When I think my country is at the border of descending into a civil war, I dont wish to write about pandas...
If I can prevent one person to be aware of what is coming or might come and prevent that person taking a knife and attacking Kurds or a Kurds attacking a Turk I will consider myself successful. Even if it does not happen, I will think ´I did everything I could´.
That purpose is more important to me keeping friends or if the ´friends´ will hate me for that, that is entirely their business...
H,
Do you really believe you are making some kind of personal sacrifice for the good of your homeland? Your sentiment may be admirable, but I´m seriously worried that some will see you as a budding megalomaniac.
Vineyards muses that people come here to discuss and hopefully find some convergence of opinions . . . well maybe they do, but every so often the "calm" is shattered by the storm that is YOU! I´m not talking about your political bent or ideals, I´m talking about your tactics. Your tactics are counterproductive, if you did but know it. That´s a shame too because non Turks like me could learn a great deal from you and your political counterparts. YES, they must shoulder some of the responsibility for the way the threads descend into mayhem, but, more often than not YOU start these fights. You whip yourself and others into a frenzy. Result? Divergence 
You claimed recently that people should respect the opinions of others. It seems to me you want people to respect your opinions but where is the respect when you accuse people of ignorance, of not reading? I think you enjoy the debates and that´s why you always come back for more. It is precisely because your "adversaries" here are not ignorant and do read, that you enjoy the meaty debates. If they were not interested in Turkish politics, if they did not read, if they were ignorant, you would not keep coming back for more. You relish those debates . . . and that´s fine, so long as you don´t flame. They may not agree with your "proofs" and they may put forward "proofs" of their own and vice versa . . . that doesn´t give you the right to insult their intelligence the way you do. Of course you are insulted too . . . WHAT DO YOU EXPECT? (actually I think you DO expect it . . . you WANT it).
I know exactly what your response will be too, because your activity cycle here is very predictable.
I´ve tried to think of an oxymoron to describe you . . . in the end I´ve decided that you are a living, breathing oxymoron in your own right.
You say you have done all you can. Are you sure about that? If you are so passionate/anguished/desperate/worried/angry/fired up about Turkey´s future, why not take steps to fulfill your destiny (now you´ve got me doing it ) ? Take up the cudgel. Perhaps your place is in Turkey, on the political stage. Perhaps you are a big fish in this relatively small cyber pool that is TLC. Perhaps your talents are wasted here. Perhaps you are Turkey´s missing link. I´m serious, is there really anything to stop you?
Sacrifice H, sacrifice . . .
Edited (7/29/2010) by peacetrain
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