Mabe I am wrong, but its seems that some turkish mens are very strange... once they saw your picture and then they start to write a letters how much they love you... isn't it funny? how you can love a person which you saw only from the picture and never talk with that person??? It's very strange for me and I dont think that it's very good way to comunnicate with womans... maybe i just dont understand something, maybe you are just joking like thatbut it's strange

i think thats just men in general kristina ..but yes that does happen a lot even to me ..declarations of undying love..i just hope that no1 is silly enough to take them too seriously ..

I don't think this is necessarily Turkish men - it is a symptom of the internet ! As long as no-one takes it seriously then its fine.

my sentiments exactly

Some turkish man dunno how to speak english so they only know how to say i love you so mch.. thts why you hear so mch.. and anthr hand.. who say to you turkish so fast be sure he not intresetd with you.. he want to spend time.. or if you in real want 1 night stand ... Turkish man wont say so easy i love you so mch ..which are love really so mch

hmmm...confusing :-S in my experience some men..not just turkish..are too quick to say that they love..its obviously not love...in my opinion neway..

i jst say myopinion fo kristija...

so i saw...

Yes, Rain, I think that they dont say it seriously... but some girls believe in that I am not talking only about letters and about comunnicating on internet. I am talking about everything... there are many tourists from turkey in my country, and sometimes when i see them i qwant to run away somewere, because they look at women like they had never saw no womens before... What is more... i dont want to say this about all, I just say most of the

yes..i think u should

and what is more... the life shows that a lot of lithuanian girl married turkish mens... i believe they do this because of love... but maybe i am wrong

Im a turkish... i agree wth your opinion... But if compre with european and turkish women.. european wear to sexy and fo turkish men mind they thnk european easy to get sex.. coz i can say tht i saw so mny european women in tourist plce in turkey .. even they are married they go find turkish man fo 1 night stand.. even girls so young they find turkish men fo 1 nght stand... thts why pple thnk tht we can get all european women so fast fo 1 nght stand... they wont say this kind of words turkish women be sure..

they do..ive heard them in turkishclass chatroom...

Sorry, but I cant agree with you... if european women need a man for 1 nigt, as you are saying, they can find him not only in turkya. so, maybe they are not looking for that (i hope so)

it snot european women or turkish men..its just some women and some men..its kinda sad either way..

i have nothng to say after you answering this Kristinaj.. they come turkey coz they want turkish... some 1 like japanese they go japan this is wht u want.. Like i say tht pple only want good..but its true 3 year i work in marmaris wht i saw anywy after today im stop to talk in this site fo post... you guys enjoy to talk..

Its always so easy to respect those who agree with you - so much harder to respect the ones who dont....

yes... you know Rain, you can not agree... but you have to respect what other people think... i dont ask you to think the same... its seems that i am now the worst girl in all the world... just because that i tell what i think.

Kristinaj, i dont think you are the only one who gets such private messages here... so better than mentioning here... just report as spam if you really think so...

I would like to join that conversation, I find it quite interesting. This is very strange for me to ( I mean telling 'I love you ' as a first words). It's interesting because it happend to me too and I have no idea what does it mean... I met in Turkey very nice Turk and he said the same at almost third day, but I turned it into a joke and forget about, I have to tell you that he was very polite... he didn't want anything from me, actually he wanted to give me something all the time and that made me a little bit ambarassed.He didn't seem to be one of the one-night boys or something like that(if he did I wouldn't even talk to him, it's very bad in my opinion...sorry...) and I spend very nice time meeting with him sometimes, I'm still keeping in touch with him and he still don't want anything. But that words like 'I love you' and 'seni seviyorum' told all the time are still a big mystery for me... I just don't know what to think about that, I thought it's just different culture but I still can't understand that. There is some important detail in this history... I've been there with my parents!! and there appeared kind of friendship between my parents and him... he respected my parents and their every word very much (especially my mother).
What do you think about that? I'm curious about your opinions.

Selamlar!

ehheheheh i dont like to use steroid i rather to use Naturel food makes me feel good

Body building is lifestyle.. you have to be patient to get smtng coz so hard...But u have no patient keep on trying fight with me with your words.. but i thnk tht Body building more worth thn you

Love is not only words.. Have to do smtng to show off it

Well, unlike you, I did not come to this site to fight. I have been a member of this site since December 2005 and I came here to learn something of the culture, beauty, richness and of course, language, of your beautiful country. Along the way I met some wonderful people, some of whom will be friends for life.

I dont think I will come here for a while - if I stay around I will begin to change my mind about your country.

Have fun.

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Hehehehhe Wht a sweet words u using now So tht you tryng to learn about turkish pple or culturebut why i cnt see since u r mmber from 2005 december mybe nowadays myeyes bluri know u love so mch and like to learn about it..But dont only follow who got sms and post in this forum about turkish...Search a bit .. you said im ambassador in this forum fo turkey...very nice to hear thtCoz im the man ready to die fo mycountry fo mypeople.. Fanatik turkish But since december 2005 i never heard from yourpple this word mybe they jst keep in their heart

No worrie you wont chnge yourmind to learn smtng about turkey coz of me some handsome man waiting fo u in turkey thts why And let me say this.. Pple likes me coz i like myslf

Funny gal..
No pain no gain

Could any one explain me the point which I can hardly understand that why a person who hasn't had any post at all, or had just a few posts have uploaded his/her personal pictures on here? Is it just to appease her female vanity by seeing how many times her pictures have been viewed? As far as I know this is not a dating site.

turkiyem

Ya this depend how relationshp going on coz really so hard to understnd dffrnt culture language..i dont know wht other pple doing.. but im married with asian.. and you know asian culture so dffrnt thn western .. But we doin great..we so happy since 5 year..i thnk tht this depend wht u want fo future...coz fo me married is nt a game today married tomorrow divorce.. but nowadays pple so easy boring to see same women same bed.. or women see same men in turkey also.. from here smtms i watch news from internet so many pple divorce in turkey also.. like i say importnt thngs u want fun or u want good future..

Rain:
For me this is something CLEAR, I'm not a kind of person who playes with someones feelings just to have fun, and I never wanted to hurt him (but I have to tell you that sometimes hearing "I love you all the time" was making me nervous) but I heard so many bad stories about turkish men (don't take it personally) for example on this forum that even when my friend is trying so hard to prove me he's not lying I still don't know if I can trust him... but nevermind it's not about my heartaches or love problems, I just hope not every turkish men is thinking about west women like about one-night toy and not every story finish like most said here on this forum. People are always people, and I think everyone is different... but yes you're right the difference beetwen cultures is really huge and we can't avoid that. That's why I'm still not sure what to think about this turkish-polish knowledge

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Selamlar

I agree with you in 99% Rain I know very good that some western women are acting as ..... easy sex objects :-S and sometimes I'm ashamed about what I hear (or even what I saw in Turkey)they're doing. I know they're playing with turkish men and sometimes provoking them to tell even more lies, and they're not angels too wanting just to have a night with Turk, just for fun. There are always two sights of a problem and I know there are wise, normal and natural turkish man too. I know one marriage polish women-turkish men, they're living in Switzerland now and they're very happy and good marriage. So as I can see there's not always like that... but belive me it is very hard to trust even the best Turkish men after hearing so many bad things. That's the point
I hope your marriage will be as happy as it's now till the end of your life, and I really wish everyone here the best.
Peace & Love
selamlar

LoL so mean you thnk i come from jungle? thts why i only follow myway?ehhehe since i bcme a member this website i never talkd about other mans.. or other country ladies.. wht the hell they doing coz its not mybusiness and i cnt compre..why coz pple are same but mind is dffrnt.. i only talkng about mycountry and some of country about politic(coz i love politica)

i alwys say tht here if they thnk tht 1 man sms me and make fun with me.... i ll thnk some prblem with their mind if you ask why? i want to hear reality.. some young guys enjoy with theirlife i dont wanna hear this.. go thailand.. women got 5 boyf.. so mean all thai ladies like tht? come on teaschp.. no 1 talk here who did smtng bad.. if i say them you are so sexy or excillent they ll say to me tnx rain you so gentleman..if i say them you look so fat they ll say you are ignorant rain..

Ok, Rain I was only trying to give a little constructive critisism, that's all. You know I'm always up for a good debate with you. I was trying to give you another perspective on how you can get your audience to respect your opinion more. You are so hard-headed. Tell me this, are most Turkish men hard-headed?

well writing from the original question at the beginning i have to agree, alot of turkish men will tell you they love you too quickly and yes alot of them think this is because they can say this and get a girl into bed. But this comes from alot of the people on holiday who are just here to have a good time and will sleep around, not all but some. This makes them get the wrong idea but it is the same as in uk if lads know a girl is "easy" they will tell her anything if they think it will make her get with them.

Another thing whilst speaking to my boyfriend who is turkish i asked him how he could say he loved me when we had first met when we didnt even know me. His reply was that he had never been taught i like you and words like that only i love you and he thought the meaning was the same. I dont know whether this is the problem with the other men but it doesnt really bother me. I love living in turkey and think that it is just the way they have been taught by english to say things. Maybe im wrong....??

And mr dawn dont wait longer time.. you can join...smtms really bad to look from far..

hahaha hid reaction makes me laugh soo funny!!!!!
stop going on about that other forum that was ages ago some people these days just cant stay out the pasted can they pfffff

well im not gonna comment on that wow hmmmm¬_¬
talk to you people 2moz i need sleep bye xx

i wont talk about liverpoll how tourism worker at there no worrie coz u got no toursm like us i thnk u only living in liverpool no money to go other country? to search how other workers? dont make me laugh....

Like i say dont stay away from me..i like to hear wht u ll talk about workers in turkey..

By the way.. nice match u guys won ... but you guys ll come to turkey

ummmm nooooo rain i gotta say this that was well out of orda come you reds wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ahhhhhhhh you gonnna loosss dont start talking bout footy you will loss mate so shhh at that subject ahhhhhh and liverpoool is great!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ya you are rght coz whn u guys ll come to turkey in airport pple open : WELCOME TO HELL : am i rght?

i know bfre whn galatasaray been in uK how uK fanatich behave our team even uk fanatich lost

And whn bomb in uK i know 2 turkish dead at there (so mean i have to say u not welcome to me?)

Whn u write smtng take care of yourwords.. its a bomb and innocent pple die no 1 want it.. this is happen all around the world....not only in turkey

and dont get me wrong i never say you are poor or make fun..i jst saying look all country

This is not directed at no one and is just my opinion. Yes, many turkish males say "I love you" or "Seni seviyorum", but I think they are just infatuated and are over-friendly because it is a girl/woman from a different place. The internet is a place where people don't have to be real and can sometimes forget their manners and respect.

This male behavior is not atypical of Turkey only. You can find it in many countries where there is alot of tourism or little tourism. I can say this because I have traveled to many countries... yes, even Japan and Korea.. and believe me, the men there are something else, especially if they see a blonde haired woman or a black woman. Also, when I was in Holland, Austria, England and Italy, I found the same behavior... and I am not European, Blonde or Black.. I am Hispanic.

I must say, of all the countries I have visited, none have been as hospitable as Mexico and Turkey, and I have never found a disrespectful turkish man in Turkey (only here on this site, but this doesn't count!)

wow...seems im missing out on all this fun! hehehehe...

slrgrl62, i agree with u...it's not just men from turkiye, but all men all around the world. i have found the same behaviour from men on my travels whether it be in england, turkiye, egypt, spain, italy...

also a note about the internet...a generalisation, but people can hide behind their computers and be a totally different person than they are normally. because they can't be seen, they can be more bold in what they say.

also words on a screen can be interpreted differently by people and may not have the same meaning and intonation as what they originally supposed to have...it's the same with smses.

KristinaJ:

Wow you're receiving a lot of feedback ! which shows that this topic is indeed interesting...
Well , OF COURSE You will find people here who will tell you they love you by just watching your pics! but one would need to be NAIVE or too silly to believe they meant it cos of course they don't! for me it would take months even a year or + to tell someone I love him! it's not a game love is a deep thing !

Take it as a joke or perhaps they have a good sense of humor and want to tease you.
Yes, I think most of them treat foreign women with less respect than they address towards turkish women, what can you do with this? I also tend to believe they think foreigners are "easy women" but we cannot generalize.
There are women who like one-night-stand but many others who disagree (Like I do)

Of course, I would never believe someone they love me if I have not meet this guy face to face and I am in daily contact with him and I know him deeply .
To finish , if you do not want to get unwanted messages, why don't you simply delete your pics ? one is Ok but 2 , 3 or more means that YOU WANT PEOPLE TO watch you so what are we talking about?

Greetings ,
Dilara

finally we have refocused on the point of the post i agree with capoeira actually...we have had our disagreements..my fault for being a bitch but it is men and women everywhere..if a man or woman wants to cheat it doesnt matter if they are english, american, chinese, italian or whatever... and for the record i dont get on with brain either..but i get where he is coming from and at least he has patriotistic feelings..how many of us still do?:-S i know i don't, and i've yet to meet an english person that does my opinion anyway

i certainly wont.. it was ur post

hallo again... and thanks for all of you, and for your opinionsi read a lot of interesting thinks here...
i dont think, that the problem is in my personal pictures (like someone was saying)... i can delete them, thats not a big problem, ...if this will change something thanks again

IM NOT SURE IF IT WILL THOUGH

kristina, if u are getting unwanted messages, just report them as spam, or just ignore them and delete them.

Thats what i am doing, Gezbelle

I had given the original post more thought overnite and still struggle with this. Hardly knowing somone and them telling you they love you. Is this really so bad? I guess it's the intent behind the words. What does "I love you" really mean? I think the meaning of this is different for some people. When a man says he loves you to a women he likes, generally it's received as "I'm in love with you". Women generally don't take this lightly, they are expecting the man to really mean this. Also, women typically don't use this phrase loosely. I know personally, if a man tells me he loves me without knowing me for a period of time, I have to question the intent behind the words. The words alone are spectaculer, but they need to be backed up with actions.

yao teaschp....i cant use myhands here to,...acclaim..

TNX..

I am very happy, that so many people posted replays for my topic. What is more, I am really sorry if I have injured someone.
As a CONCLUSION i would like to say, that all peole have theyr own opinion for all quetions, BUT NOT ALL OF THEM THINK THAT THEY TAKE THE RIGHTEST WIEW OF THINGS...
Thats why its interesting what other people think about the same things
You can agree or not agree with some things, but all have to agree, that this problem (sorry, maybe its incorrect to call it as a problem, but i cant find other english word to express what i mean) egzist and the number of your posts for this topic just proves it

..rain my post saying i wouldnt miss u wasnt directed at u..it was directed at ramayan..please check who i am talking to before u reply