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LESSON LEARNED!!!
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 01:10 am |
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Quoting qdemir: Could someone know whether or not the other part is a great lover, if they can not communicate in each other's language (or in an other language they both speak)? |
Body language represents the 60% of human communication and in the "strict" sense of the word "lover" it can tell too much however, it's not enough , to determinate if a man is a good lover you need to communicate with him fluently IN ALL THE AREAS not just in the bedroom and yes, as the previous post said, for some women sweet words and showing feelings openly are a sign of a good lover and turks are, generally speaking, very expressive when they like someone compared to the "average" men who are afraid of love and by the way, I'm from south america and EVEN here, turks have the reputation of being the best lovers...and I don't think you dislike this reputation at all!
Dilara.
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 01:15 am |
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"My God,they don't even communicate !
They cann't speak to each other
So they really believe the boys love them ??
Maybe he can like her,and she likes him too,that is acceptable,
And from here they try to find a way to communicate,and build a relation,but LOVE with no communication??!!
That is a bit hard"
Some people can communicate, my friend who is always speaking to me can speak really good english although he has only started learning 1year ago, when i met him he could say the words hello, please and yeh but no but(cos i tought him yeh but no but)lol
But he has come a log way in 12months, he can now say anything almost from his favourite colour to all future plans... I on the otherhand have been learning french for 3years and can only use tenses a little bit, but he is fine with speaking tenses in english although he is turkish...
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 01:17 am |
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I think what you say does not have a sense itself, but the way you say it. For example:saying I am sorry does not mean you really feel sorry. I don't speak Chinese. If a Chinese woman tells me she loves me (and someone translates it into my language or English) I will not able to feel whether she really feels it or not.
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 01:25 am |
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qdemir ?
Why don't you tell us,as being a man,and a turkish too as we are speaking about turkish men,how do men see love ?
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 01:35 am |
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Quoting CANLI: qdemir ?
Why don't you tell us,as being a man,and a turkish too as we are speaking about turkish men,how do men see love ?
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yes, excellent question! qdemir, please share with us what do men think about love?
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 01:44 am |
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Quote: qdemir ?
Why don't you tell us,as being a man,and a turkish too as we are speaking about turkish men,how do men see love ?
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A woman asks a poet why almost all the poets are men, but not women. The poet says in answer that we are inspired by you in our poems. There is nothing in us by which you can be inspired.
When we have a look at the poems about women they are usually physical beauty of women.
Men's nature likes feeling the beauty in women through their eyes.(God created women much more beautiful than men). Men do not have a tendency to smell a single rose throughout their lives. This does not mean that men have the right to cheat on their girlfriends or wives, or all the men do.
Unfortunately most men see the beauty in women in between their legs.
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 01:53 am |
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That means men don't believe in love ?
All what they care of is the physical beauty ?
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 02:01 am |
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No, it does not. They might not believe the way you believe. In fact who really believes in love in both sides.
Men believe in beauty in women (nice breasts and ...)
Women believe in money (and power) in men.
There is a saying that a successful man is the one who can earn more than his wife can spend, and a succesful woman is the one who can find a husband like this.
I think trying to understand the other side is a waste of time and energy. What the both sides shoud do is to admit the other side as he / she is.
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 02:06 am |
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Quoting qdemir: God created women much more beautiful than men |
I disagree - men and women are created equally beautifully.....
However, society generally instructs women to appear beautiful and presentable whilst at the same time encouraging men to hide their beauty through a combination of laziness and fear of being labelled as gay.
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 02:10 am |
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That is not a successful man ,or a successful woman, those are both sad man and a sad woman
Money can never buy happiness,maybe they won't believe it at first
But,when they already have the money,which they can spend it freely
They will be shoked, we are not happy ,why ?
And they will understand there is nothing they can do to be happy,because they don't have a warm relation that tie them together
İ pity them because they don't know,and i pity them more when they will know
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11 Sep 2006 Mon 02:10 am |
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Quoting qdemir: Men believe in beauty in women (nice breasts and ...)
Women believe in money (and power) in men. |
I think I am begining to understand your viewpoint - not agree, just understand !!! Whilst the point you make may have been true many years ago it is certainly not true now for everyone.
In my case I spend much more time than my girlfriend ensuring that I look pretty. But equally my girlfriend earns significantly more then I do. Not that Mumfitt doesn't look pretty - she is very pretty!
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