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AN IMPORTANT NIGHT
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1.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 12:32 am

Tonight is an important night for many families and many young ladies in Turkey. Thousands of new recruits, young boys around the age of 20, will join their units for their military service tomorrow morning. In the small town that I am curently in, the streets are as if it is a festivity. Big drums and clarinets are being played and people are chanting and dancing in the cold, saying good-bye to their sons.

I know there are some young non-Turkish ladies, in this group, sharing this night of excitement with us Turks.

I hope the boys will go, then come safely back....with full honors !

2.       kafesteki kus
0 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 12:39 am

rite of passage?tribal feast????

3.       azade
1606 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 12:56 am

I thought this was supposed to be only four times a year but loads of recruits were sent off in early November, and I also saw it at a bus station a few weeks after that. Cars driving around town honking the horns like at other parties. The bus station was crowded with families saying goodbye, the young to-be soldiers with turkish flags wrapped around them, being tossed up in the air, everyone yelling out the current slogan "şehitler ölmez vatan bölünmez".

And then when they go to army they find out they are in for 15 months in hell. One of the newbies at the karakol my husband is at shot himself a few days ago. The other soldiers were then later shown pictures of the rest of his head. Ya şu türk askerlik var ya... he should never have gone there, not everyone is cut out for it, no matter how much they are cheered on with army slogans.
May they all come home safely...but they don't, unfortunately.

4.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 01:14 am

that may be true from your husband's point of view...but not from ours, Azade...better watch your language.

5.       azade
1606 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 01:33 am

I'm not saying anything out of the box here, this is facts. I'm sorry that it is so, but it is. The young man killed himself because soldier life was too hard for him. It's the third, THIRD my husband has witnessed in just 13 months. I think it's devastating; can this be right??
It is really hard to go through army service in Turkey (unless you're lucky and go to a nice place), and certaintly the young men should be prepared better for it. filling them with slogans is no help, because şehitler DO die. They shouldn't be fed with illusions because reality is cruel, terrorists may be lurking around the corner. it's no business for newbies. IMHO.
Why is it that millions and millions of young men are forced - read forced - to go risk their lives? It's should be for professionals, not young kids.

6.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 01:40 am

Look, I served in this army and my son served in this army - partly because we felt it was our responsibility to protect you and your husband's sisters.

It is not on to chicken out and cry in complaints, when it is his turn to serve. It is his own honor, do you think Turkish Army desparately needs his services?

7.       alameda
3499 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 01:44 am

Quoting azade:

......... It's should be for professionals, not young kids.


I used to think like you Azde, but when you limit it to professionals, you get mercenaries and professionals like

Blackwater

Private Warriors

When it's citizens, they have an investment in the outcome in the society they live. They fight for their own town, family, country.

8.       azade
1606 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:00 am

Quoting AlphaF:

Look, I served in this army and my son served in this army - partly because we felt it was our responsibility to protect you and your husband's sisters.

It is not on to chicken out and cry in complaints, when it is his turn to serve. It is his own honor, do you think Turkish Army desparately needs his services?



No I don't think so, because Turkey is one of the only countries with this kind of atmosphere around the army. for yurtsevers that is. I think they would do much better with some professional soldiers that could take out the terrorists and then there would be no need for this huge army. I know about the whole "when you served your duty you're a man" atmosphere but I don't believe in it. Over the past couple of years I have spoken to hundreds of young men who either talked about it with dread, or anticipated it in fear. it took them years to talk about it like an every day topic. Almost all men go to army in Turkey, but not all are fit. What do city boys know about killing terrorists in the mountains? What about all those who simply can't handle it psychologically? Nobody cares about them. Go to army! Be a man! Die if you must!
çok şÃ¼kür my husband is from the mountains it's not so hard on him as many of his fellow soldiers. çok şÃ¼kür he's finished in a couple of months

Just because something was doesn't mean it has to be.
I have respect for everybody who served in the army and I will probably never stop making dua for those who are still serving.
When you see all soffins with fallen soldiers on tv, tell me, what have they died for? They were rookies, they stood no chance in the face of the terrorists to whom the mountsins are a playground. It's business for professional soldiers who actually have the skills and morale to do the job once and for all.

Ve, meraktan soruyorum, siz askerlik nerede yaptiniz acaba?

9.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:03 am

I strongly doubt if her interest is in the society she, or her family, are living in...

10.       azade
1606 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:07 am

Quoting alameda:

Quoting azade:

......... It's should be for professionals, not young kids.


I used to think like you Azde, but when you limit it to professionals, you get mercenaries and professionals like

Blackwater

Private Warriors

When it's citizens, they have an investment in the outcome in the society they live. They fight for their own town, family, country.



Morale is very important, yes. But in my experience loads of the young soldiers don't have it, and the regions in which they fight are so severe they are no match for the terrorists. i think for those who feel like that, the very restricted life they live is part of the reason. They'd have more freedom in prison, or so I've been told. Many of the ongoing operations are done by professional soldiers, though, and they seem to been pretty successful.

11.       azade
1606 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:08 am

Quoting AlphaF:

I strongly doubt if her interest is in the society she, or her family, are living in...



Sorry? I don't understand.

12.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:12 am

Quoting azade:

Quoting AlphaF:

Look, I served in this army and my son served in this army - partly because we felt it was our responsibility to protect you and your husband's sisters.

It is not on to chicken out and cry in complaints, when it is his turn to serve. It is his own honor, do you think Turkish Army desparately needs his services?



No I don't think so, because Turkey is one of the only countries with this kind of atmosphere around the army. for yurtsevers that is. I think they would do much better with some professional soldiers that could take out the terrorists and then there would be no need for this huge army. I know about the whole "when you served your duty you're a man" atmosphere but I don't believe in it. Over the past couple of years I have spoken to hundreds of young men who either talked about it with dread, or anticipated it in fear. it took them years to talk about it like an every day topic. Almost all men go to army in Turkey, but not all are fit. What do city boys know about killing terrorists in the mountains? What about all those who simply can't handle it psychologically? Nobody cares about them. Go to army! Be a man! Die if you must!
çok şÃ¼kür my husband is from the mountains it's not so hard on him as many of his fellow soldiers. çok şÃ¼kür he's finished in a couple of months

Just because something was doesn't mean it has to be.
I have respect for everybody who served in the army and I will probably never stop making dua for those who are still serving.
When you see all soffins with fallen soldiers on tv, tell me, what have they died for? They were rookies, they stood no chance in the face of the terrorists to whom the mountsins are a playground. It's business for professional soldiers who actually have the skills and morale to do the job once and for all.

Ve, meraktan soruyorum, siz askerlik nerede yaptiniz acaba?


+ 1.000.000 (as a man who have been in the army!)

13.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:21 am

Quoting azade:

Quoting AlphaF:

I strongly doubt if her interest is in the society she, or her family, are living in...



Sorry? I don't understand.



The way you speak is distinctly familiar...But I do not wish to spell it out here...

14.       azade
1606 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:25 am

Quoting AlphaF:

Quoting azade:

Quoting AlphaF:

I strongly doubt if her interest is in the society she, or her family, are living in...



Sorry? I don't understand.



The way you speak is distinctly familiar...But I do not wish to spell it out here...



Okay. There's only one thing I can guess you are hinting about but I don't know for sure. But if you are hinting about the thing I suspect you are, then it is not the case. Far from. But I don't know what is is that you are hinting so pm me if you are hinting about something that is not allowed to be written here.
Myself, I considder me being pretty modern on this topic. Loads and loads of other countries have changed tactics when it comes to type of army. Why doesn't Turkey? It would be a hell of a lot better for the economy too.
But I can only say the same. Old type of wars finished with WWI there's no need for big armies anymore but professional ones. And the army doesn't make a man.

15.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:29 am

I think you and me understand each other very well..good luck to you!

16.       azade
1606 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:32 am

Good luck to you too. If you have any beloved ones in the army, may they return in full health inşallah

17.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:40 am

Quoting azade:


Okay. There's only one thing I can guess you are hinting about but I don't know for sure. But if you are hinting about the thing I suspect you are, then it is not the case. Far from. But I don't know what is is that you are hinting so pm me if you are hinting about something that is not allowed to be written here.
Myself, I considder me being pretty modern on this topic. Loads and loads of other countries have changed tactics when it comes to type of army. Why doesn't Turkey? It would be a hell of a lot better for the economy too.
But I can only say the same. Old type of wars finished with WWI there's no need for big armies anymore but professional ones. And the army doesn't make a man.


Harika writing Azade!!
Well done!!

18.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:52 am

19.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:59 am

There is running around calling himself a man, and then there is carriying the heart of a "delikanli". You would not know the difference.

As far as I am concerned, Azade is 10 times the delikanli you are.


"Delikanli" is a person, not necessarily a man, who carries a brave, sincere and honest heart.

20.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 03:16 am

Well..
All I said was to approve what Azade said actually (I did not write any single word at all.. How bizarre!!)..

Azade thinks that Turkey needs a professional army.
Are there anybody STILL think that Turkey does not need a professional army?

Azade did not want our young boys to become an easy target in fights and die.
Do we really want our young boys to become an easy target and die?

And about being a man and being a 'delikanli'. Well, it is a bit 'up close and personal' to be honest. Very bizaare





21.       farukdemirhan
41 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 06:26 am

Serving in the army is great , at least guys become more responsible , feeling more mature .

gyus atfter finishing their serving they become man with full ability to complete thier life with strong steps .

I wish that serving in the army is an obligatory in the arab area at least we will not see soft men any more.

Real is the witness here ...

GREAT work turks ...

22.       kafesteki kus
0 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 11:00 am

From the masculine point of view serving in the army can be a honour and a duty but from feminine it is a waste of time.I see Azade's point of view.It is hard for a female accept the fact that beloved one is drafted to the army in these turbulent times of endangered peace.
In many cases it is against the will of those soldiers in many countries.It makes professional service desirable .At least those who really want it can have a choice.

23.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 11:06 am

Quoting kafesteki kus:

From the masculine point of view serving in the army can be a honour and a duty but from feminine it is a waste of time.


Instead of these strange masculine and feminine points of view you're talking about, how about starting with a RATIONAL point of view?

24.       kafesteki kus
0 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 11:08 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting kafesteki kus:

From the masculine point of view serving in the army can be a honour and a duty but from feminine it is a waste of time.


Instead of these strange masculine and feminine points of view you're talking about, how about starting with a RATIONAL point of view?


professional army!!!!

25.       justinetime
1018 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 12:08 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Well..
All I said was to approve what Azade said actually (I did not write any single word at all.. How bizarre!!)..

Azade thinks that Turkey needs a professional army.
Are there anybody STILL think that Turkey does not need a professional army?

Azade did not want our young boys to become an easy target in fights and die.
Do we really want our young boys to become an easy target and die?

And about being a man and being a 'delikanli'. Well, it is a bit 'up close and personal' to be honest. Very bizaare






i totally agree with this. it is not bad when young boys themselves choose to be soldiers for their family, for themselves, or for their country. but the hazard begins when young inexperienced (note inexperienced) soldiers are being drafted to fight.
i know korean boys start training for war at the age of 18 too, but inexperienced young korean soldiers aren't being drafted to war.
i think the problem lies on that point.

26.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 12:15 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Well..
All I said was to approve what Azade said actually (I did not write any single word at all.. How bizarre!!)..

Azade thinks that Turkey needs a professional army.
Are there anybody STILL think that Turkey does not need a professional army?

Azade did not want our young boys to become an easy target in fights and die.
Do we really want our young boys to become an easy target and die?

And about being a man and being a 'delikanli'. Well, it is a bit 'up close and personal' to be honest. Very bizaare


Hahahah, how about if we send Alpha for an extra service... maybe a LIFETIME service! I think there is no more worthy fighter than Alpha would be for the Turkish Republic! Let's have some "delikanlis" come back home and send Alpha as a replacement. It's a win-win situation.

27.       kafesteki kus
0 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 12:20 pm

Quoting justinetime:

Quoting thehandsom:

Well..
All I said was to approve what Azade said actually (I did not write any single word at all.. How bizarre!!)..

Azade thinks that Turkey needs a professional army.
Are there anybody STILL think that Turkey does not need a professional army?

Azade did not want our young boys to become an easy target in fights and die.
Do we really want our young boys to become an easy target and die?

And about being a man and being a 'delikanli'. Well, it is a bit 'up close and personal' to be honest. Very bizaare






i totally agree with this. it is not bad when young boys themselves choose to be soldiers for their family, for themselves, or for their country. but the hazard begins when young inexperienced (note inexperienced) soldiers are being drafted to fight.
i know korean boys start training for war at the age of 18 too, but inexperienced young korean soldiers aren't being drafted to war.
i think the problem lies on that point.


I wonder what would you say about it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmmg17eGPH8

28.       portokal
2516 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:51 pm

Quoting Roswitha:

not fair! Luetfen English translation please! Thanks.



harika means wonderfull
if this is what you were asking translation for.)))))

29.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 02:59 pm

30.       teaschip
3870 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 03:14 pm

I am totally against drafting, for a government to mandate anyone to serve in the military is beyond me. I believe it should be voluntary and those who enlist reep at least some benefits when they return. How about a paid education or at least some type of compensation. Having some type of benefits to attract those who want to volunteer to serve their country. I don't think drafting should be mandated, unless of course that is the last resort..

31.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 03:20 pm

I think military service is not such a bad thing - as long as it is ONLY training NOT active service.

It seems criminal to send young men who are still training and have not volunteered or chosen it as a career, into active duty.

32.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 03:56 pm

its a total bullshit that boys become "men" in the army, your men can also become "men" as well in prisons.
the army in my country is also a cruel place for many boys at 17, just in my tiny village of 300 houses, 1 committed suicide, 1 returned home as a mental and physical invalid totally incapable to live a normal life, another nextdoor boy returned mental (who was a such great boy with a super sense of humor who graduated school with excellent grades) today is someone strange and insane.

the army must voluteery and professional, for some who feel its their menlike place.

33.       ciko
784 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 04:05 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

its a total bullshit that boys become 'men' in the army, your men can also become 'men' as well in prisons.



+ 1000000 i dont feel more ' man ' after the army..some ones say it makes you a mature man..but it is completely a lie..it just makes you hate the state and army and even the country sometimes

34.       KeithL
1455 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 04:25 pm

I am pro mandatory military service. 18 months.
Bush would have never had public support to enter Irak with the military including the sons of congressman.
Also, the two most important wars on the 20th centrury were won with a drafted army, WWI and WWII.
Many if not most european nations require a minimum military service.
So many kids finish high school with no clue what to do with their lives. Two years of maturity in service would give us better members of society. Exposing the best of the best to the military will only give us a stronger and better military...

35.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 06:41 pm

Quoting teaschip1:

I am totally against drafting, for a government to mandate anyone to serve in the military is beyond me. I believe it should be voluntary and those who enlist reep at least some benefits when they return. How about a paid education or at least some type of compensation. Having some type of benefits to attract those who want to volunteer to serve their country. I don't think drafting should be mandated, unless of course that is the last resort..


Yes, absolutely! +1000000

36.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 06:42 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

its a total bullshit that boys become "men" in the army, your men can also become "men" as well in prisons.
the army in my country is also a cruel place for many boys at 17, just in my tiny village of 300 houses, 1 committed suicide, 1 returned home as a mental and physical invalid totally incapable to live a normal life, another nextdoor boy returned mental (who was a such great boy with a super sense of humor who graduated school with excellent grades) today is someone strange and insane.

the army must voluteery and professional, for some who feel its their menlike place.


Well said femme!!!

37.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 06:43 pm

Quoting KeithL:

I am pro mandatory military service. 18 months.
Bush would have never had public support to enter Irak with the military including the sons of congressman.
Also, the two most important wars on the 20th centrury were won with a drafted army, WWI and WWII.
Many if not most european nations require a minimum military service.
So many kids finish high school with no clue what to do with their lives. Two years of maturity in service would give us better members of society. Exposing the best of the best to the military will only give us a stronger and better military...


38.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 06:44 pm

Quoting ciko:

Quoting femme_fatal:

its a total bullshit that boys become 'men' in the army, your men can also become 'men' as well in prisons.



+ 1000000 i dont feel more ' man ' after the army..some ones say it makes you a mature man..but it is completely a lie..it just makes you hate the state and army and even the country sometimes


+100000

39.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 06:46 pm

Quoting AEnigma III:

I think military service is not such a bad thing


It is very bad!!!

40.       alameda
3499 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 07:21 pm

Actually as much as I hate war and all it entails, if there is a military,I think the military draft is a good thing.

My reason for this is because it involves the whole citizenry in any military project.

I've seen the change in the US since we have abolished the draft. Now it's only a certain segment of society who are actually involved.

When ALL the citizens are involved in the defense of the country, the citizens are more aware and involved.

41.       alameda
3499 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 07:25 pm

Quoting KeithL:

I am pro mandatory military service. 18 months.
Bush would have never had public support to enter Irak with the military including the sons of congressman.
Also, the two most important wars on the 20th centrury were won with a drafted army, WWI and WWII.
Many if not most european nations require a minimum military service.
So many kids finish high school with no clue what to do with their lives. Two years of maturity in service would give us better members of society. Exposing the best of the best to the military will only give us a stronger and better military...



Agreed but mostly because it involves everyone in any military campaign.

42.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 07:34 pm

Quoting alameda:

Agreed but mostly because it involves everyone in any military campaign.


Why is it such a good thing Alameda??? Why should everybody be involved in a MILITARY campaign??? What if you hate wars? What if you don't agree with your country's policies? Why do you still have to be involved in it despite your will and conviction? I believe that you and the government have NO RIGHT to force people to go to the military and learn how to shoot other people, be brainwashed with sick nationalistic propaganda and ultimately put their lives on the line because of their government's policies! There don't have to be wars any more, but if there are individuals who are ok with going to military and voluntarily choose to do so, then it's ok.

I find it very funny when I see men defending military, it makes me think of the women who defend pornography. It's clearly against them, destroys them... yet they support it! Hahaha, the amazing power of brainwashing!

43.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 08:05 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

its a total bullshit that boys become "men" in the army, your men can also become "men" as well in prisons.
the army in my country is also a cruel place for many boys at 17, just in my tiny village of 300 houses, 1 committed suicide, 1 returned home as a mental and physical invalid totally incapable to live a normal life, another nextdoor boy returned mental (who was a such great boy with a super sense of humor who graduated school with excellent grades) today is someone strange and insane.

the army must voluteery and professional, for some who feel its their menlike place.



Hmmmm then I take my comments back about military service being ok if they do not see active service. I could only judge by the comments from men who used to have to do national service in the UK - I never heard any negative comments. From what you have said, even the training can be hell

44.       alameda
3499 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 08:55 pm

Quoting catwoman:

...Why is it such a good thing Alameda??? Why should everybody be involved in a MILITARY campaign??? What if you hate wars? What if you don't agree with your country's policies? Why do you still have to be involved in it despite your will and conviction? I believe that you and the government have NO RIGHT to force people to go to the military and learn how to shoot other people, be brainwashed with sick nationalistic propaganda and ultimately put their lives on the line because of their government's policies! There don't have to be wars any more, but if there are individuals who are ok with going to military and voluntarily choose to do so, then it's ok.
.......................



Because it is just more outsourcing, more specialization, more power to the specialists who do not have a real interest in the events.

I suggest you read this:

Bring Back the Draft

If you don't agree with the program, you can apply for conscientious objector status.

CONSCIENTIOUS OBJECTION AND ALTERNATIVE SERVICE

In the past I was for the abolition of the draft, in the years since, seeing the monster that has grown in it's place, Now I am again for the draft. I think it's important that those who have a real stake in the outcome be involved in the process, not those whose profession is bound up with conflict.

45.       teaschip
3870 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 09:20 pm

I don't need to read some article on why the draft is good for the nation. I saw what the draft did to my Uncle Denny in Vietnam. He was only 18 years old and had his whole life to live. He didn't want to serve, but most men at that time had no other alternatives unless they were married with several kids and even those criteria didn't hold up at times. He didn't run off and hide in Canada like many others did, he was loyal to his country so he did his time. Unfortunately, his time was short lived as he stepped on a land mine and needless to say was blown up.

I remember my grandmother telling me about the day, that two military men arrived at her house. She had two sons in the military at the time and knew it was horrible news, but didn't know which son had died. They rang her door bell and delivered the news to her. She had never forgot that moment which stayed with her until the day she died.

Was he a hero? Was he honorable for serving his country? Was he slighted by his own government and his freedom of choice taken away for the greater cause?

Why does a government even have a judical system for criminals, if it enables and dictates the killings of others by having a draft. As long as we the government enforce you to kill, it's not a crime. My uncle had no choice but to kill and was mandated to do this by my government. He was only 18 years old and had his entire life to live, yes some will say he sacraficed his to make this a better country.

But my hope in my lifetime is to never go through this with my children, grandchildren. I can't imagine what other families feel in Turkey and other countries who mandate military service. Those poor children with no say...

I respect anyone who voluntarily enlists and serves by their OWN choice and freedom. And as you know by now, I support our troops wholeheartedly.

46.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 09:22 pm

Quoting alameda:

I think it's important that those who have a real stake in the outcome be involved in the process, not those whose profession is bound up with conflict.


But then EVERYBODY would HAVE to be involved, not just those who "have a stake at the outcome". And those who do have a stake, can always join now! This kind of system respects the individuals as opposed to a big machinery where individuals serve the purposes of the government.

47.       cab2007
372 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 09:36 pm

Hi is this happening in parts of Turkey or isolated places? Not heard about this. Thought the next recruitment would be in Feb 07.

Sorry not sure how this National Service works over in Turkey. My other half due to join, but doesn't really talk about it other than he is joining next year.

Would be good to understand abit more if possible. Sorry to be naive.

48.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 09:46 pm

Quoting alameda:


When ALL the citizens are involved in the defense of the country, the citizens are more aware and involved.



as a citizen you also should have joined the army and tasted it in real. so that you could be aware and involved.
so far you know nothing of other countries compulsory army services. maybe they should start serving their military duties since their childhood to be more involved in the military life of their countries. maybe we should take after guerrilas that kidnap and recruit little children? you sure know how deeply they are aware and involved!

alameda, you make my blood boil when you speak such rubbish.

49.       zettea
160 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 10:02 pm

National service is important. It is difficult for any of us to understand the fears in a soldiers mind before he has to face the risks he is about to take. Support him keep in touch as much as you can.

I think the hardest part of the millitary is to be a millitary spouse/gf

50.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Dec 2007 Wed 10:35 pm

Quoting zettea:

It is difficult for any of us to understand the fears in a soldiers mind before he has to face the risks he is about to take.


Therefore, they shouldn't be FORCED to do it!!! Geeeeeeezzzzzzz, can't believe how nationalistic and militant you are!!!
Another great thing about not having a huge army and ALL men of the country brainwashed a nationalistic crap is that it forces the government to be more peaceful! What does it say about human species that not only we separate ourselves into groups but also learn early on how to kill other people and that it's an acceptable way of solving problems!

51.       azade
1606 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 01:27 am

catwoman and femme we actually agree on something Clever words.

52.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 02:25 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting zettea:

It is difficult for any of us to understand the fears in a soldiers mind before he has to face the risks he is about to take.


Therefore, they shouldn't be FORCED to do it!!! Geeeeeeezzzzzzz, can't believe how nationalistic and militant you are!!!
Another great thing about not having a huge army and ALL men of the country brainwashed a nationalistic crap is that it forces the government to be more peaceful! What does it say about human species that not only we separate ourselves into groups but also learn early on how to kill other people and that it's an acceptable way of solving problems!



It has nothing to do with militarizm or nationalism..It has more to do with being a citizen and the equality between citizens.

Nobody wants war, yet it is a fact of life....If your army is not deterent, some idiot from the other side of the Ocean or from some miserable island that will hopefully be flooded very soon, will bring your country "democracy". They have their professional killers, nuclear bombs and all. They will make their living by selling guns to other peaceful countries; and setting up conditions so they fight between themselves, yet they talk. Their lines of talk now is to make sure other countries have no armies to resist, when it is their turn to get the "democracy".

All citizens should share the turn of duty at the borders, just as they share vacations over countries' beaches or beautiful forrests. Those who take the vacations, but flee when duty calls, simply do not deserve a country, any citizenship nor my respect. That people are forced to service (in Turkey) is true for cowards only, others are in celebration when time comes to pay their debths to those who served along borders before them.

A striking fact, in Turkey, is that service in the reserve army is not only a duty but also a priveledge (by law) for elligible males. That is, you can actually sue authorities, if you cannot be accused of any dishonorable act, yet for some political reason the uniform is denied to you.

This is seriously taken by many Turks, some may not understand it.

Location and size of the country, the etnic variety of Turkish people, length of borders, type of neighboring countries etc give a different importance and role to Turkish Army, than the same conditions would give to say the Luxenburg or Belgian Armies. There are many other sociological reasons why a term of service in the army is good for boys of countries like TURKIA, but I shall not go into such a discussion.

53.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 02:53 am

The Spanish army is now facing one of its greatest challenges yet - attracting professional recruits instead of conscripts. It has put a recruitment bus on the road in a bid to persuade youngsters to sign up.

Targeting areas of high unemployment, the army offers work, future and a profession.

But this may not be enough. The country is enjoying a booming economic expansion, and army salaries are way below those available in civilian life.

Spanish army goes professional

So....just who do you suppose will join this "professional army"?

54.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 02:56 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting zettea:

It is difficult for any of us to understand the fears in a soldiers mind before he has to face the risks he is about to take.


Therefore, they shouldn't be FORCED to do it!!! Geeeeeeezzzzzzz, can't believe how nationalistic and militant you are!!!
Another great thing about not having a huge army and ALL men of the country brainwashed a nationalistic crap is that it forces the government to be more peaceful! What does it say about human species that not only we separate ourselves into groups but also learn early on how to kill other people and that it's an acceptable way of solving problems!


'brainwashing and nationistic crap' is well spotted catwoman.
'breaking free spirit of the young men' should be included up there too.
Look at the young men going to the army and see them later on when they come back. You will see the difference!
20 years old young boys, full of life, energy, all of them are different. See them two months later: They will all look and behave the same. Not full of life anymore, half scared, semi broken. They wont go anywhere without permission. They wont express any ideas, they will just listen and approve.
In Turkey, I always believed, army has a duty to break men's spirits so that they wont become critisising members of the society. They wont rebel agaist the statusquo.
But we know that each statusquo needs critisizing for better. (How you can change the things for better otherwise!)
Apart from all above, there is also the ethical side of being a soldier.
I never ever believed all armies are kept for defence only.





55.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 03:21 am

Quoting thehandsom:


'brainwashing and nationistic crap' is well spotted catwoman.
'breaking free spirit of the young men' should be included up there too.
Look at the young men going to the army and see them later on when they come back. You will see the difference!
20 years old young boys, full of life, energy, all of them are different. See them two months later: They will all look and behave the same. Not full of life anymore, half scared, semi broken. They wont go anywhere without permission. They wont express any ideas, they will just listen and approve.
In Turkey, I always believed, army has a duty to break men's spirits so that they wont become critisising members of the society. They wont rebel agaist the statusquo.
But we know that each statusquo needs critisizing for better. (How you can change the things for better otherwise!)
Apart from all above, there is also the ethical side of being a soldier.
I never ever believed all armies are kept for defence only.


Very good observation Thehandsom! It seems to be working very well in Turkey... looking at the results... It is very scary..

56.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 03:25 am

It will be nicer if you stop erasing my posts.
This is called misuse of authority and is dishonest.

57.       zettea
160 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 03:36 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting zettea:

It is difficult for any of us to understand the fears in a soldiers mind before he has to face the risks he is about to take.


Therefore, they shouldn't be FORCED to do it!!! Geeeeeeezzzzzzz, can't believe how nationalistic and militant you are!!!
Another great thing about not having a huge army and ALL men of the country brainwashed a nationalistic crap is that it forces the government to be more peaceful! What does it say about human species that not only we separate ourselves into groups but also learn early on how to kill other people and that it's an acceptable way of solving problems!



lol nationalistic? i'm not even turkish..

Anyway comparing it with Singapore.. Singapore being only a small country it makes it compulsory for all men above 18 to go through national service.. maybe for turkey they shldnt make it a compulsory thing? but the thing with humans.. if they dont make it compulsory then pple dont really go for it no? And they dont get the best out of the best citizens to defend the country... hence making it compulsory is kind of necessary.

Anyway if there's one thing i hate about the military it has got to be the rule that their women cant practise the hijab. *cries*

58.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 03:44 am

zettea,
Compare the relative importance and roles of Turkish and Singapore armies in attaining and keeping the independence of their respective countries....Tell me if it was your army who gave you your independence?.Do you think that it is them who keeps it going for you?

59.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 05:59 am

Quoting AlphaF:

It will be nicer if you stop erasing my posts.
This is called misuse of authority and is dishonest.


Tell this to Admin, not me. If you don't want your posts to be deleted, it would help you if you didn't use hate speech and didn't call people stupid.

60.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 07:40 am

The one you deleted was not about hate or stupidity.

It mentiond "lack of respect" and "despising"

61.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 08:15 am

Quoting AlphaF:

The one you deleted was not about hate or stupidity.

It mentiond "lack of respect" and "despising"


Except that it was pretty clear who you were despising.

62.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 08:31 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting alameda:

I think it's important that those who have a real stake in the outcome be involved in the process, not those whose profession is bound up with conflict.


But then EVERYBODY would HAVE to be involved, not just those who "have a stake at the outcome". And those who do have a stake, can always join now! This kind of system respects the individuals as opposed to a big machinery where individuals serve the purposes of the government.



So...you don't think the citizens have a real stake in the outcome? I think that is idea of Citizen Army.

63.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:00 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting AlphaF:

The one you deleted was not about hate or stupidity.

It mentiond "lack of respect" and "despising"


Except that it was pretty clear who you were despising.


Do you think he'd get the general idea? not very likely!

64.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:24 am

Quoting alameda:

So...you don't think the citizens have a real stake in the outcome? I think that is idea of Citizen Army.


For example now with the war in Iraq - many Americans don't consider it to be "their stake", in fact, they are ashamed of it. If you want ALL citizens to agree with their government's actions, you'd have to brainwash them, like the Turkish do.

65.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:25 am

Quoting AlphaF:

Do you think he'd get the general idea? not very likely!


What do the Turkish do when they see a psycho on the street?

66.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:30 am

There are no pychos on Turkish Streets...We import them from the West, if we need any...

67.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:35 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting alameda:

So...you don't think the citizens have a real stake in the outcome? I think that is idea of Citizen Army.


For example now with the war in Iraq - many Americans don't consider it to be "their stake", in fact, they are ashamed of it. If you want ALL citizens to agree with their government's actions, you'd have to brainwash them, like the Turkish do.



Very good point
It seems that the Turkish system didn't work for a couple of Turkish members here - much to AlphaF's dispair

68.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:38 am

I would be interested to hear about AlphaF's experiences of military service. Let me guess...officer? Some nice, minimal period of easy duties?

Did they risk sending someone of his background to rough it with the others?

69.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 10:15 am

Quoting AEnigma III:

I would be interested to hear about AlphaF's experiences of military service. Let me guess...officer? Some nice, minimal period of easy duties?

Did they risk sending someone of his background to rough it with the others?


Hahahah, yes - much like the Islamist leaders don't blow themselves up, they just preach to others what a bargain it is!

70.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 11:43 am

TO: ADMINISTRATOR OF THIS WEBSITE (openly personal)


I dont mind Admin or moderators erasing my public posts.

But I strongly object to irresponsible moderators, going thru other peoples private mails, unless a private message carries insults and invokes complaints from the receiver.

One of my private messages is also erased....now, I think this is really low and dishonest.

71.       azade
1606 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 11:48 am

Let's just go with the flow for minute and say that it is an honour and duty as a citizen to serve ones country through army service, alright. Then at least the soldiers should have a decent life and rights, of which they have NONE of. The conditions are very often horrible for them.
So since when does this duty translate as suffering for 15 months? No wonder so many despise serving for the army, I'm convinced only yurtsevers and milletçis considder it an honour.

72.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 11:57 am

An army is not a circus. Armies are not run on make every body happy basis.

Those who can not take it straight may need a little water on the side, to ease swallowing.

73.       azade
1606 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 12:10 pm

I'm not talking about a circus, I'm talking about decent living conditions.
Soldiers risk their lives so shouldn't they at the very least receive some respect and a decent treatment? Especially when they are not there willingly.

74.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 12:37 pm

I have been there myself...the conditions are pretty decent..if they are not decent enough for some gentlemen, tough!

We are looking at the issue from very different points. To me, fighting for my mother, sisters, home, family, country etc., if and when necessary, is a duty - not a sacrifice expected of me. When they are in danger, everything else is mere trivia. I can not care less if Army fails to serve me daily chockolate rations, at the frontline,

75.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 02:03 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

TO: ADMINISTRATOR OF THIS WEBSITE (openly personal)


I dont mind Admin or moderators erasing my public posts.

But I strongly object to irresponsible moderators, going thru other peoples private mails, unless a private message carries insults and invokes complaints from the receiver.

One of my private messages is also erased....now, I think this is really low and dishonest.


I think you are hallucinating darling, double check your schizo meds before you make such ridiculous accusations! I can assure you that NOBODY is looking into ANYBODY'S private messages, let alone DELETING???? lol . Privacy is taken very seriously here.
If you in fact have a legitimate claim, send a pm to Admin because clearly something VERY abnormal would have happened (maybe Aenigma hacked your account? Or maybe there's a dudu out there hunting for you!!! lol )

76.       ciko
784 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 02:11 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting AlphaF:

TO: ADMINISTRATOR OF THIS WEBSITE (openly personal)


I dont mind Admin or moderators erasing my public posts.

But I strongly object to irresponsible moderators, going thru other peoples private mails, unless a private message carries insults and invokes complaints from the receiver.

One of my private messages is also erased....now, I think this is really low and dishonest.



I can assure you that NOBODY is looking into ANYBODY'S private messages. Privacy is taken very seriously here.



i hope so! i would not like admins to realise that i am a dudu and hunting western girls here

77.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 02:15 pm

Quoting ciko:

i hope so! i would not like admins to realise that i am a dudu and hunting western girls here


Heheheehe well... now that you publicly announced that I think we have the proof! lol lol lol

78.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 02:36 pm

Quoting azade:

catwoman and femme we actually agree on something Clever words.


Heheheh, don't make it sound like it's such a strange thing! I remember agreeing with you in the past many times and I agreed with femme once or twice too (but after she kicked me out of the club, I made it a rule to always disagree with her)...

79.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 07:01 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

.....................alameda, you make my blood boil when you speak such rubbish.



I would not discount my opinion as "rubbish" and why is your blood boiling because I have expressed an opinion? I have not denigrated your opinions, nor does my blood boil because you disagree with me. I actually think about what you write and try to give thoughtful responses.

80.       catwoman
8933 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 07:04 pm

Quoting alameda:

I would not discount my opinion as "rubbish" and why is your blood boiling because I have expressed an opinion? I have not denigrated your opinions, nor does my blood boil because you disagree with me. I actually think about what you write and try to give thoughtful responses.


81.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 07:56 pm

Quoting alameda:

Quoting femme_fatal:

.....................alameda, you make my blood boil when you speak such rubbish.



I would not discount my opinion as "rubbish" and why is your blood boiling because I have expressed an opinion? I have not denigrated your opinions, nor does my blood boil because you disagree with me. I actually think about what you write and try to give thoughtful responses.


im informing you what happens to my blood pressure when you speak rubbish.
and give me a break with your thoughtful responses.

so far only thoughtful opinion i read from you was about exploding whales.

82.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 08:22 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

im informing you what happens to my blood pressure when you speak rubbish. and give me a break with your thoughtful responses.

so far only thoughtful opinion i read from you was about exploding whales.



Rubbish to some, treasures to others Fem....regarding the exploding whales, that was a report on a factual happening, not my opinion.

83.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 08:28 pm

Back to the original post....I hope all these young men come home healthy and in one piece.

I would like to interject...if military service is going to be mandatory anywhere...the governments need to hold themselves to the highest standards in training and if someone is hurt because they were not properly or completely trained, the families of these victims need to be compensated.

84.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 08:30 pm

Quoting alameda:

Quoting femme_fatal:

im informing you what happens to my blood pressure when you speak rubbish. and give me a break with your thoughtful responses.

so far only thoughtful opinion i read from you was about exploding whales.



Rubbish to some, treasures to others Fem....regarding the exploding whales, that was a report on a factual happening, not my opinion.


oh, sorry, i meant the exploding facts, not your r... opinion.

85.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 08:32 pm

Quoting Elisabeth:

Back to the original post....I hope all these young men come home healthy and in one piece.

I would like to interject...if military service is going to be mandatory anywhere...the governments need to hold themselves to the highest standards in training and if someone is hurt because they were not properly or completely trained, the families of these victims need to be compensated.



Perfectly stated!

86.       teaschip
3870 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 08:39 pm

Quoting Elisabeth:

Back to the original post....I hope all these young men come home healthy and in one piece.

I would like to interject...if military service is going to be mandatory anywhere...the governments need to hold themselves to the highest standards in training and if someone is hurt because they were not properly or completely trained, the families of these victims need to be compensated.



They need to be compensated no matter what. The Turkish citizens should be demanding more education & compensation if their government is forced to make them serve.

A note to Omega; some of the Turks may see this as a priviledge to serve in your military, however I know many Turks here in the U.S. who ran like hell from your country, just to avoid serving. With the number of citizens in Turkey, it should not be mandated...

87.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 08:46 pm

turkey is threatened by the whole world thats why it should be ready for any attack, esp from evil amerikans.

the thing is that its very difficult to quit the old tradition - i.e. army. turks were always soldiers. and why today they shouldnt be, they think. their ancestors were "real men" taking part in peaceful actions, why not them today?

88.       teaschip
3870 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 08:54 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

turkey is threatened by the whole world thats why it should be ready for any attack, esp from evil amerikans.

the thing is that its very difficult to quit the old tradition - i.e. army. turks were always soldiers. and why today they shouldnt be, they think. their ancestors were "real men" taking part in peaceful actions, why not them today?



Here is the most ridiculous thing about their military. If you don't want to serve, you can pay the government $7,000 U.S. dollars. So, basically your buying off the government. Now how rational is that...

So let me see, just how many people can afford to pay off their government for not serving in the military in Turkey.

I agree most Turks were soldiers their fathers, grandfathers, so they are accustomed to serve their country. But what about the men that don't or refuse. What happens to these men...

89.       azade
1606 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:06 pm

...they go to prison as far as I know.

Actually we were told that you can't buy yourself out of the army anymore. We wanted to do it but nobody wanted to spill the beans on how to do it. It seemed very hush hush so I think you have to know certain people for it to work. That's just the impression I got, I don't know what's true. But we did try really hard to find out how to do it.

90.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:17 pm

Quoting Elisabeth:

Back to the original post....I hope all these young men come home healthy and in one piece.

I would like to interject...if military service is going to be mandatory anywhere...the governments need to hold themselves to the highest standards in training and if someone is hurt because they were not properly or completely trained, the families of these victims need to be compensated.



91.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:19 pm

92.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:22 pm

Quoting teaschip1:

................
A note to Omega; some of the Turks may see this as a priviledge to serve in your military, however I know many Turks here in the U.S. who ran like hell from your country, just to avoid serving. With the number of citizens in Turkey, it should not be mandated...



Hmmm....I seem to remember the same thing happening in the US in particular during the Vietnam War....and it's happening today too.....even though those serving now "volunteered" to join...

93.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:22 pm

Quoting Roswitha:

I agree with you 500% - spoken from the heart!


you mean with me?

94.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:23 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting Roswitha:

I agree with you 500% - spoken from the heart!


you mean with me?



lol

It's all about Femme, isn't it?

95.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:24 pm

96.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:28 pm

CONGRATUALTIONS! ELISABETH!

97.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 09:29 pm

Quoting Roswitha:

regarding Elisabeth's comment,she should be congratulated!


oh i so hoped to hear the right answer

98.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 11:44 pm

Quoting catwoman:

(maybe Aenigma hacked your account?



This is outrageous! Slanderous!

Can you show me how to hack an account?

99.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 13 Dec 2007 Thu 11:46 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

CONGRATUALTIONS! ELISABETH!




OFFFF, Femme, stop being so jealous! You're just bitter.. lol lol lol

100.       teaschip
3870 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 01:21 am

Quoting alameda:

Quoting teaschip1:

................
A note to Omega; some of the Turks may see this as a priviledge to serve in your military, however I know many Turks here in the U.S. who ran like hell from your country, just to avoid serving. With the number of citizens in Turkey, it should not be mandated...



Hmmm....I seem to remember the same thing happening in the US in particular during the Vietnam War....and it's happening today too.....even though those serving now "volunteered" to join...



Alameda, you obviously don't read my posts or have selective memory. I mentioned the Vietnam War and how my uncle died because of our government having a draft.

101.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 01:32 am

Quoting teaschip1:

Quoting alameda:

Quoting teaschip1:

................
A note to Omega; some of the Turks may see this as a priviledge to serve in your military, however I know many Turks here in the U.S. who ran like hell from your country, just to avoid serving. With the number of citizens in Turkey, it should not be mandated...



Hmmm....I seem to remember the same thing happening in the US in particular during the Vietnam War....and it's happening today too.....even though those serving now "volunteered" to join...



Aladmeda, you obviously don't read my posts or have selective memory. I mentioned the Vietnam War and how my uncle died because of our government having a draft.



I did read that, and I'm sorry for the loss to your family. However that does not make you an expert on the matter.

Many here may well have lost family members serving in the military, but they do not choose to talk about it.

We all have skeletons in our closets.

That has nothing to do with what I wrote, nore does it negate what I wrote. what I wrote is that many US persons ran like Hell to get out of serving both then and now.

102.       portokal
2516 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 01:47 am

I had the occasion to meet today a higher employee from the army the military fireman division, so I asked his opinion about the abolition of compulsory army service in Romania. He said: a pregnancy lasts for 9 month… well army service is not much longer either. And how much it takes from a lifetime? It changes a man, actually helps making a man man. During that time he learns how to handle his personal life also. And that is possible to get through the army safely….
Many people I know tell army stories, they tell especially their tough moments. In life there are also tough moments… In some societies, army still works like an initiation. And initiations have their value. Many youngsters here are totally unprepared for life.
About the posts deletion: if only some of you had been gone through a period when everything was censored, people were picked up from their homes even for telling an “inconvenient” joke, if only some of you would have seen people getting paranoid out of the constant tension they had to live with, I am sure you would have deal differently some situations. If only. Women were made bitches in this site. How come this post never bothered anyone?
Taking out newspapers into a neighbor country was also a nice business. Usually in the chain were 4 peoples, 2 completely “obscures”, thus the chances to get papers safely through the borders increased. From Hungary, deliveries were made towards what back then was West Germany.

103.       teaschip
3870 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 01:50 am

Quoting alameda:

Quoting teaschip1:

Quoting alameda:

Quoting teaschip1:

................
A note to Omega; some of the Turks may see this as a priviledge to serve in your military, however I know many Turks here in the U.S. who ran like hell from your country, just to avoid serving. With the number of citizens in Turkey, it should not be mandated...



Hmmm....I seem to remember the same thing happening in the US in particular during the Vietnam War....and it's happening today too.....even though those serving now "volunteered" to join...



Aladmeda, you obviously don't read my posts or have selective memory. I mentioned the Vietnam War and how my uncle died because of our government having a draft.



I did read that, and I'm sorry for the loss to your family. However that does not make you an expert on the matter.

Many here may well have lost family members serving in the military, but they do not choose to talk about it.

We all have skeletons in our closets.

That has nothing to do with what I wrote, nore does it negate what I wrote. what I wrote is that many US persons ran like Hell to get out of serving both then and now.



I don't want you to feel sorry, I mearly was stating what Vietnam did to our innocent young men. Who said I was an expert. I don't understand you at all Alameda, I think you flip flop back and forth like Femme says. Our military is voluntairy and these men are compensated with an education and pay. I am sure there are men who regret enlisting, never thinking they would be going to war. However, it was their choice! No one forced them too. But please share with me where they are running like hell to as you mentioned currently and please no links...

104.       teaschip
3870 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 02:05 am

You just confirmed to me what the rest of the U.S. thinks about San Fran. it's where all the nut cases live....no wonder...

Let me guess, you now will post a link about San Fran.... lol

105.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 02:55 am

Quoting teaschip1:

.......... But please share with me where they are running like hell to as you mentioned currently and please no links...



"5,500 deserters have been recorded since the war started in Iraq". Seeing as you don't want any links, you will have to look yourself....but here's a hint....(60 minutes)and that was from a Pentagon report....but I won't trouble you with a link...

106.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 03:09 am

Quoting alameda:

Quoting teaschip1:

.......... But please share with me where they are running like hell to as you mentioned currently and please no links...



"5,500 deserters have been recorded since the war started in Iraq". Seeing as you don't want any links, you will have to look yourself....but here's a hint....(60 minutes)and that was from a Pentagon report....but I won't trouble you with a link...



Well its also a fact that our soldiers in the UK have been traumatised by their experiences in Iraq to a degree never seen in combat by UK forces before. Many have psyhological and nervous conditions.

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/07/070703172027.htm


However this has nothing to do with the subject, merely that we should not be in Iraq!!

107.       zettea
160 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 05:26 am

deployment is the worst part of military! gosh~

108.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 06:14 am

Quoting AEnigma III:


Well its also a fact that our soldiers in the UK have been traumatised by their experiences in Iraq to a degree never seen in combat by UK forces before. Many have psyhological and nervous conditions.

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/07/070703172027.htm

However this has nothing to do with the subject, merely that we should not be in Iraq!!



I agree with you 100% we should never have gone to Iraq in the first place. My point, and I believe Keith's point was/is if the whole population were involved, and at risk,(like the children of some of those who voted on it) maybe/hopefully, we never would have gone there in the first place. As it is, it's too abstract and removed from the general population. It's sort of like "well they volunteered to go"

When it's your neck on the line things look very different.

Now another point, everyone in the military is not in combat, or at least that was the way it was before all the massive outsourcing. There were tailors, cooks, mechanics and other positions that needed to be filled.

I shudder to contemplate what we face in the future. Just now we have massive amount of soldiers with PTSD.

PTSD

109.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 09:20 am

Quoting alameda:


I agree with you 100% we should never have gone to Iraq in the first place. My point, and I believe Keith's point was/is if the whole population were involved, and at risk,(like the children of some of those who voted on it) maybe/hopefully, we never would have gone there in the first place. As it is, it's too abstract and removed from the general population. It's sort of like 'well they volunteered to go'

When it's your neck on the line things look very different.


I normally stay out of political and religious discussions but this is just too ludicrous for me to not say something!
Are you seriously suggesting that if we didn't have an all volunteer army the US would not have invaded Iraq because the 'whole population' wouldn't have allowed it? What...would the army stage a coup and overthrow Mr. Bush?
Isn't Bush himself a prime example of how the 'children of some of the people' who vote on wars avoid duty?
He joined the National Guard at a time when President Johnson decided NOT to call up the guard for duty in Vietnam. Miraculously, he beat out over 500 other Guard applicants even though he had minimum testing scores on the pilot's test. Ohhh....I'm sure that had absolutely nothing to do with his father....the Congressman!
People in power find ways to stay out of harms way in times of war. Having required military service does not change that!

110.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 07:40 pm

Quoting girleegirl:

...I normally stay out of political and religious discussions but this is just too ludicrous for me to not say something!
Are you seriously suggesting that if we didn't have an all volunteer army the US would not have invaded Iraq because the 'whole population' wouldn't have allowed it? What...would the army stage a coup and overthrow Mr. Bush?
Isn't Bush himself a prime example of how the 'children of some of the people' who vote on wars avoid duty?
He joined the National Guard at a time when President Johnson decided NOT to call up the guard for duty in Vietnam. Miraculously, he beat out over 500 other Guard applicants even though he had minimum testing scores on the pilot's test. Ohhh....I'm sure that had absolutely nothing to do with his father....the Congressman!
People in power find ways to stay out of harms way in times of war. Having required military service does not change that!



I agree with much of what you say, and respect your opinion, but who voted the deciders in to the position to send and start a war in the first place? Maybe if enough have a real concern about being sent to serve, the outcome would be different.

Again, all those in the military do not serve on the front line. There are many positions to fill that do not involve front line combat. As it is now we have an unprecedented amount of outsourcing to those who profit from war. We have our National Guard, who we need here to help with things like forrest fires, floods, hurricane relief to mention only a few of areas they help with, now in Iraq, instead of at home where they signed up to serve.

Outsourcing War

111.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 07:54 pm

Quoting girleegirl:

I normally stay out of political and religious discussions



Me too!

112.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 08:07 pm

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting girleegirl:

I normally stay out of political and religious discussions



Me too!



Yea right....me too....argh...I'd rather talk about quinoa and spirulina... or maybe J.Lo

113.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 08:31 pm

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting girleegirl:

I normally stay out of political and religious discussions


Me too!


114.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 09:02 pm

shortly, alameda has no her own opinion on army, and speaks rubbish, just because she needs to back up turkish nationalists!
there was no strong point for her opinion, she just went round and round hitting no point.

alameda, why not try the hell of eastern armies, then speak up for compulsory military service?

115.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 09:15 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

shortly, alameda has no her own opinion on army, and speaks rubbish, just because she needs to back up turkish nationalists! there was no strong point for her opinion, she just went round and round hitting no point.

alameda, why not try the hell of eastern armies, then speak up for compulsory military service?



I said what I had to say....and it was not about Eastern Armies in particular, I spoke about compulsory draft into an army in the abstract.

As to weather my point was strong or not, it certainly was a point of discussion.

As for Turkish Nationalists, I spoke nothing about them at all. I think you are reading words that are not there.

116.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 09:19 pm

Quoting alameda:

I think you are reading words that are not there.


i read you through
and im watching you

i know you perfectly!

117.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 09:38 pm

Quoting alameda:

I agree with much of what you say, and respect your opinion, but who voted the deciders in to the position to send and start a war in the first place? Maybe if enough have a real concern about being sent to serve, the outcome would be different.


This does not make any sense at all. The people voting for wars are people like Bush I...who helped his own son...the current President of the United States....get out of serving in Veitnam!
People in power use that power to get their own out of harms way.

Quoting alameda:

Again, all those in the military do not serve on the front line. There are many positions to fill that do not involve front line combat. As it is now we have an unprecedented amount of outsourcing to those who profit from war. We have our National Guard, who we need here to help with things like forrest fires, floods, hurricane relief to mention only a few of areas they help with, now in Iraq, instead of at home where they signed up to serve.


Do you think the people entering the service get any choice in what they do and where they go? Hell no! At the enlistment office they are told one thing but once those papers are signed it's a whole new ball game.

118.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 09:54 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

i read you through and im watching you i know you perfectly!



Well that's interesting! I'm still discovering myself.

119.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 14 Dec 2007 Fri 09:57 pm

Quoting alameda:

Quoting femme_fatal:

i read you through and im watching you i know you perfectly!



Well that's interesting! I'm still discovering myself.


what a shame!
you are such a simple creature!
what is it to discover?

120.       zettea
160 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 05:33 am

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting alameda:

Quoting femme_fatal:

i read you through and im watching you i know you perfectly!



Well that's interesting! I'm still discovering myself.


what a shame!
you are such a simple creature!
what is it to discover?



There are humans, there are animals, there are plants, there are miscellaneous creatures... and there is you femme =D lol

121.       white-wolf
55 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 01:43 pm

Let me express my thoughts about topic subject:

I served at the Turkish Military for 18 months. I thought it was my duty to serve and I think same today.

It is our tradition and customs to serve in the Army as a duty. It is one of the things that makes us Turks.

When I have rights and privileges for a citizen of Turkey, it is normal that I have some duties. I can not shirk off what my ancestors had done to preserve the country and what sacrifies they did. I can do no less. It was my turn and I did my duty. Was it easy? No. But, let me ask you "is life a disneyland"? No. Life is real, it is not a playground. Off course Military is hard and conscripts have every rights to fear.

Saying that, I also support professional army. Only, as a addition to conscript army. It is not logical to fight with hardened mountain guerrillas with city boys who do not know end of a gun.

my two cents.

122.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 01:54 pm

You are absolutely correct....

123.       white-wolf
55 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 01:59 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

You are absolutely correct....



Then rep me.

Wait..... there is no rep function in this forum.

124.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:22 pm

Quoting white-wolf:

Then rep me.

Wait..... there is no rep function in this forum.


"rep me".... ????

125.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:23 pm

Quoting white-wolf:

Let me express my thoughts about topic subject:


thank you

Quoting white-wolf:



I served at the Turkish Military for 18 months. I thought it was my duty to serve and I think same today.


congratulations!

Quoting white-wolf:



It is our tradition and customs to serve in the Army as a duty. It is one of the things that makes us Turks.


we know

Quoting white-wolf:



When I have rights and privileges for a citizen of Turkey, it is normal that I have some duties.



correct!
rights and priviledges!
your duties are not to be a hero or a martyr!
you can be so when your country is in a real trouble.
but without exagerating your patriotic feelings when its a peace time!

Quoting white-wolf:



I can not shirk off what my ancestors had done to preserve the country and what sacrifies they did. I can do no less. It was my turn and I did my duty.


one of the millions of brainwashed.

Quoting white-wolf:



Was it easy? No. But, let me ask you 'is life a disneyland'? No. Life is real, it is not a playground. Off course Military is hard and conscripts have every rights to fear.


nobody said or expaected the military to be a disneyland or a paradise. pls, dont waste your time pretending a teacher of life!

Quoting white-wolf:



Saying that, I also support professional army.


good boy!

Quoting white-wolf:


Only, as a addition to conscript army.



not good boy!

Quoting white-wolf:



It is not logical to fight with hardened mountain guerrillas with city boys who do not know end of a gun.



for which would be enough professionals, not the whole countries (out of 80mln citizens) teenage boys.

Quoting white-wolf:



my two cents.



thank you for your charity every cent is helpful!

126.       ciko
784 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:28 pm

i like your style Femme and it makes me scared of you i dont think i will ever argue over anything with you..because i know i will be the wrong one at the end

127.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:31 pm

What makes you scared is not the depth of her wisdom, but the insincerety of her tone.....
Believe it or not !

128.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:32 pm

Quoting ciko:

i like your style Femme and it makes me scared of you i dont think i will ever argue over anything with you..because i know i will be the wrong one at the end




thank you my dear boy!
you can register onto FEMME's adorers list right away!
do it now, you will get a discount!

129.       white-wolf
55 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:33 pm

Thank you for your kind(!) reply Femme Fatal and naming me "boy".

For a few seconds I fell myself as a cell at the end of a microscope when I see your reply.

130.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:34 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

What makes you scared is not the depth of her wisdom, but the insincerety of her tone.....
Believe it or not !


you are jealous!
lets check your wisdom depth! lol

131.       ciko
784 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:34 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

What makes you scared is not the depth of her wisdom, but the insincerety of her tone.....
Believe it or not !



i am scared of the way she uses words and her wisdom, her tone, her arrogance and her cleverness

132.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:35 pm

Quoting white-wolf:

Thank you for your kind(!) reply Femme Fatal and naming me "boy".

For a few seconds I fell myself as a cell at the end of a microscope when I see your reply.


i know i have a power!

133.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:37 pm

Quoting ciko:

Quoting AlphaF:

What makes you scared is not the depth of her wisdom, but the insincerety of her tone.....
Believe it or not !



i am scared of the way she uses words and her wisdom, her tone, her arrogance and her cleverness


lol lol lol



welcome to the club the best of the best!

134.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:37 pm

Quoting ciko:

I am scared of the way she uses words and her wisdom, her tone, her arrogance and her cleverness



Ciko, you are wise beyond your years

135.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:37 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting white-wolf:

Thank you for your kind(!) reply Femme Fatal and naming me "boy".

For a few seconds I fell myself as a cell at the end of a microscope when I see your reply.


i know i have a power!


She looks at the preps under high power, oil immersion... no wonder you feel a bit pressed! But worry not, it's all scientifically tested... lol

136.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:38 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting ciko:

Quoting AlphaF:

What makes you scared is not the depth of her wisdom, but the insincerety of her tone.....
Believe it or not !



i am scared of the way she uses words and her wisdom, her tone, her arrogance and her cleverness


lol lol lol



welcome to the club the best of the best!



Ciko chews gum now?

137.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:38 pm

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting ciko:

I am scared of the way she uses words and her wisdom, her tone, her arrogance and her cleverness



Ciko, you are wise beyond your years


you are supposed to praise me, not ciko!

138.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:40 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

you are supposed to praise me, not ciko!


She's praising ciko for praising you... isn't that a perfect communism?

139.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:41 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting ciko:

I am scared of the way she uses words and her wisdom, her tone, her arrogance and her cleverness



Ciko, you are wise beyond your years


you are supposed to praise me, not ciko!



Ama...if I start to praise you it would take hours! My admiration knows no bounds!

140.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:42 pm

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting ciko:

I am scared of the way she uses words and her wisdom, her tone, her arrogance and her cleverness



Ciko, you are wise beyond your years


you are supposed to praise me, not ciko!



Ama...if I start to praise you it would take hours! My admiration knows no bounds!



im speechless!

141.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:43 pm

white-wolf,

Dont worry about FF. She keeps saying the old same old things, over and over again. Rather boring !

I do not think she has anything to do with higher aspirations like fatherland, honor etc...at least not in the sense we understand those concepts.

Her single concern seems to be what she is going to eat tonight !

142.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:44 pm

Quoting AlphaF:


Her single concern seems to be what she is going to eat tonight !



Alpha you are undoubtably the most sexist man I have ever witnessed (and THAT is saying something)...

143.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:45 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

white-wolf,

Dont worry about FF. She keeps saying the old same old things, over and over again. Rather boring !

I do not think she has anything to do with higher aspirations like fatherland, honor etc...at least not in the sense we understand those concepts.

Her single concern seems to be what she is going to eat tonight !



lol lol lol

a deep a very deep advise!
poor white wool and the Jumper!

144.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:46 pm

Very naughty.....)))))))))))

145.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:50 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

Dont worry about FF. She keeps saying the old same old things, over and over again. Rather boring!


Clever! You KNEW what she'd say about you so you said it about about her first to take away her credibility! But beware, I went to the army and I know how to use arms!

Quoting AlphaF:

I do not think she has anything to do with higher aspirations like fatherland, honor etc...at least not in the sense we understand those concepts.


In normal countries they call it "motherland", you know why? Because in old times, women were forced to get married to dudes they hated, so they invented army to send them away and get them killed.

Quoting AlphaF:

Her single concern seems to be what she is going to eat tonight !


How do you know her so well AF? Did you sleep together?

146.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:54 pm

No, I did not do that...I dont think she would qualify for the honor...

147.       white-wolf
55 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 02:59 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:


Quoting white-wolf:



When I have rights and privileges for a citizen of Turkey, it is normal that I have some duties.



correct!
rights and priviledges!
your duties are not to be a hero or a martyr!
you can be so when your country is in a real trouble.
but without exagerating your patriotic feelings when its a peace time!


I do not exagerate my patriotic feelings. I just express my thoughts on the subject. If you make parallel connections it is not my concern.

Quoting femme_fatal:


Quoting white-wolf:



I can not shirk off what my ancestors had done to preserve the country and what sacrifies they did. I can do no less. It was my turn and I did my duty.


one of the millions of brainwashed.


Why it is brainwashed? Today, if I live in a sovereign Turkish state and under Turkish flag, because my great-great father fought and did not return from Gallipoli at 1915, why do I not fell exactly have a duty for my children?

Quoting femme_fatal:


Quoting white-wolf:



Was it easy? No. But, let me ask you 'is life a disneyland'? No. Life is real, it is not a playground. Off course Military is hard and conscripts have every rights to fear.


nobody said or expaected the military to be a disneyland or a paradise. pls, dont waste your time pretending a teacher of life!


I did not pretend as a teacher. I am sorry that you thought it so. I think some forum members here thought military as a kinder garden and questioning why the people fear to go.

Quoting femme_fatal:


Quoting white-wolf:



Saying that, I also support professional army.


good boy!


Thank you, good girl.

Quoting femme_fatal:


Quoting white-wolf:


Only, as a addition to conscript army.



not good boy!


not thank you good girl.

Quoting femme_fatal:


Quoting white-wolf:



It is not logical to fight with hardened mountain guerrillas with city boys who do not know end of a gun.



for which would be enough professionals, not the whole countries (out of 80mln citizens) teenage boys.


Fair enough. You are right. However I think all the citizens need to learn soldiering in case of need. You know some mighty countries think we need more democracy!

Quoting femme_fatal:


Quoting white-wolf:



my two cents.



thank you for your charity every cent is helpful!


I think "my two cents" is an idiom that means "here my thoughts about subject" that used in English writings

148.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:05 pm

white-wolf,
In a moment you will see that your reply is totally wasted on FF. Want to bet?

149.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:07 pm

Quoting white-wolf:

However I think all the citizens need to learn soldiering in case of need. You know some mighty countries think we need more democracy!


That's a good one... unfortunately But you don't need to fear those mighty countries, as you have NO oil, hence, your democracy is just fine!
What do you think of young men having to stop their lifes for 2 years to go to the army? Many young men go to universities, then want to get a job and start a family, but they have to go to the army instead! From where some of them don't even come back... That's against human rights.

150.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:07 pm

Do you mind if we dont talk politics this week? I made a small wager with Catwoman and in my current financial circumstances I am determined to take her to the cleaners

151.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:08 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

white-wolf,
In a moment you will see that your reply is totally wasted on FF. Want to bet?


As is EVERYTHING spoken to AF.

152.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:09 pm

Why dont you say so, partner?

153.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:10 pm

Quoting AEnigma III:

Do you mind if we dont talk politics this week? I made a small wager with Catwoman and in my current financial circumstances I am determined to take her to the cleaners


Yeah! Yey... I love cleaners! Lots of fun..

154.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:10 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

Why dont you say so, partner?



Partner? PARTNER?
You have made no effort whatsoever with our business venture!

155.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:12 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting AlphaF:

white-wolf,
In a moment you will see that your reply is totally wasted on FF. Want to bet?


As is EVERYTHING spoken to AF.



Comments by side kicks do not count.. white-wolf still stands a fair chance to win

156.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:14 pm

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting AlphaF:

Why dont you say so, partner?



Partner? PARTNER?
You have made no effort whatsoever with our business venture!



Trust me partner....I have extremely sly plans in preparation,,,You will be proud of me !

157.       white-wolf
55 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:20 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting white-wolf:

However I think all the citizens need to learn soldiering in case of need. You know some mighty countries think we need more democracy!


That's a good one... unfortunately But you don't need to fear those mighty countries, as you have NO oil, hence, your democracy is just fine!
What do you think of young men having to stop their lifes for 2 years to go to the army? Many young men go to universities, then want to get a job and start a family, but they have to go to the army instead! From where some of them don't even come back... That's against human rights.



Thank you Catwoman,

However, there are reports of oil fields in the black sea (near to Zonguldak). Oooo...

"What do you think of young men having to stop their lifes for 2 years to go to the army?"
I think it is total waste of young men's years. But a necessary waste for the opinions that I mentioned before.

If the world is more peaceful than today, we do not need to make necessary sacrifices of our years.

158.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:27 pm

Quoting white-wolf:

Thank you Catwoman,

However, there are reports of oil fields in the black sea (near to Zonguldak). Oooo...

"What do you think of young men having to stop their lifes for 2 years to go to the army?"
I think it is total waste of young men's years. But a necessary waste for the opinions that I mentioned before.

If the world is more peaceful than today, we do not need to make necessary sacrifices of our years.


I definitely see your point and unfortunately that's how the world works... people attack and kill each other depending on who is stronger at the moment. Unfortunately, we have to be prepared for that, no matter how much we hate wars.
I'm not sure though what military threat there is for Turkey? Do you really need such a huge army and all men trained to use weapons (at the expense of productivity)..?

159.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:54 pm

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160.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 03:58 pm

In the larger picture, Turkish Army is not where boys are taught to fight only.

1.Turkey is a big country and travelling around for pleasure is an expensive affair. Village boys get a chance to see more of Turkia, before they finally settle back to their home village lives.
2.Turkia houses many ethnic groups, village boys get a chance to meet their brothers from other ethnic groups in the service. They get a chance to work together and see what the others are like.
3.Most boys from villages are not highly educated. Army teaches them sometimes a trade, sometimes social behaviour, sometimes even how to read and write. Their command of Turkish language is definitely improved.
4.Turkish villages are mostly poor. Available food may be scarce and not very varried. Boys are traeted to 3 square meals a day (if not of Hilton Hotel quality). They physically develop and grow up in the army. That "boys are men, only after their service" is not only related to their indoctrination, but also relate to their phyisical improvement as well.
5.Two years in the army helps detect any hidden diseases or disorders in the boys. Army hospitals and doctors treat them immediately.
6.Each boy gets a chance to form a circle of friends beyond the limits of his own village. Contacts with outside are established. These relations are considered very valuable in Turkey. Comrades-in-arms are highly valued and never forgotten.
7. Ranks obtained even in temporary miltary service are for life. If a boy attains the rank of CORPORAL or SERGEANT, he keeps the title forever. A definite social distinction, among Turks.

161.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:04 pm

Ok... this is YOUR view. What if for somebody else the army has far more harmful effects then all the positives you outlined? What if there are MANY men for whom the army is harmful and gives no positive benefits...?

162.       white-wolf
55 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:24 pm

Quoting catwoman:

I'm not sure though what military threat there is for Turkey? Do you really need such a huge army and all men trained to use weapons (at the expense of productivity)..?



Hmmm, let start neighbors from west:
-Greece : remember "megali idea" or "enosis"? do you remember Greece's last invasion of Asia Minor that checked near to Ankara? Or some Greeks' dream about Constantine and Symirna? Or their huge amount of weapon buyings?
-Bulgaria : their exodus of Turk-Muslim citizens at 1990s?
-Georgia : no threat here.
-Armenia : their dream about "great Armenia" and lost lands? Their unwillingness of erasing constitution paragraphs that demands on Turkish lands? Or their continuing invasion on %20 of Azerbaijan lands. Their hate of Turks?
-Iran : Their dream about exporting "Islam Republic" to Turkey?
-Iraq : N.Iraqi Kurds who dream about a united Kurdistan. Also remeber that crazy Saddam and his army.
-Syria : Still shows Hatay in their maps as a part of Syria. Recent home of Öcalan.
- Cyprus : Guess which country passport Öcalan was carrying when he was caught.

Please remember these are the just Turkey's immediate neighbors. There are others like Russia who demanded Kars and unrestricted access from straits back 1950s.

Then, tell me Turkey is in very peaceful spot of world and does not need huge military readiness.

163.       alameda
3499 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:24 pm

Quoting white-wolf:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting white-wolf:

However I think all the citizens need to learn soldiering in case of need. You know some mighty countries think we need more democracy!


That's a good one... unfortunately But you don't need to fear those mighty countries, as you have NO oil, hence, your democracy is just fine!
What do you think of young men having to stop their lifes for 2 years to go to the army? Many young men go to universities, then want to get a job and start a family, but they have to go to the army instead! From where some of them don't even come back... That's against human rights.



Thank you Catwoman,

However, there are reports of oil fields in the black sea (near to Zonguldak). Oooo...

"What do you think of young men having to stop their lifes for 2 years to go to the army?"
I think it is total waste of young men's years. But a necessary waste for the opinions that I mentioned before.

If the world is more peaceful than today, we do not need to make necessary sacrifices of our years.



Welcome to Turkish Language Class White Wolf, your articulate comments are greatly appreciated by some here.

Let's not forget, Turkia also has significant water resources as well as a strategic territory.

164.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:32 pm

Quoting white-wolf:

Hmmm, let start neighbors from west:
-Greece : remember "megali idea" or "enosis"? do you remember Greece's last invasion of Asia Minor that checked near to Ankara? Or some Greeks' dream about Constantine and Symirna? Or their huge amount of weapon buyings?
-Bulgaria : their exodus of Turk-Muslim citizens at 1990s?
-Georgia : no threat here.
-Armenia : their dream about "great Armenia" and lost lands? Their unwillingness of erasing constitution paragraphs that demands on Turkish lands? Or their continuing invasion on %20 of Azerbaijan lands. Their hate of Turks?
-Iran : Their dream about exporting "Islam Republic" to Turkey?
-Iraq : N.Iraqi Kurds who dream about a united Kurdistan. Also remeber that crazy Saddam and his army.
-Syria : Still shows Hatay in their maps as a part of Syria. Recent home of Öcalan.
- Cyprus : Guess which country passport Öcalan was carrying when he was caught.

Please remember these are the just Turkey's immediate neighbors. There are others like Russia who demanded Kars and unrestricted access from straits back 1950s.

Then, tell me Turkey is in very peaceful spot of world and does not need huge military readiness.


If there are such serious problems then surely there's no option.... I wish though that Turkey was more peaceful with its neighbors and finalized in peaceful ways all the Cyprus/Kurdish/Armenian/Greek... conflicts. Sometimes I have a feeling like Turkey doesn't really want to do that, but that's my opinion.

165.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:34 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Ok... this is YOUR view. What if for somebody else the army has far more harmful effects then all the positives you outlined? What if there are MANY men for whom the army is harmful and gives no positive benefits...?



Once their medical status is established as such, by army Doctors, they are sent to work in the tourist industry, where they serve as valiant dudus.

166.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:36 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

Once their medical status is established as such, by army Doctors, they are send to work in the tourist industry, where they serve as valiant dudus.


I that what happened to you and that's why you're so bitter now? That makes sense..

167.       ciko
784 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:42 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Ok... this is YOUR view. What if for somebody else the army has far more harmful effects then all the positives you outlined? What if there are MANY men for whom the army is harmful and gives no positive benefits...?



i am one of those men the army gave me absolutely NOTHING!!!

168.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:48 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting white-wolf:

Hmmm, let start neighbors from west:
-Greece : remember "megali idea" or "enosis"? do you remember Greece's last invasion of Asia Minor that checked near to Ankara? Or some Greeks' dream about Constantine and Symirna? Or their huge amount of weapon buyings?
-Bulgaria : their exodus of Turk-Muslim citizens at 1990s?
-Georgia : no threat here.
-Armenia : their dream about "great Armenia" and lost lands? Their unwillingness of erasing constitution paragraphs that demands on Turkish lands? Or their continuing invasion on %20 of Azerbaijan lands. Their hate of Turks?
-Iran : Their dream about exporting "Islam Republic" to Turkey?
-Iraq : N.Iraqi Kurds who dream about a united Kurdistan. Also remeber that crazy Saddam and his army.
-Syria : Still shows Hatay in their maps as a part of Syria. Recent home of Öcalan.
- Cyprus : Guess which country passport Öcalan was carrying when he was caught.

Please remember these are the just Turkey's immediate neighbors. There are others like Russia who demanded Kars and unrestricted access from straits back 1950s.

Then, tell me Turkey is in very peaceful spot of world and does not need huge military readiness.


If there are such serious problems then surely there's no option.... I wish though that Turkey was more peaceful with its neighbors and finalized in peaceful ways all the Cyprus/Kurdish/Armenian/Greek... conflicts. Sometimes I have a feeling like Turkey doesn't really want to do that, but that's my opinion.



Check out the variance in Turkish-Greek relations, since both countries are independent.

You may be surprided that peace prevails between these contries, onlr when Turkia holds the upper hand. As soon as the neifgbor starts feeling Turkia has other problems too or Europeans convince her that they have full support of Europe and, surely Turkia is a piece of cake for Greece - problems start.

Pls dont reply crap, before you do your homework. Check it out first !

169.       white-wolf
55 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:51 pm

Quoting catwoman:


If there are such serious problems then surely there's no option.... I wish though that Turkey was more peaceful with its neighbors and finalized in peaceful ways all the Cyprus/Kurdish/Armenian/Greek... conflicts. Sometimes I have a feeling like Turkey doesn't really want to do that, but that's my opinion.


Fair enough.

Yes, sometimes I fell that Turkey moves like a clumsy bully. But, One must remember that "Serves treaty" effect of Turkish Mentality.

170.       ciko
784 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:53 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

Quoting ciko:

Quoting catwoman:

Ok... this is YOUR view. What if for somebody else the army has far more harmful effects then all the positives you outlined? What if there are MANY men for whom the army is harmful and gives no positive benefits...?



i am one of those men the army gave me absolutely NOTHING!!!



Nothing to nothing...It shows!



good answer alpha you are being like femme lately well done..go on go on

171.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:55 pm

Quoting ciko:

good answer alpha you are being like femme lately well done..go on go on


Don't offend femme! That's a serious insult!!!

172.       ciko
784 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 04:57 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting ciko:

good answer alpha you are being like femme lately well done..go on go on


Don't offend femme! That's a serious insult!!!



i meant to praise him but yes you are right..i think it was insult. i am sorry Femme...forgive me

173.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 05:00 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting white-wolf:

Hmmm, let start neighbors from west:
-Greece : remember "megali idea" or "enosis"? do you remember Greece's last invasion of Asia Minor that checked near to Ankara? Or some Greeks' dream about Constantine and Symirna? Or their huge amount of weapon buyings?
-Bulgaria : their exodus of Turk-Muslim citizens at 1990s?
-Georgia : no threat here.
-Armenia : their dream about "great Armenia" and lost lands? Their unwillingness of erasing constitution paragraphs that demands on Turkish lands? Or their continuing invasion on %20 of Azerbaijan lands. Their hate of Turks?
-Iran : Their dream about exporting "Islam Republic" to Turkey?
-Iraq : N.Iraqi Kurds who dream about a united Kurdistan. Also remeber that crazy Saddam and his army.
-Syria : Still shows Hatay in their maps as a part of Syria. Recent home of Öcalan.
- Cyprus : Guess which country passport Öcalan was carrying when he was caught.

Please remember these are the just Turkey's immediate neighbors. There are others like Russia who demanded Kars and unrestricted access from straits back 1950s.

Then, tell me Turkey is in very peaceful spot of world and does not need huge military readiness.


If there are such serious problems then surely there's no option.... I wish though that Turkey was more peaceful with its neighbors and finalized in peaceful ways all the Cyprus/Kurdish/Armenian/Greek... conflicts. Sometimes I have a feeling like Turkey doesn't really want to do that, but that's my opinion.


Well said catwoman..
That is what our brainwashing does to us unfortunately.
We are all paranoid. It is what is taught in schools what is taught in the army. This idea of 'we have been circled by the enemies' has kind of historical background as well because of WW1, our independence war, all western powers tried to erase Turkish from the map 100 years ago etc.

But now the time is different! The way the wars are fought is different.
We should stop being paranoid first with our neighbors. We should stop thinking that there is going to be a war tomorrow. Otherwise we will never taste the peace!

And about the army. There should be a professional army. It is a huge waste to keep a million young people there and teach nothing and let them do nothing! (btw. reading/writing rate is quite high in turkey right now. So it is not necesssary to teach them how to read and write. Even if it is still the case then pour money to the education then the army!!)
===
I should also add this as a quick info that, I think, our problem with racism in Turkey has a lot to do with the army as well.

174.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 05:59 pm

Who erased SOME's post? It is not fair, at all !

175.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 06:23 pm

Quoting white-wolf:


Hmmm, let start neighbors from west:
-Greece : remember "megali idea" or "enosis"? do you remember Greece's last invasion of Asia Minor that checked near to Ankara? Or some Greeks' dream about Constantine and Symirna? Or their huge amount of weapon buyings?
-Bulgaria : their exodus of Turk-Muslim citizens at 1990s?
-Georgia : no threat here.
-Armenia : their dream about "great Armenia" and lost lands? Their unwillingness of erasing constitution paragraphs that demands on Turkish lands? Or their continuing invasion on %20 of Azerbaijan lands. Their hate of Turks?
-Iran : Their dream about exporting "Islam Republic" to Turkey?
-Iraq : N.Iraqi Kurds who dream about a united Kurdistan. Also remeber that crazy Saddam and his army.
-Syria : Still shows Hatay in their maps as a part of Syria. Recent home of Öcalan.
- Cyprus : Guess which country passport Öcalan was carrying when he was caught.

Please remember these are the just Turkey's immediate neighbors. There are others like Russia who demanded Kars and unrestricted access from straits back 1950s.

Then, tell me Turkey is in very peaceful spot of world and does not need huge military readiness.


176.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 06:33 pm

Quoting white-wolf:


I think "my two cents" is an idiom that means "here my thoughts about subject" that used in English writings


and i must be an idiot (that doesnt know the idioms) talking to children here lol

177.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 06:35 pm

Quoting ciko:



good answer alpha you are being like femme lately well done..go on go on


i know omga tries to copy me, but he fails only.

178.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 06:49 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:


it must be that very well known turkish politeness to call someone nothing!


And also you should add 'calling someone brainless' into that politeness as well. I have been quite patient so far!!

179.       teaschip
3870 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 07:24 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting white-wolf:

Hmmm, let start neighbors from west:
-Greece : remember "megali idea" or "enosis"? do you remember Greece's last invasion of Asia Minor that checked near to Ankara? Or some Greeks' dream about Constantine and Symirna? Or their huge amount of weapon buyings?
-Bulgaria : their exodus of Turk-Muslim citizens at 1990s?
-Georgia : no threat here.
-Armenia : their dream about "great Armenia" and lost lands? Their unwillingness of erasing constitution paragraphs that demands on Turkish lands? Or their continuing invasion on %20 of Azerbaijan lands. Their hate of Turks?
-Iran : Their dream about exporting "Islam Republic" to Turkey?
-Iraq : N.Iraqi Kurds who dream about a united Kurdistan. Also remeber that crazy Saddam and his army.
-Syria : Still shows Hatay in their maps as a part of Syria. Recent home of Öcalan.
- Cyprus : Guess which country passport Öcalan was carrying when he was caught.

Please remember these are the just Turkey's immediate neighbors. There are others like Russia who demanded Kars and unrestricted access from straits back 1950s.

Then, tell me Turkey is in very peaceful spot of world and does not need huge military readiness.


If there are such serious problems then surely there's no option.... I wish though that Turkey was more peaceful with its neighbors and finalized in peaceful ways all the Cyprus/Kurdish/Armenian/Greek... conflicts. Sometimes I have a feeling like Turkey doesn't really want to do that, but that's my opinion.


Well said catwoman..
That is what our brainwashing does to us unfortunately.
We are all paranoid. It is what is taught in schools what is taught in the army. This idea of 'we have been circled by the enemies' has kind of historical background as well because of WW1, our independence war, all western powers tried to erase Turkish from the map 100 years ago etc.

But now the time is different! The way the wars are fought is different.
We should stop being paranoid first with our neighbors. We should stop thinking that there is going to be a war tomorrow. Otherwise we will never taste the peace!

And about the army. There should be a professional army. It is a huge waste to keep a million young people there and teach nothing and let them do nothing! (btw. reading/writing rate is quite high in turkey right now. So it is not necesssary to teach them how to read and write. Even if it is still the case then pour money to the education then the army!!)
===
I should also add this as a quick info that, I think, our problem with racism in Turkey has a lot to do with the army as well.



I agree with both of you handsom and catwoman, I must be in a good mood...

180.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 07:53 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting ciko:



good answer alpha you are being like femme lately well done..go on go on


i know omga tries to copy me, but he fails only.


+111111 lol

181.       femme_fatal
0 posts
 17 Dec 2007 Mon 07:56 pm

Quoting white-wolf:


I think 'my two cents' is an idiom that means 'here my thoughts about subject' that used in English writings


im an idiot trying to talk the common sense.

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