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help please mates
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 09:23 pm |
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 09:30 pm |
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I wish I could translate the letter and help this girl, but unfortunately the only thing I can do, is add my comment.
I agree with Teaschip and Aenigma. This girl has the right to invite her friends home. Of course she has to inform her husband, especially as he dislikes them so much, but I think he should compromize and leave home for half an hour, if he doesnt want to see them. They are not staying for ever, they are only coming for a short visit, for heavens sake!
As for her respect to her husband...the fact that she is not inviting them to stay at her home, as well as the fact that she is begging for his permission before she lets them visit even for 15 mins...eh these are proving it, değil mi?
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 09:31 pm |
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+1 agree with susie
Avoid up coming problems,no one need them,
meet them out,if they want to see you and kids,but definitely tell your husband,and take his approval too,and save yourself a headache!
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 09:35 pm |
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What ever you decide Geeta, I wish you good luck. I just wouldn't ever beg a man, huband, bf etc.. to see a good friend of mine. I have never let a man get in between a friendship. That's my two sense for the day. Hopefully you can find someone here who will translate your post.
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 09:38 pm |
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İf you changed places,would you like it really ?
Would you like your husband to ask you to leave the house because his friends,pr even more,his family don't like you,and you don't like them,and he want to invite them in !
Would you leave your home,and just go ?!
İ'm sorry,i wouldn't do it,it is my home,and if my husband,or my man care about me he wouldn't ask this from me,
İt would really break my heart if he does !
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 09:44 pm |
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Quoting CANLI: İf you changed places,would you like it really ?
Would you like your husband to ask you to leave the house because his friends,pr even more,his family don't like you,and you don't like them,and he want to invite them in !
Would you leave your home,and just go ?!
İ'm sorry,i wouldn't do it,it is my home,and if my husband,or my man care about me he wouldn't ask this from me,
İt would really break my heart if he does !
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If my husband had a friend I didn't care for and he came to visit my home, I would gladly leave or suck it up and put a smile on my face. This is so petty, my gosh.. Don't you get it, it's called compromise. Obviously, this girl values her friendship and wants to see her friend and children. Why the heck can't her friend come to her home for 15 minutes and visit. Heck, tell her husband to go in the backyard if he can't deal with it. Bye the way it's called sacrificing! You do this when your married or at least I thought.
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 09:47 pm |
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Quoting CANLI: +1 agree with susie
Avoid up coming problems,no one need them,
meet them out and save yourself a headache! |
If I'm not mistaken there is a problem here. A problematic situation, right? And if she does what you and Susie are advicing her to do, then she ll never solve it. She will only perpetuate it. Now she may not care rejecting her friends just to obey him, for the sake of home peace. But if she obeys now she ll be obeying always somehow. And one day she will wake up and realise that she has no friends left and no power to make her own choices and decisions. And that will be too bad.
And for those who will say that I m exaggerating, please keep in mind that it's only personal experience speaking. Nothing else...
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 10:07 pm |
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Quoting geeta: Hi classmates,
I need your help badly. My Greek Cypriot friends are coming to meet me. I have to dare to tell this news to my husband. He and these people had a longgggg fight before I left Cyprus. I have to say please to him innumerable times I think, but anyway here is my mail -
Dear Husband,
Niki and Mario are coming to Turkey next week. Niki mailed me yesterday. You will also be here by that time so please I am requesting you…can I invite her to our home? Please don’t be angry at me, let’s forget the past shall we? I know what you will say but please try to forget it for 15 minutes at least. Please don’t forget that Niki’s family and her friends helped me a lot in my bad period when I was in Larnaca. I know you people can’t stay in a same room with each other peacefully even for a minute but please they just wish to see our children. She said that they will be with us only for 10-15 minutes and then they will go. Please please say yes for me…for me please!
I am waiting for your reply eagerly. Please think about this calmly. Dont be upset. Without your permission I won't decide anything with them.
Lots of love…Geeta, Erol, Berk, Aygül
Please friends can anyone help me?
Regards
Geeta
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Sevgili Kocam,
Niki ve Mario Türkiye ye geliyorlar gelecek hafta. Niki dün email gönderdi. Sende o sıralarda burada olacaksın, bu yuzden rica ediyorum... onu evimize davet edebilir miyim? Lutfen bana kızma, gecmisi unutalım, olur mu? Ne soylecegini biliyorum ama lutfen unutmayı dene 15 dakika en azından. Lutfen unutma ki Larnaca da kötü dönemimde Niki nin ailesi bana cok yardım etti. Biliyorum sizler bir dakika bile bir odada huzur icinde duramıyorsunuz ama lutfen sadece cocuklarımızı gormek istiyorlar. Bizimle sadece 10-15 dakika kalacaklarını soyledi, sonra gidecekler. Lutfen lutfen benim icin evet de... benim için lütfen!
Cevabını sabırsızlıkla bekliyorum. Lutfen bunu sakince düsün. Uzulme. Senin iznin olmadan, onlarla ilgili hicbirseye karar vermiyecegim.
Kucak dolusu sevgiler_Geeta , Erol, Berk , Aygül
here is the translation... and if he is a human... he will understand your wish i suppose... wish you luck!
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 10:29 pm |
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Quoting SuiGeneris: here is the translation... and if he is a human... he will understand your wish i suppose... wish you luck! |
sent it in PM 
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 10:30 pm |
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Sent translation in PM a little while ago
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31 Oct 2006 Tue 10:38 pm |
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