Hi classmates,
I need your help badly. My Greek Cypriot friends are coming to meet me. I have to dare to tell this news to my husband. He and these people had a longgggg fight before I left Cyprus. I have to say please to him innumerable times I think, but anyway here is my mail -

Dear Husband,
Niki and Mario are coming to Turkey next week. Niki mailed me yesterday. You will also be here by that time so please I am requesting you…can I invite her to our home? Please don’t be angry at me, let’s forget the past shall we? I know what you will say but please try to forget it for 15 minutes at least. Please don’t forget that Niki’s family and her friends helped me a lot in my bad period when I was in Larnaca. I know you people can’t stay in a same room with each other peacefully even for a minute but please they just wish to see our children. She said that they will be with us only for 10-15 minutes and then they will go. Please please say yes for me…for me please!
I am waiting for your reply eagerly. Please think about this calmly. Dont be upset. Without your permission I won't decide anything with them.
Lots of love…Geeta, Erol, Berk, Aygül

Please friends can anyone help me?
Regards
Geeta

Are you looking for translation help or advice? I think that's why nobody has responded yet. It's not clear from your message what you're asking help for.

Well - she has posted it in the translation forum. Not that anyone bothers to check which forum they are in these days....

True I was confused aswell.

I dont think its confusing - its posted in the translation forum and its a letter to her husband. Therefore - it needs translating!

I know this in translations, but the situation is intriguing. If I was married, and my wife was inviting people into my home that I felt had disrespected me in the past without an apology, I would be angry with my wife. I'm stubborn I know, but I also have principle.
Am I too hard headed?

But she didn't invite them, they will come to the city she is staying in and asked to visit her,to see kids,they even said it will only be for 10 or 15 minutes,
Lets hope her husband can hold his anger for this time and will give her permission ,
Also,if i were you,i wouldn't allow them to come as long as my husband don't love them,and will only keep in touch by mails and pictures of the kids with husband approval too.
But i believe you just asking for translation not advice,i hope someone step and do it,i afraid if i do and make any mistake,so things would be worse,
You need someone to translate it using kind words make him agree !

Can someone just please translate for her!

I agree with Keith and Susie K.
I wouldn't bring anybody into my home that would cause tension. I mean friends are great, but you live with your husband!

EVET!

And this goes for men too. You have to respect your wife's wishes on who you bring home too. To keep the peace they should meet somewhere else, where they can sit and visit for a while, while not offending her husband's pride.

Tabiki

Difficult çok Zor

But her friends don't like her husband as well,and they had fight together before too,as she said,
So i guess that is kind of complicated thing,
But,its both their home as you said,so how can her friends come to her home,and her husband home and they hate him,and he hate them too,
İt is kind of hard stiuation tho ... :-S

yes,maybe they would do too,or maybe they want to do so too,'no offense geeta,we just discussing'
Just take care they don't try to piss him off,specially they would be in his home,and he won't be able to reply on them if they did,
My heart with you, specially for later when they leave from your home !

I wish I could translate the letter and help this girl, but unfortunately the only thing I can do, is add my comment.

I agree with Teaschip and Aenigma. This girl has the right to invite her friends home. Of course she has to inform her husband, especially as he dislikes them so much, but I think he should compromize and leave home for half an hour, if he doesnt want to see them. They are not staying for ever, they are only coming for a short visit, for heavens sake!

As for her respect to her husband...the fact that she is not inviting them to stay at her home, as well as the fact that she is begging for his permission before she lets them visit even for 15 mins...eh these are proving it, değil mi?

+1 agree with susie

Avoid up coming problems,no one need them,
meet them out,if they want to see you and kids,but definitely tell your husband,and take his approval too,and save yourself a headache!

What ever you decide Geeta, I wish you good luck. I just wouldn't ever beg a man, huband, bf etc.. to see a good friend of mine. I have never let a man get in between a friendship. That's my two sense for the day. Hopefully you can find someone here who will translate your post.

İf you changed places,would you like it really ?

Would you like your husband to ask you to leave the house because his friends,pr even more,his family don't like you,and you don't like them,and he want to invite them in !

Would you leave your home,and just go ?!

İ'm sorry,i wouldn't do it,it is my home,and if my husband,or my man care about me he wouldn't ask this from me,
İt would really break my heart if he does !

Sent translation in PM a little while ago

İ would do if i can really,but the situation was hard enough and need no more risks.
Sorry that i couldn't help,glad she finally got the translation .

Geeta I wish you good luck with this..I'm glad someone finally helped you translate this letter. Personally I don't think anyone should have to ask a husband for permission to see a good friend, especially for such a short visit, but I understand you love your husband and don't want to make him angry. But yeah, just keep in mind you have your own rights too, and you have a right to keep friends. I hope this all works out for you ♥

Hello classmates,
I needed a translation but you people have done a wonderful job of being my ‘mates’. Different opinions and different comments. Thank you all for taking your time to give me your comments.
Thanx Sui and Kia for your help in translation.
I am sorry this post became lot more than a translation post. I needed to tell him in Turkish language cause I think he will take it better. He makes horrible mistakes in English tenses. I just wanted to be clear to him.
Friends, a lot of things happened before leaving Cyprus. I don’t mean to offend anybody but you know relations of two communities in Cyprus! The only thing I understood from that 3-4 hour verbal and sometimes physical fight between him and the Greek Cypriot family… they all love me very much. They were pointing out each other’s mistakes just to prove that I won’t be happy if I would stay in Cyprus with the GC family or go to India and then to Turkey with him.
As for my friends they always have a belief that ‘I am a submissive wife’ so I don’t think they will mind if he says ‘no’ and I agree to that but still I would like to give it a shot. Maybe he will say ‘yes’ for 15 minutes for me. If they insult him I myself will tell them to go. The only problem for me is to control him if he looses his temper and he is very quick to that.
Anyway I wont make this post a ‘General / Off Topic’ Thank u guys. I hope everything works out ‘calm’ with me.
Thanx again
Regards
Geeta