with 2 days, try hearing it after 1 hour, I just started laughing when I heard it 

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663.       Mandala
14 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 11:38 pm

 

Quoting stumpy

you are genorous with 2 days, try hearing it after 1 hour, I just started laughing when I heard it 

 

in my case it was two days )))))))...

 

but..can somebody explain to me..why they act like this??? OMG...)))

why to tell somebody that u love him??? so hilarious...almost girls who go there accept to have only sex..i met some..but when u find a girl, who is contra this kind relationships..why to tell so many lies..???  i think i will day..and never know the answer..in my country..is normal to say what u want..not to pretend you want smth elese..and in fact..you are just an idiot..sorry for this..

664.       gokuyum
5050 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 11:40 pm

I can hold myself three days. I am shy

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665.       Nadya.
26 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 11:40 pm

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Edited (2/13/2014) by Nadya.

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666.       gokuyum
5050 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 11:46 pm

 

 

Hmm. I wonder if I behave like him too. I hope not

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667.       stumpy
638 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 11:46 pm

Quote: Mandala

but..can somebody explain to me..why they act like this??? OMG...)))

When you are in Sultahnamet Square in Istanbul, you have shop employees who come and try to get you to go into shops.

They are paid by commission, that means the more shops he brings you in the more commission he gets.

Now, how do you think he gets the women´s attention?  By flattery and compliments and so on.

And also they know that tourist women are a little more permissive than local women and to be honest after being in Marmaris, it is a party town and the tourist women there are only looking for one thing, a warm body to warm up their beds.

Mind you not all tourist women are like that and unfortunatly some women think that those men actually fall in love with them.  Some do in rare occasions.

But let me tell you the first Turkish man who told me he loved me I actually laughed at him.  The shop worker who said to me, hello there beauty, I actually started looking around to see who he was speaking too.

They are all tactics to get the woman´s attention and unfortunatly some women fall for it.

668.       burakk
309 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 11:48 pm

 

Quoting Mandala

 

because foreigns girls like turkish men too?? you are crazy??? this is not a reason to lie someone..it is very sad..i just was on holyday in Turkey...i really trust a man ..there..and in fact..i come home..and he even didnt call once..but swore he loves me )) ..so i dont understand..why turkye should lie so much..only for one night??? so stupid...it makes medont trust people anymore...A woman need facts..not words

 

so why didnt you call him yourself? you liked him only for one night? ayıp..

 

 

669.       stumpy
638 posts
 30 Jul 2013 Tue 11:49 pm

LMAO - flash back to Sultahnamet Square {#emotions_dlg.bigsmile}

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670.       Mandala
14 posts
 31 Jul 2013 Wed 12:12 am

 

Quoting burakk

 

 

so why didnt you call him yourself? you liked him only for one night? ayıp..

 

 

because i am not intersed in him..i am just surprised..but now everything is more clear...i didnt know that people can be like that..and just for some money...well..we all know how is named a person who sell his body ))) good night to every body ..

 



Edited (7/31/2013) by Mandala

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