Hi all,
I have just read everyone's reply on this subject, I firstly think it is a very good post to write and I will try and explain my view on this subject. For me it is the oppostite I am in a realtionship with a Turkish lady for me distance will not come up as a problem, I do not want to go there! of course in reality it can be but I think people put too much pressure on themselves when mentioning distance, I would hope that the people on here who have the worry on distance would work it out especially if there is a true and genuine love and bond between two people that distance is a small problem only. I have just visited my loved one in Istanbul after nearly a year through the internet chatting and building up a relationship and the meeting was something I will never forget in my life it holds such already magical memories for me. I was a single guy have a reasonable job home and social life but had that one special person missing, I went on dating agencies looking for a perfect partner, I am very outgoing not too shy and very chatty and confident person but wanted to meet a lady in my life so much after living single life for nearly three years. I got chatting to a lady from Istanbul on a chat line and at first it was just like meeting a new friend to where I am today very happy and the happiness has come from Nesrin she made it possible to have such a feeling of happiness.
I believe in life you only have one real chance to be happy and in love, I really believe that there is a soulmate somewhere for everyone, of course you have to find her/him which is not always the easy part. I think in life it is too short if you have a chance a real chance to be happy grab it, I have never thought about the distance being a problem I am very happy to visit Turkey as much as I can to see her if it works out then move to Istanbul then why not, not have this obstacle in the way life is too short I am very much a person who will take the extra strains and worries on board and hit them down with a puff of smoke. I have never loved a woman like I do Nesrin you can feel only true love maybe once or twice for me I never have been in love, had girlfriend's but never could exactly say 'I was in love' until now of course, for all those people who have loved ones Turkish man or woman then take this chance I am!
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