Ramayan,
she made her comments and i did mine..so what's wrong with it? be a mad-blooded for a second
Kelebek,
manly man - womanly woman..it takes you nowhere!
the correct form shall be "to be human - or humanly human..whatever it is correctly"
so you see, you're thanking to a man and he is turkish.
think twice before criticising. it's a paradox, and nobody needs your repeatations.

It's really hard to discuss on a forum like this if you are not allowed to generalize things. You just need to remember there are always differences.

I think about the possessing-thing, this is definitely true for many turkish men. On the other hand, i think turkish men love much stronger than many others. I really start to believe Istanbul is the heart of the world and that turkey's culture is built strong upon love.

Something else, i think the best man is the man that is somehwere in between the manly man and the gayish man (gayish as in kelebek's posts).
I think love makes strong (manly), but also weak ('gayish'). I don't like the word gayish too much though..

In the love i feel myself (because i think most theories count for both women and men), i sometimes feel like a woman, sometimes like a girl. I think it's good if a man feels like a man, a strong man, that protects you, most of the time, and that he sometimes feels like a silly little boy in your arms. You must have both sides, weakness and strongness, too much of one of them will kill..

canim.... my father is turk.. hehehe.. baba..u have woke up from wrong side today Bark... but u have a point..it doesnt take u anywhere...

peace to u

Let's end the useless discussion anyhow Language is a too beautiful thing to be spoilt on useless words and points. No hard feelings is the last thing I'd like to say about it

Btw, is that Ferhat and Sirin a true happened story? It sounds like a reproduction on Romeo and Juliet Or Shakespear stole it from you guys

smartly said Deli-kizin...

very smartly said..

thank u..

true..maybe gayish is a wrong word ,but gayish is a saying in english..it doesnt mean gay!!!!!

It's a completely true story....it happened in iran..and the evidence is still there.. its beautiful aint it?

i have gone to the place...

Sorry did you mean Gayish as in happy?

I only know the meaning of gay as in

1) homosexual
2) happy

Wow that's really a beautiful story then I hope to visit Iran one day too. One of my closest friends is from Iran, she still speaks Farsi at home. I'm really fascinated by it and i would love to see the country one day. But my first aim is to discover Türkiye, which will take me quite some time

Kelebek,
1. i'm not your "canim"
2. congratulations that your father is turkish!
3. everybody gets his/her answer if he/she irritates somebody(s)
4. peace for you too.
goodnight!